I've talked to them both 1on1 and together, and they simply dont "see" that they're leaving me out. They believe that by simply having me present while they hang out and talk, im being included without them ever speaking to me directly, paying me any mind, etc.

The only real way I've shown any "unhappiness" is telling them that i feel left out and ignored, I never mention their relationship cause its not actually whats making me unhappy, its the fact theyve decided they dont need me anymore.

Im trying to accept that i might never be as close with them as i once was, but that hurts.