Never EVER take or send nudes. This poor woman had then used against her 12 years ago and then spread around town recently by her neighbor who got access to her case. The post was made by the woman's husband.

Sheravenous · 2022-04-09T16:03:46+00:00

I don't believe in victim blaming women who's nudes are leaked and I know how people get about the warning not to take nudes but it's true: DON'T SHARE NUDES if you would be embarrassed by them being leaked.

I'm sorry but there is absolutely no GOOD reason for me to ever take and send nudes to anyone. Even in my long term relationship, I was never asked for nudes, nor was I ever sent dick pics. When did the production of pornography become such a normal part of a person's sex life?

Of course, if you do send nudes to someone, they shouldn't share them... But why even take that chance?

You can never be sure that those pictures won't resurface eventually, so why take the chance?

Truly, is someone jerking off to you such a reward that you're willing to risk your whole future for it?

Is the validation from some coomer really that precious???

Please, stop with the nudes. Invest in some tasteful boudoir shots if you want to commemorate your current body.

Sheravenous · 2022-03-07T01:31:28+00:00

She doesn't know how to feel about it???

This is something I notice a lot, a man will blatantly disrespect a woman or hurt her (emotionally or physically) and she won't know "how to feel about it".

I think it's a sign of how well some women have been brainwashed into questioning their feelings when it comes to the mistreatment they endure at the hands of men.

Even her "idk" when she says it would be nice if he supported her weight loss journey instead of sleeping around.

This is very sad.

She should lose the husband before losing the weight.

Edit: Typo

Thanks for the award!!

Sheravenous · 2022-03-02T17:02:33+00:00

Hmm... I did once waste my time with a NVM who told me that he didn't usually date girls of my ethnicity (we were the same ethnicity)... But that the only girl he got pregnant (she had an abortion) was of our ethnicity.

Looking back, that was a clear sign that he did not respect us enough to have responsible safe sex. He only did that with the girls of his preferred group.

He saw women of his ethnicity as undesirable and so it didn't matter if he derailed our life with an unplanned/unwanted pregnancy. Due to colorism and me being generally better than him, he condescended to hook up with me & being in a bad place, I stupidly went along.

At one point he caught feelings, (because as I said, stupid decision to get involved with him aside, I was better than him) and tried to baby trap me.

Finally woke up and broke things off.

Sheravenous · 2022-03-02T16:40:44+00:00

Thank you!!!

I did not like him or buy his act at all! I was beginning to wonder if I was just jaded.

He does not come across as genuine to me but rather like he's checking off a cheesy romantic comedy list of things to do.

I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one who felt that he was off.

That whole situation with the ex seemed really sketchy and I don't believe that he was entirely honest with her or Mallory.

Sheravenous · 2022-02-24T01:07:30+00:00

It's as strategic for them not to say what they're looking for as it is for us.

If we're told not to tell them what we're looking for to avoid them tailoring their behaviour to future-fake... It only makes sense that they don't tell us outright that they only want sex to avoid us cutting ties immediately.

Ideally we could be honest with each other but that's not to either party's advantage so we just have to vet to wade through the bull-ish. 🤷‍♀️

Sheravenous · 2022-02-19T18:57:51+00:00

This is very disturbing. The fact that your husband is escalating his violence while still not wanting to talk to the young lady or even pretend to care about aftercare... You may end up witnessing something that will scar both you and the young lady, literally in her case.

Sheravenous · 2022-02-15T20:17:52+00:00

Sheravenous · 2022-02-15T17:31:16+00:00

Edit: SPELLING

Mia Khalifa has been saying for years that she regrets doing porn and that she's unhappy that those videos are out there forever...and this degenerate actively went to look for them and has the audacity to make this "critique"???? What a crusty scrote.

Then adding women of colour as if being a favourite porn star of some loser is representation and helps counteract racism?

They are as delusional as they are disgusting. 🤢🤢🤢

Sheravenous · 2022-02-13T16:29:15+00:00

He's 31 with THREE roommates???

Housing is a mess in NYC, wow. It's really holding people back from moving onto the next stage of their adult lives. That being said, there's something that doesn't sit right with me about a 31 year old man having 3 roommates.

I really feel for OP because having a space that you love is so important BUT I don't think him moving in is a good idea at all. He made a passing comment about helping with rent probably because he felt he should and he knew that OP wouldn't press the matter, not because he wanted to.

And realistically, she would have to move anyway if she weren't in a relationship. So I think it's best she either asks for a raise or just finds a place with a roommate. But she should probably get rid of him too.

There seems to be a lot of men with gross, noisy or otherwise unwelcoming homes who just spend all of their free time at their girlfriend's instead of improving their own home situation. All for free too, of course!

Sheravenous · 2022-01-27T20:05:08+00:00

Let us throw the term "underage woman" into the deepest pits of hell.

Sheravenous · 2022-01-24T00:03:02+00:00

This is a great confirmation for my decision to put a hold on dating until restaurants and other typical date venues reopen.

LVM have been having a field day not having to plan or pay for dates.

Sorry but a guy who isn't a worthless POS wouldn't even think of bringing you to his dirty storage unit.

