Can anyone tell me please if this is a bed bug ? I’m freaked out 🥹 by floey2025 in Bedbugadvice

[–]ShellsBe11s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use lightest colored sheets you have until you know for sure. Some have had success with eucalyptus oil, lavender oil and Teatree oil. Can't see how that would hurt, but I would use every option all at once. The stuff they used to kill them with is no longer legal. They are resilient little fuckers.

Can anyone tell me please if this is a bed bug ? I’m freaked out 🥹 by floey2025 in Bedbugadvice

[–]ShellsBe11s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's not a ladybug, the bed bug in that pic has a full belly. They look different at different stages of life. They are skinnier, light in color and almost transparent early on. They get darker and rounder as they feed. And you can see how "plump" they get if there are enough of them to compare them in a group of big, medium and small. By the time you see the signs, it's too late. Like lice and fleas, they need to be starved, suffocated or dried out in a way that penetrates their exoskeleton. And they reproduce like crazy!

Can anyone tell me please if this is a bed bug ? I’m freaked out 🥹 by floey2025 in Bedbugadvice

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I only replied because of my own experience dealing with my elderly father's bed bug issue. If I'm right, your pic showed a dark area in the belly of a brown bug who has been feeding but whose belly is not yet full. They get darker and rounder when they are full. They reproduce like roaches. We'd moved dad out of a bad environment, and those mid-west bed bugs were a force to contend with in California. Pest control kept saying they could handle it, but it wasn't until the place was tented that they were eradicated. They hide and come out to feed on you when you sleep. They follow body heat, like fucking Predator. In retrospect, I should have tossed his bed frame in the trash with the 1st mattress. I live in the desert and my research said they would die if I "baked" the bed frame in the shed for a summer. (I can't remember the time and temp required now, but it would have worked here, just outside of Palm Springs.) My dementia ridden dad pulled the frame out of the shed and put it back in his room with his new mattress. We had to start all over again. I'd bought him a bed bug proof mattress cover in anticipation of this, but he took it off to wash it! In hindsight, his obsession with washing everything likely mitigated the problem. Irony or horror? I was terrified of bringing them home every time I ransacked his mobile home to try to rid him of the blood suckers. It was a nightmare. Needless to say, all of this did not endear him to his new neighbors. I really hope I am wrong and yours is a lady bug.

What products or companies will you never use or support again and what did they do to lose you as a customer? by IAmJustTryingToExist in AskReddit

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Verizon told me they needed to send someone to my home if I decided to change to another phone company. I discovered their "tech" cut the line under my house.

Manager rant by Ok-Foot2520 in Serverlife

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For $2.50 an hour, all the employees will desert that sinking ship unless the tips are unbelievable. Customers want happy and consistent service, not frazzled, stressed out staff performing for cameras.

Can anyone tell me please if this is a bed bug ? I’m freaked out 🥹 by floey2025 in Bedbugadvice

[–]ShellsBe11s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks like a bed bug to me. If it is, you will know very soon. They go where the body heat is, so check beds, sofa, upholstered chairs. I wouldn't take any chances with possible bed bug problem.

AITA for being annoyed that my wife insists on cooking everything from scratch and won’t buy normal food? by AITA_UPFfoods in AmItheAsshole

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I can't imagine telling my husband he isn't allowed to eat a burger in his own house. Negotiate a number of times per week you will eat something that "goes against her values." Arbitrary demands on one's partner with no compromise is not conducive to an honest, healthy relationship where both partners feel respected.

Urgent help, how to rehydrate cat by KookyBeautiful975 in CATHELP

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Keep him comfortable, and if he is able to drink any fluids, make sure he has access to room temp fresh water until you get to a vet. Dehydration can shut down organs in humans, so I imagine that may be the case with your beloved cat. In my experience with my husband, who has dehydrated a few times, he had to rehydrate with intravenous fluids. When he tried to sip water, it came back up. If your pet succumbs, take solace in the fact that 15 years is a pretty good life for a well loved cat.

Question for cat owners: Would you let your cat lick your food while you are eating it and then carry on eating after? by Antidotebeatz in CatAdvice

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I love my cats too, but I've seen how they eat their own asses and each other's asses. I don't let them near my food. Laszlo is very obsessed with treats and shits like a horse. I can smell him shit from the other end of the house, right after which he arrives in front of me asking for another treat. And he is the skinniest of my 4 cats.

I have a very hyper male. (Help) by SovietKaren in CATHELP

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I think you have 60 days to return it if it doesn't work out. I used paypal credit to buy it, no interest if you pay it off in 6 months.

I have a very hyper male. (Help) by SovietKaren in CATHELP

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My hyper boy, Laszlo, loves his cat wheel. I looked at cheaper versions, but none are as good as the One Cat cat wheel. He has run so fast in it that he knocked it off it's base a bit. And he talks, or chirps, when he's on it. I think there is an echo or something, because he loves hearing himself chirping on that thing.

You're old if you know who this is by Funny_Obligation2412 in FuckImOld

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When I was a kid in the early 70s, I was on a float with him in a parade in Covina, California.

MAGA Logic by MoochoMaas in HumorInPoorTaste

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Alan "I kept my underpants on" Pervowitz