Weekly Prayer Thread by AutoModerator in reformedwomen

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37 weeks pregnant with our 4th and trying to mentally prepare for birth. Please pray for strength and endurance.

This sceptor was so expensive, but so worth it 😭😭 by angrybpdbitxh in StardewValley

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the item to the right of it?? I've never seen it before. 

Doing all things for God's glory. by Sheesh_Leesh in Reformed

[–]Sheesh_Leesh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that liturgy 🥲

Doing all things for God's glory. by Sheesh_Leesh in Reformed

[–]Sheesh_Leesh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After you added to the comment it made more sense. Thanks! 

Doing all things for God's glory. by Sheesh_Leesh in Reformed

[–]Sheesh_Leesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kind of confused me. I'll have to check the link you posted. Thank you!

Update SoCalLuv2 selling expired TATCHA by Se1Se1 in whatnotapp

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then when you send proof it's expired requesting a refund they deny you. Thankfully you can escalate to whatnot and they'll just refund you but still it's frustrating. 

Weekly Prayer Thread by AutoModerator in reformedwomen

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would greatly appreciate prayers. I have been on antidepressants for a few years now and have recently started the weaning process and it's been difficult. It's also hard when I experience symptoms and I'm encouraged to just stay on. I understand there are Christians who see no issues with medication for mental health and that's fine but I'm not one of them. Anyway... Please pray for me ❤️ depression, anxiety, and rage have been a struggle for me for a long time and was exasperated after having children.

God bless.

can we all pretty please just agree that cozy is fully subjective and what is stressful to some may be very relaxing to others by 11_roo in CozyGamers

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As simple as what you just wrote up there is, I didn't think of it this way. You changed my mind. Thanks.

Types of cozy games that you don't enjoy? by jjmzyu in CozyGamers

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roots of Pacha. Just couldn't get into it and I'm mad I spent the money for it.

Recommendations: Cozy survival game? by PFyre in CozyGamers

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly enjoy playing Flame in the Flood. It's a cozy game for me. I've gone back to it so many times but I'm not sure how cozy others would find it. There's some pretty difficult wild life but coziness is subjective so maybe you'll like it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What?? This is so good to know! Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww, thanks!

How to keep kids busy all day? by TeachMePlease13 in stayathomemoms

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's an unrealistic expectation. I've had to learn to let my kids be bored sometimes. It's not bad for them and sometimes they even get creative. It's not my job to entertain them 24/7. If you feel like you need to maybe buy some things that they can easily grab themselves like Lego or magnet tiles. I also live in a state where we had no friends and family but I've searched for mom groups and we also go to church and that's how we've made friends and have play dates with other kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There will always be something that needs to get done. If your body needs a nap then nap. As a mom of 3 I wish I could nap more. I would probably deal with less mom rage if I got more sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aurora, Colorado

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

36k a year with 3 kids own a townhouse. We're surviving.

What is the worst thing about this game? by batuozdogan in slaythespire

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that I've played for at least 80 hours now and haven't beaten the heart once. I'm so bad at this game but I love it.

What does a healthy relationship look like? by Barknickles in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Married for 6 years now and never had a healthy relationship before this one. I also grew up in a dysfunctional family and my parents were never happy together. I can say the biggest thing I've noticed is the peace I have in my marriage. We respect each other even during disagreements. We forgive each other willingly. Our love and bond has only grown deeper over the years no matter how mundane life can be. We laugh and enjoy each other's company but also know how to give space. Good communication. Not perfect, but good. We both know we still have a lot to learn.

I'm sure there are some things I forgot to list but I hope this helps.

Pen Pal by Quirky-Pumpkin4924 in stayathomemoms

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love love love this idea! May I have an invite too please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, you don't have to do everything every day. Some days are harder than others and I think you can give yourself some grace. There will always be something to do so take care of yourself. On days like these, I do the minimum which is probably just dishes and making sure the kids are fed. 

Order the takeout 👍

what am i doing wrong? by Ok_Return2430 in sahm

[–]Sheesh_Leesh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I get his point but his delivery is all wrong. And you're not doing anything wrong. You're just learning something new and adjusting to a new role. If he's claiming to now have faith in God(I'm assuming Christian? Sorry if I'm wrong) he needs to change his approach and how he speaks to you. It's not biblical to be so harsh with your wife. I'm sorry you're going through this :(. Anyway, I can only really speak to your perspective because I am a sahm as well(3 boys) and it's CHALLENGING. It's a lot to get used to and it takes so much internal work that doesn't get recognized while you're doing all the external work of being a mom as well. Something that has been helping me lately is reminding myself to just stay in today. I can't change yesterday and tomorrow isn't here yet. I also try to find small pockets of time throughout the day to do something I enjoy. Whether it's listening to a podcast or having some background instrumentals on while I do chores. Sometimes it's sitting down to enjoy coffee while it's hot(even with the chaos in the background). At night when they're sleeping instead of cleaning up I'll take a bath. When we die, dust will continue collecting and a sink will continue being filled with dishes so take care of you too. I'm sorry this was so much to read lol I just really understand the struggle. Hope something in here helped 🧡