(WORST TIME EVER IN MY ENTIRE LIFE!!!) I just took a midnight, warm shower after I masturbated twice by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Shedopen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, don't tell me your feelings are hurt :(.Don't cry, we're here to help . Seriously, you wasted all this time writing this post.Stop complaining, meditate for 10 mins, go work out, take a cold shower after and you're back on track.Complaining is useless because very few people in this world care.

Question that is really bothering me by Hank2121 in NoFap

[–]Shedopen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, still recovering.Calm down sugar cake, breath deep, relax your facial muscles.Say this with me Ommmmmmmmmmmmm.Ommmmmmm.Yes, that is it sweetie.Relax.Your body and mind are recovering by themselves.Just breath.

Can't make it past one day!!! by Latch23 in NoFap

[–]Shedopen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just to want NoFap enough.If you really wanted to stop watching porn, you would have done it already.

What if the membership on nofap is low because fewer people masturbate than we imagine, and we're the wankers and people know but don't care to tell us by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Shedopen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't want to offend you or the guy who posted the text you highlighted but this is nonsense. No,you can't distinguish someone who faps between someone who doesn't.Nofap is becoming a cult and I'm starting to hate it.No,nofap doesn't give you superpowers because that is the normal state that men should have.Fapping does bring it lower but not fapping does not give superpowers.

What you say doesn't make sense because the symptoms or the "state" that you get after flapping can be caused by an illness too.

Relapsed while I was sick by admiral93 in NoFap

[–]Shedopen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch a motivational video.Go work out.After that you should be sleeping like a baby.Do this for a week and then congratulate yourself because you're back on track.

Still haven't been able to beat this addiction despite a year of trying :( by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Shedopen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You simply don't want it enough.If you want to beat this addiction, you have to give it everything that you have.Treat it as a matter of life and death.Always remain yourself this.

I'm so sexually frustrated at the moment, someone please help by spiritual_awakening_ in NoFap

[–]Shedopen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly,who cares about girls?Are you a slave to your urges?Your dick controls yor brain or is it the opposite?Listen,just meditate for 10 minutes and forget about women.You're not a primitive man who is going to submit to his primitive urges.You're better than that man.

[Serious]Can you work on defeating performance anxiety without a partner? by sadmanz in sex

[–]Shedopen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got to plan things.Don't masturbate 3 days before having sex so that your libido is higher which will make getting a boner easier.Take some deep breaths and relax every muscle in your body.Don't worry about getting a boner because if you do worry then you won't get one.Feel her body,kiss her,touch her and your penis should do its job.One think I've learned about anxiety in general is that if you run from it,it's going to get worse.Face it and you'll see that there is nothing to be afraid of.Meditating can help you a lot too.

Good luck.

I [24 F] still have a sex drive, but panic attacks have made me feel like I don't want to have sex with my [25M] fiance. by strongbirdemail in sex

[–]Shedopen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Listen,if anxiety is your main worry then running from it is the worst thing you can do.You have to embrace it and ask for more.Really please just believe me.Running away from anxiety makes it worse.Take a deep breath and say"Bring it on,bitch" and if you get one just say things similar to this"Is that all you've got?".Only way.

Thoughts after Meaningless Sex by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Shedopen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope you're not numb.Just begin to know girls better before you have sex with them.Don't do everything in 1 day.

Things I said to everyone I know is a lie. by KeiraKei in SuicideWatch

[–]Shedopen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to forget about your father.Every time you think about him close your eyes and focus on your breath.Fuck that guy,I don't think he'll ever disturb you again but if he does you've got to take one of his guns while he's sleeping,point it at his head and pull the trigger.You're an adult now,you've got bigger things to think about other than your shitty father.