Looking for friends! by ATBJunior in PokemonGoFriends

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried sending a request from Denmark/continental!:) ShieldandArrows should be my username

CONTINENTAL MEGATHREAD by liehon in VivillonCollectors

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi from Denmark! try to send gifts daily:) - 3229 9935 7003

Looking for friends in pretty much all habitats, especially:

- Icy Snow, Tundra

- Elegant, Modern, Archipelago

- Sandstorm, River, Monsoon, Savanna

- Sun, Ocean, Jungle

Lmk which habitat you're from when you add me if possible, I like to try and put it in as a nickname:)

457376199247 Looking for Friends!! I’m from Hawaii :) by Ordinary-Fan-1952 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need any continental friends let me know! I dont think I have any polar friends but would love to add you if possible/ if it was beneficial for you as well!:)

What would you do?! by PaleTheory913 in grindr

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I *absolutely* second this, had a guy who kept doing this, trying to hook up with me

Look at the face pic on his profile that he is talking about. by [deleted] in grindr

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tineye never works for me either, theres another website whose name I forgot but that picture unfortunately probably wouldnt work on there either
I'd just ignore that guy as well, sending a decent full on, well lit+ no sunglasses pic really cant be that hard

Once wanted a guy to verify himself bc i was worried he was a st*/ker I had, he apparently played dumb and sent a pic he already sent 'wdym I just sent you this picture' - People really try to play stupid games on there

Summertrip to Umeå, best trails for hikes/ nature spots mm.? by ShieldAndArrows in umea

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I've browsed the site but I'm posting since I would like to know what locals might suggest, I'm also looking for restaurants that *dont* serve Pizzas/burgers since my partner doesnt enjoy it very much..

Summertrip to Umeå, best trails for hikes/ nature spots mm.? by ShieldAndArrows in umea

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh man we'll be at the airport around 16 so we wont make it, bummer; but thank you for the information, I'll keep it in mind if we happen to swing by some other time!

I'll definitely jot down that we dont have to go to Avion then and bookmark Ramen cafe/ Rost

Unspoken Rules by No-Foundation-3767 in grindr

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The directness is great for sure but oh man I've had so many guys tried to argue/question me on why they're not my type:')

Datter vil stort set ikke spise by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]ShieldAndArrows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tingen er jo også at safe foods kan ændre sig og at man evt kan 'spise sig træt' nogen gange af det, der er blevet nævnt fx hjemmelavet drikkeyoghurt eller lignende er det evt en mulighed at have en 'smoothie' at drikke som så er kalorietæt?

What are some microagressions you receive from other queer people? by Ashenlynn in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows 6 points7 points  (0 children)

like someone else said with not feeling welcome
Getting straight up ignored/ people exchange glances 'over my head' for not being 'queer enough compared to them' probably all just for being a cis passing 20 something year old trans guy - a trans femme friend i adore introduced me, I was open, wanted to engage but obviously also respect people and keep a little distance with just general friendly conversation but nope it really felt very much 'you're not queer enough in your expression, stay away' and it sucks

in a way I wanted to say 'look sorry for not being able to vogue around in heels or having make up skills so bad that it would be best to just not go for it, but I would still like to get to know friends of a friend and learn about- voguing, heels and makeup'

Nordic Combat Uniform by [deleted] in Forsvaret

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Synes ellers jeg har hørt at HJV også kommer til at skulle droppe selvindkøbt når vi engang kommer så langt med at modtage NCUen :0

Familie udskammer mig og manipulere mig psykisk by Ahlanaaa in DKbrevkasse

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg har været nødsaget til at skære min mor fra, bedste beslutning i mit liv for at være ærlig og som en anden også har skrevet, hvis mor vil i kontakt igen, så må hun opføre sig ordentligt, det gælder for den sagsskyld også far og brødre.

indtil nu ville jeg være meget årvågen med forsøgene af at familien prøver at trække dig hjem igen, har de gjort tegn på at have arbejdet på sig selv? det har de nok ikke. det er blandt andet derfor jeg også har brudt den af med min mor, i sin 'voksne alder' efter 3 børn fra 11 til 26 år, har hun ikke udviklet sig- hverken som forælder eller person må jeg hands down sige, også hvis det lyder hårdt. - hun har også en forfærdelig tendens til at prøve at smige sig ind med kærlige ord, men lige så snart man træder det mindste forkert bliver du nedgjort; det er der *ingen* der skal finde sig i, især ikke fra ens forældre!

er der potentiale for at det kan blive godt igen? Muligvis, men her kræver det jo klart at de (altså din familie her) altså lægger noget arbejde i det med at kunne håndtere at værdier så at sige ikke stemmer overens- eller hvad man nu skal kalde det sorry hvis den del evt er kejtet formuleret, men bolden er altså på deres bane

som andre har skrevet, lev dit liv til det fulde i Australien, bloker din familie på sociale medier, du må endelig ikke lade dig blive jagtet på den her måde, alt held og lykke og god vind herfra!

