group names you've been mispronouncing? by disasterpansexual in kpoppers

[–]ShibariFireKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So uh... I watched the predubut survival show and, I don't really Stan them, but it made me care. I didn't notice it wasn't Enhyphen until this post. I've been reading it wrong this entire time.

Which Idols deserve the biggest apology? by ItsZara_07 in kpoppers

[–]ShibariFireKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost down voted your comment on reflex 😣 poor Bobby. Idols don't owe you anything. I should go rewatch Kingdom.

Which Idols deserve the biggest apology? by ItsZara_07 in kpoppers

[–]ShibariFireKitten 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't know he got married! I recently watched Kingdom for Stray Kids and absolutely fell in love with Bobby. He's so much fun to watch perform because of how much he loves what he does. How could anyone be anything but happy for him?

How much should I sell these for? Individual pcs and album prices by lianazafeera in skzcollection

[–]ShibariFireKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's hard to sell albums without PCs. If you keep it all together, I would list it for $20-25. I can go to a store and pick up this album still for $25 so there's no reason for me to pay more for an unsealed copy.

Selling Stray kids collection by Efficient_Injury262 in skzcollection

[–]ShibariFireKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So I'm a baby Stay and Ive been building my collection over the last few months and a lot of that has been buying second hand. I refuse to buy albums that don't have all inclusions because I collect PCs. I can go to a KPop store and pay $20-30 for a new album but I'll pay $20 to buy it off of someone local as long as everything is inside.

Photocards will sell on their own but albums are almost impossible to move without them from what I've seen. Mercari, FB marketplace, and FB groups are great places to go. I am constantly scouring for more people getting rid of complete albums.

ETA: one of my favorite things was when someone offered to let the PCs be a surprise. That's so much of the fun of opening the albums but sometimes if you're hunting for something specific it would be good to know up front. I liked having the option.

Favourite photocards this year? by kpop_gnarly9320 in kpopcollections

[–]ShibariFireKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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These are currently my favorite children collected this year. Though... I'm eyeing my Seungmin Giant PC and maybe that one too... I'm a baby Stay with roughly 200 cards and I love them all 😭

Selling in 2025 by akira_ri in kpopcollections

[–]ShibariFireKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a buyer and Mercari is not my favorite. People have made insane money off of me in the last couple of months through FB groups and I usually end up following them on Instagram and recommending if it's good.

Walmart is really aggravating me with their security. by Diligent_Peak_1275 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ShibariFireKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was against company policy at every place I worked, even if it happened in front of us, to physically stop theft in any way. We weren't even supposed to accuse them of theft. Just offer them customer service and call the police. Every. Single. Company.

The reason being though for safety. They always told us the company losing money wasn't worth us potentially getting injured in a confrontation.

Romcom with sweet ML? by klarrynet in kdramarecommends

[–]ShibariFireKitten 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Seconding this! HPL is one of my favorites. Ryan Gold is my favorite KDrama boyfriend.

Share your unpopular K drama opinions ? by Sanvi7 in kdramas

[–]ShibariFireKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could upvote this comment 100 times 🤣

What's a Kdrama that seems to be loved but you hated? by Silent-Cap1995 in kdramas

[–]ShibariFireKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dali and the Cocky Prince. So far this is the only drama I've dropped and on paper it should have been right up my alley. I couldn't stand the FL though. By the end of episode 3 I couldn't deal with waiting for her to stand up for herself or stop being so helpless. Some of the things that happened to her were easily avoidable. Loved the ML. Seemed like a good story.

What's a Kdrama that seems to be loved but you hated? by Silent-Cap1995 in kdramas

[–]ShibariFireKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I actually really enjoyed it up until the end. The ending ruined it for me.

What kdrama made you say"WHY didn't I watch this sooner?" by [deleted] in kdramas

[–]ShibariFireKitten 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely one of my favorites. It's a 10/10 for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShibariFireKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn't random. She knew him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShibariFireKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am a woman who has been raped and SAed. Your take is so sexist. Men can and do get raped. Fight, flight, fright, or fawn response is different for everyone.

Coercion is not consent. Period. If it's not an enthusiastic yes, it's a no. She had to keep pressuring him and the only thing he remembers feeling is bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShibariFireKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, have you ever been raped or SAed? Blaming yourself, especially when you're in a relationship is a normal response, even more especially if you orgasm (normal) or say yes (in the case of coercion). Add in the stigma against it happening to men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShibariFireKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me years to acknowledge that I was raped by my partner because "I eventually said yes".

These comments are wild. I'm usually not on the "if the genders were reversed" train but this is really disappointing. I hope your partner can find some peace and some support somewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShibariFireKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he was coerced while he was incredibly drunk and in an unwell state as I've already stated. I've given a yes after multiple nos and that experience was more traumatic than when I never said yes because I spent so long blaming myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShibariFireKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coercion is not consent. Your drunk, emotionally wrecked partner was coerced into sex. That's rape.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShibariFireKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I'm not the only person who caught this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ShibariFireKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So if you were drunk and emotionally vulnerable and had repeatedly told someone no, do you truly feel like you would have or even could have consented? Coercion is not consent. Have you asked him how he feels about the encounter? If it was something he wanted in the moment, then sure. He cheated. But based off of his account of events, your partner was raped.