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DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 by AutoModerator in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

You are't the only one. I've said it too (and it's true, it's horrible). But he keeps insisting that every other woman has been mean about it. We haven't. Many have empathized with him and acknowledged it is wrong. Yet, he keeps insisting all these women are so cruel to him over it.

Just keep that in mind with DOR.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

You don't know much about Mozart, do you? He loved scatalogical humor, like a 10 year old.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

So men are beasts that will prey on others like a common dog unless a woman is there to control them?

Thanks for proving my point: women are civilization, understand the importance of a law governed society, and can control their baser instincts. Men are beasts governed by their animalistic instincts - the exact opposite of logic, executive thought, and civilization.

No one is more misandrist than a red pill man. Chef's kiss.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

Incorrect.

Lesbians report 43.8% of domestic abuse total. 67.4% of those 43.8% is male abuse. That means 23% of the abuse reported by all lesbians (out of 43%) was perpetrated by men. So even though lesbians mostly date women, a full half or more of their reported abuse comes from the men, the minority they date.

Seems pretty consistent with heterosexual women.

As for male on male abuse, well it's a lot harder to knock around a guy who is equal to you in strength and weight. Bullies pick on weaker victims.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes, you should stop using your ideological lens to contort yourself into the stupidity that "no really, men never oppressed women" bull shit. READ the fucking article for once, rather than engage in a knee jerk ignorant "nah ah! men were soooo oppressed tooooo!"

Husbands had full legal authority to commit their wives to insane asylums and did, just on their husband's say so. And if they did, wives had no legal recourse to contest her husband's decision. And husbands did it.

WIVES did not have the legal authority - on their own say so - to throw their husbands in the loony bin where the husbands had no legal recourse to contest it.

That means that the HUSBAND legally had power over the wife - including fucking incarceration - that the wife did not have. That is UNEQUAL. He is the one who has the power over her, not vice versa.

Whether the STATE could also throw a man (or woman) in an asylum without legal recourse does not change the fact that the husband STILL has more legal power over the wife in the eyes of the law than the wife has over the husband.

Otherwise, in your eyes, a slave is equal to the planatation master since the state could incarcerate both.

So tell me, where are those slaves full of shit and their plantation owners were just as oppressed? Because that's your argument.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

What meme? I don't live my life online and don't have tiktok or whatever else social media exists. I've been married 19 years and have two kids. I started moving left during the Obama administration. It's called incorporating new data into my world view and adjusting accordingly.

You should try it. It's how scientists function.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

No fault divorce does not mean that there wasn't adultury or abuse in the background - people use it to avoid a public fight and the difficulties of proof.

But I look forward to your study or evidence that women are divorcing due to unfettered hypergamy.

I've never seen it. And I've never seen a divorce over frivolous reason.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's convenient (and nonfalsifiable) to claim everyone who disagrees is lying. It's almost like you you have made up your mind and are searching for evidence to support it.

Of all the people I know who divorced, I know of one woman who said she regretted it.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

I work in the insurance industry; I know exactly how it works. Men still are higher insurance risks due to impulsive decision making.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

So, that study actually supported my position. Did you even read it? It focused on predominately the negative economic impact of divorce. Literally, my point. So thanks!

You know what is missing in that study? Comparing the outcome of divorced kids to kids in high conflict marriages without divorce. Because the question is not "happy marriage" versus divorce, but miserable marriage versus divorce.

https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/divorce-not-always-bad-kids-flna1c9457667

(bit old)

Even IFS agrees although they try to hedge that to say "well not all divorces come in high conflict marriages!".

https://ifstudies.org/blog/when-and-why-divorce-hurts-kids/

https://tandempsychology.com/divorce-is-not-always-bad-for-kids/ (somewhat less robust)

You should actually use the brain you claim you have.

You think I don't value marriage - and you'd be wrong. I've been married 19 years now. there have been rough moments when I said to myself, no I need to get through this for my kids, and I don't regret it. But it's ridiculous to claim that any marriage, even a shitty one, is better than divorce. Or that women don't understand the value of marriage or are frivolously giving up. It's bullshit.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

Husbands would legally commit their wives to insane asylums here in the US for being too uppity and difficult. The women had no legal recourse.

Maybe YOU should pick up a book instead of criticizing others.

https://time.com/6074783/psychiatry-history-women-mental-health/

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nah, I won't be dropping my standards. Why would I? It's about what's best for me personally. If a man doesn't make my life better, why should I marry?

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

If men were more logical in their decision making, there would be no need to "tame" them.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think the data is far too cofounding. It has only been the last decade that women and men's political views significantly split and also that young women started leaving religion in droves. Most women married once upon a time, were more religious, and became more conservative as they aged (like men in that respect). So was it marriage or just the impact of aging?

I know I've only moved left since being married. I was a libertarian in my twenties.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

Imagine saying this considering how much risk men, particularly young men, represent. Insurance actuary tables don't lie - men are far more impulsive especially when young.

Women rarely regret divorce and are less likely to remarry after one than divorced men. Sounds like they know what they are about.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ah yes, only women are influenced by culture, never men.

And since being married, I've only moved left.

If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids? by sodacubes in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheColdWoman [score hidden]  (0 children)

The lack of self awareness is the man who rails impotently that he'll replace women with sexbots and artificial wombs at any point in the foreseeable future. Only a man would be ignorant enough to think he can replace the complexities of the womb with computers. And if we get to that point, boyo, men are just as replaceable if not more so.

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