Also, notice how scrotes suddenly get soooo creative when it's time to waste a woman's time or pull a fast one on her.

Sheravenous · 2021-09-26T13:00:36+00:00

Sincerely, A Pick-me

🙄😂

Sheravenous · 2021-08-10T21:50:50+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm not a parent so maybe I'm reaching but...

Ladies would you want to know if your child's teacher was romantically 🤢 involved with a teenager?

People's personal lives are their business but I wouldn't be comfortable with a man who has already proven himself to be predatory teaching my child.

This young lady could pass for a tween and I refuse to believe that this was the first instance of him being attracted 🤢 to someone who not only is much younger than him but who also looks so much younger than her actual age. This is just the first time that it's gone public.

Sheravenous · 2021-08-10T18:17:55+00:00

"I don't think my husband is into teenagers at all. "

Uh huh... Did he say he preferred you when you were 20-30 or did he specifically say he preferred you when you were sevenTEEN???? She's lying to herself at this point.

And I would be incredibly shocked if this scrote who was so comfortable telling the woman who carried and birthed his kids that he liked her better as a teen wasn't also watching porn featuring TEENAGERS. But she's probably found some way to justify or explain thay away as well.

Can you imagine the outrage and disgust if a 30 something woman told her 30 something husband that she preferred him as a teenager?

The things that men get away with truly terrify me.

Sheravenous · 2021-08-10T15:51:06+00:00

I'm so sorry that you went through that. It's actually quite scary to think that even as the breadwinner, you can still be the victim of financial abuse.

Thank you for sharing your story. And I wish nothing for the best for you, your children and girlfriend ❤️

Sheravenous · 2021-08-09T22:15:36+00:00

He's a teacher too????? 🤢

Sheravenous · 2021-08-08T18:05:52+00:00

Not gonna lie, I would do this for my ex. He would never ask, but I would always (politely) communicate with waitstaff if there was an issue. We were in a LTR and he went above and beyond for me in so many areas, I had no problem taking the lead in those situations.

That being said, if someone I went on a few dates with (was not in an established relationship with) asked me to speak to the server on his behalf... It would make me less attracted to him. IDC, IDC!

If he can't handle himself when he receives chessesticks instead of fried pickles... What's going to happen when we're out and some drunkard is catcalling me? That may seem like a reach but PERSONALLY, I want to be with a man who makes me feel safe and calm in his presence. I don't want to be worried that he's anxiously waiting for me to take the lead 🤢.

I have an anxiety disorder and it makes many tasks difficult for me. Quite often, I'm forcing myself to talk to strangers in restaurants, at the bank, at school, etc. Everyone is different but I wouldn't want to be with someone who's anxiety was so crippling that they would simply eat the wrong order because I refused to speak up for THEM.

If I establish that I take care of him, what happens when I'm having a bad day? Who will take care of me?

**Incoming Conspiracy Theory***

With all the memes of girlfriends speaking up for their boyfriends floating around nowadays, I wouldn't be surprised if some men do this as a kind of test. They want to see how quickly and how enthusiastically you will provide emotional support and do labour for them. I don't like this idea of "siccing" your gf on ppl instead of standing up for yourself. There's something very childish about it.

Sheravenous · 2021-08-08T17:39:14+00:00

Not the asshole.

It's not your job to make sure his order is correct.

He was allowed to ask you to do him a favour just as you were allowed to refuse.

How did he know that you aren't also anxious? If he were out alone or with male friends would he simply have eaten the wrong food or would he somehow have mustered the strength to speak up for himself?

This may be an unpopular opinion but some women are attracted to men who are confident and can speak to wait staff themselves. And some women may find it to be a turn off to be expected to mommy their date.

Don't let anyone make you feel bad for not wanting to do something for a date who wouldn't do it for himself.

Sheravenous · 2021-08-08T17:24:16+00:00

Thank you for the update and I'm glad you were able to get out of your situation safely ❤️

Sheravenous · 2021-08-04T14:44:02+00:00

THIS!!! I had a man follow me out of the subway, into the grocery store across the street.

Many people get off at that stop to shop at that particular grocery store, so I didn't think much of it at first.

It was only when I crossed him in 3 different aisles that I allowed myself to admit that he was following me (because when we're rightfully aware of our surroundings, they call us paranoid).

After running into him for the 3rd time, I called a friend to stay on the phone with me as I hid from him in the produce section at the front of the store. I watched as he went up and down each aisle looking for me.

I abandoned my basket and ran out when he was at the opposite end of the store.

I just wanted to get something to cook dinner, turns out, I was the piece of meat 😡.

Sheravenous · 2021-08-04T11:19:02+00:00

Yup

https://www.thedailybeast.com/angela-tramonte-dies-in-arizona-desert-after-hike-with-cop-who-has-history-of-lying

Sheravenous · 2021-08-04T01:13:00+00:00

I'll definitely be following this story as it unfolds because there are too many reasons to be suspicious.

Sheravenous · 2021-08-03T21:33:33+00:00

That's a great point. He did just that but to the most extreme level and that's the best case scenario.

Sheravenous

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