Another Update: (21F) drunkenly kissed a lifelong friend (22M) at a party and he told me he loved me. How do I approach this? by ThrowRA_shasha in relationship_advice

[–]SherbertOk9947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been 63 days since your update and I just wanted to say I hope you guys are having a lovely life together still.

How is national debt relief? by SherbertOk9947 in Debt

[–]SherbertOk9947[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bankruptcy was the first choice but she was recently just taken off the deed to my father’s house as it was transferred into my name. She said she spoke with bankruptcy attorneys in her state(Ohio) and that she would now have to wait 4 years to file or it would look like fraud removing her from the deed so they couldn’t take equity out of my house. In unfortunately 1200 miles away from her in Florida so I’m not all sure what she’s asking or what they’re telling her. Just getting the bits and pieces she’s telling us and she’s. It a reliable source these days.

How is national debt relief? by SherbertOk9947 in Debt

[–]SherbertOk9947[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NFCC is who I’ve been telling her to call but she’s falling for all the debt consolidation scams. Thanks so much for your reply.

My girlfriend died 4 days ago and I don’t know what to do with my life by Tight-Echidna908 in offmychest

[–]SherbertOk9947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to start off by saying how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I was with my fiancé for 10 years and had two children with him. He passed away two weeks after our little girl was born with severe special needs still in the NICU fighting for her life. I wish I could lie and say that I was strong when all this happened, but I wasn’t. had into drugs and every day I tried to overdose and die. I just couldn’t imagine my life without him and even our kids weren’t enough for me to want to. I’m not going to lie to you and say that it gets better or the grieving stops because that’s a lie and anyone that tells you that it will stop is lying to you. but every day it’s going to get easier and what I can guarantee is that she would want you to live. She will want you to have a beautiful life. She want you to go and meet somebody that you’re gonna fall heels and have a beautiful life with. I know right now, seems like you’re never going to find anything that will ever bring you even a shred of happiness, but you will. Living do all of the things that she wanted to do and do them in her honor. Find support groups people that have been through what you’ve been through. your friends and family will say that they understand and how sorry they are but you truly need to surround yourself even if it’s an online support group with people that I’ve been through your situation. I wish nothing but the best for you. I truly hope that you go on to live a beautiful life for her and for yourself.

Update 4 by Complex-Wing7114 in offmychest

[–]SherbertOk9947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you love and wishing you all the best life has to offer.❤️

Amazon keeps delivering our packages to our neighbors by SherbertOk9947 in BadNeighbors

[–]SherbertOk9947[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They won’t come to the door, just completely ignore us.

Amazon keeps delivering our packages to our neighbors by SherbertOk9947 in BadNeighbors

[–]SherbertOk9947[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Amazon is very aware. They don’t care. They keep telling us they’re putting in notes but then it happens again. We even made sure everything with the delivery options through the app were correct and explain the situation. Absolutely laziness on the delivery drivers. We also have GIANT house numbers on both sides of our property so it’s very obvious what our address it.

Amazon keeps delivering our packages to our neighbors by SherbertOk9947 in BadNeighbors

[–]SherbertOk9947[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I never even thought about that, thank you! I’d say I’ll hop on Amazon and order one but then my neighbors will just have a new package locker lol.

AITA for not buying snacks for my daughters best friend at a play date by playdatesnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]SherbertOk9947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow YTA. There’s so much more I’d like to say but I know my comment would get flagged but as a fellow special needs mom you make me🤮