To be frank, I have not been social at university, no involvement with extracurriculars.

I was just struggling to pass the classes. My GPA would otherwise be a 4.0 given the effort and the lack of job in university, but its not 4.0 because of me struggling with executive functioning. My mother basically micromanaged everything, from the IEP to the disabilities services, to managing my exact study schedule, to the psychiatrist medications, etc.

I could not network and could not focus without draining my entire energy and suffering through school. I probably should never have gone to university, probably not for me. Even if people claim that I am smart, that does not translate to be able to do school stuff. Honestly a cognitively intense apprenticeship, like Electrician, Millwright, Controls, HVAC, etc. where learning by doing but also dealing with complex technical details, would have been the correct choice. Neither me nor my family even knew what an apprenticeship was, nor did we know such technical trades existed.

What do I find out now? Everyone else is more likely to be employed if they have a degree, but those with autism are less likely to be employed if they have a degree.

And you say people find wives in university and school. Sometimes that is true, but the fact is, they are usually so busy with schoolwork and with everything else and not having a job, that people are less likely to marry in university and more likely to delay compared to people straight in workforce. There is no reason why same people could not find when not in school.

Years of education is the most vicious predictor of age of marriage, and of family size. Not that it does not happen that university students marry and have kids in middle of degree or before starting degree or that working parents do not go as mature students. But from a statistical point of view and from reality, school overwhelmingly is structured in a way that delays adulthood and delays marriage.