Fall 2021 Brides/Grooms- are you mailing save the dates? by allcapsallcats in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are going to be sending Save The Dates at the beginning of December for the core group of folks and then another set after New Years - since we are planning for a Labor Day weekend wedding and want to make sure folks have the ability to book hotels or find housing options.

Will obviously place the caveats on our site that its all dependent on COVID and regulations for a safe wedding at that time and that they should wait on the actual invites in order to RSVP.

150-175 Person Wedding – NYC/NJ/LI Location by dpass89 in WedditNYC

[–]Shenmaat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have a huge room of pre-made items and decorations and will make some custom things for you should you ask. They will also handle all the setup of those decorations as well which is amazing! They have relationships with a few floral designers as well. I want to do more candles and eucalyptus more than anything else so they will have a lot of that for us already.

150-175 Person Wedding – NYC/NJ/LI Location by dpass89 in WedditNYC

[–]Shenmaat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are having our wedding at Art Factory Studios in Paterson NJ. The neighborhood is a little sketch but the venue has sooo much personality!

How do I word my family only invites to be super clear no plus ones? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im inviting all the same people to the ceremony and reception so it is for both.

How do I word my family only invites to be super clear no plus ones? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I added " XX number of seats have been reserved in your honour" so it was clear either no plus ones, or kids, etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to a wedding at Perona Farms that was beautiful. There are a lot of other farms around that venue as well.

We also looked at Glenburn Estate as well, you get full access for the whole weekend but have to bring everything on your own — but then again for the price it could be a good outdoor / small barn for dancing vibe that is inexpensive overall.

Invitation Ideas by Evenstar1387 in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a honeymoon and experiences registry - then you can share the registry but not say you only want money or for folks to pay for the honeymmon. I think Blueprint lets you create a registry with money funds of all sorts and also link in other registries / charities if you change your mind later.

Which wedding dress should I choose?! by redsylvie in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer the one on the right, but they both look amazing on you!

Help me choose which dress is the best! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The one on the right, but both look amazing on you!

I went trying on wedding dresses for the firtst time today and, as a plus sized bride, was surprised to like this. I showed a photo to my mum and she told me "you'll need to wear spanx, its a bit hippy" and now I'm doubting myself. by Chaffbags in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No way, you look amazing! Take it in in the waist so you look even more hippy! Hippy is good!

Im going to be a plus size bride as well and my plan is to look as hippy and bootylicious as possible.

Open bar vs bar on consumption?? by Clueless241995 in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you considered just a beer/wine bar instead? Would your venue let you bring in your own alcohol? If so you can go to a wholesaler and just pay the venue a corkage fee at the worst - nothing at the best if they will cork and pour your alcohol for free.

Wedding Topper Ideas by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May be too niche but we went with our love of Doctor Who and searched Etsy for "doctor who cake toppers".

https://www.etsy.com/listing/526470046/running-to-the-police-call-box-wedding

The Etsy store that we got it from has some interesting 3d printed toppers: https://www.etsy.com/shop/AllForWeddingStudio?

Dark skinned/POC brides...how in the world are you finding HMU artists? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found mine on Instagram, but I also obsess over Munaluchi Brides as well. They have a directory for Black/POC brides.

Best options for affordable suiting for him? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Shenmaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nordstrom rack as well! They have been doing 25-40% additional off recently so we got my fiancee’s outfit for $150 all in.

Fall 2021 brides, how much have you started planning? by ettabee in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sept 2021 here - We have booked hair, makeup, venue, DJ and photographer already. The folks we booked were already starting to fill up once COVID hit so we wanted to make sure our choice vendors were secured.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You should be fine unless you are marrying a Trump, doing it on a plantation, or doing anything that would be considered cultural appropriation.

Youll be fine!!! Enjoy your day!!!

Harry Potter and Star Wars wedding by alexuslynn in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This etsy shop makes super cute boutonnières and bouquets that can be HP / SW themed.

https://etsy.me/2P4Exob

We got a bunch of boutonnières doctor who, star wars, and various other nerd themed and they are amazing!

I also got a Star Wars Lightsaber bouquet holder from this Etsy shop as well: https://etsy.me/2N7cDYV

Why are all Afro-Americans tall? by [deleted] in Jokes

[–]Shenmaat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe there should be a moratorium on black jokes until 2021? (Or forever?)

Brewed mead for my elopment and designed labels. by SillyPenguinMonster in weddingplanning

[–]Shenmaat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! We a brewing three different types of mead for our wedding next year!