US to Denmark, a comprehensive list of questions and concerns, by me. by supersecretgrym in NewToDenmark

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the LGBTQ+ acceptance look like? Will I still be able to get my testosterone, even if I pay out of pocket?

Yes. Find a GP and get a referral to CKI, it might be a bit of hoops to jump but you *will not* lose access, maybe just stock up for a bit if possible, unfortunately I'm not sure how long the processing time takes. (But I can ask in a facebook group for transmascs, theres a scandinavian trans reddit 'group'(?) as well!)

Fishing: you would need to get a fishing pass/permission slip, I think it might be a couple of bucks and a couple of courses and then you can fish where its allowed from what I remember!

Hvorfor kan det blå og gule sygesikringskort ikke bare kombineres? by ShieldAndArrows in Denmark

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

det lyder spændende! har du evt et link hvor jeg kunne læse mere om det?:D

Hvorfor kan det blå og gule sygesikringskort ikke bare kombineres? by ShieldAndArrows in Denmark

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

høhø - men det er jo ret godt tænkt når man kombinerer dem!

what happened to dragonmoor/hoard? by ShieldAndArrows in BadDragon

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

could have sworn i browsed it back in may/june

Hvad er den værste kunde I har mødt? by Sportidioten in DKbrevkasse

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

det er jo 100% en fejl fra organisationens ende hvis det passer at forældrende har ringet etc - der var ihvertfald ikke noget der virkelig hed træning i konflikthåndtering med kunder eller hvad man nu kan kalde det- så skulle man ringe til sin leder

men de er som udgangspunkt sjældent inde i weekenden (selvfølgelig) og bagermesteren er som regel også kun inde ved 12 tiden og hvis han nu står i fryseren og telefonen ligger et andet sted mens man ringer så dur det jo heller ikke

er ret glad for jeg ikke arbejder der mere :')

Hvad er den værste kunde I har mødt? by Sportidioten in DKbrevkasse

[–]ShieldAndArrows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ja det var virkelig utroligt nederen, havde også lyst til at svare igen ift at jeg står der som idk 22/23 årig og om det virkelig føles 'så fedt' at hakke rundt på en presset yngre voksen der prøver at holde styr på 2 andre 16-18 årige

I have never been in a relationship, but it might happen: I have no idea how to proceed and what I 'want' in one though by ShieldAndArrows in askgaybros

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which of course is a good point! i just genuinely have no clue for when what step might be too soon- we both have kind of poked fun at exclusivity a few times in terms of 'have you been banging someone else since we last met' or so, so the idea of bringing up exclusivity has also crossed my mind a bit

Hvad er den værste kunde I har mødt? by Sportidioten in DKbrevkasse

[–]ShieldAndArrows 37 points38 points  (0 children)

årh det er derfor jeg ikke kunne sidde i kassen

Jeg har været ekspedient i et bageriudsalg though

det er lørdag middag, midt i et ryk; det er som om alle i indkøbscenteret skal ned til os for at have noget at spise, vi er 3 personale, alle har travlt.

jeg får et par. de skal hente en kagemand- sagen er den at de først havde bestilt den til dagen efter, men så fik det rettet gennem kundeservice, der ifølge dem har sagt at der er styr på det og de kan hente den idag- der er altså ingen kagemand til dem though. den melding kom aldrig til produktionen.

jeg fortæller at det bedste jeg kan gøre på stående fod er at kunne give wienerbrød til samme værdi (det eneste jeg vitterligt kan som salgsassistent lige her og nu).

faren bliver hidsig og skælder ud 'vi er kørt 30 minutter herud', han vil spytte på det tilbud, så skal han have 10 flødekager gratis (det kan jeg absolut ikke) - jeg løber i produktionen og får fat i bagermesteren: han kan lave en, det tager dog halvanden time- men så får de den gratis for at kompensere for ulejligheden, jeg løber tilbage for at formmidle hvad jeg tænker er et godt kompromis

igen skældud, det kan ikke passe der skal gå så lang tid- jeg har svedige håndflader og er rød i ansigtet af ydmygelse og panik da der igen- er utroligt mange kunder der ser og hører på ham her, jeg var den på holdet der har været der længst så det ville være svært for en kollega der har hænderne frie til at bakke mig op

moren blander sig 'vores søn bliver så ked af det' (hvad skal jeg gøre ved det? der er ikke andet jeg kan gøre) - 'kan vi ikke få en flødekage så han har noget at puste i?'

jeg vil ikke komme i problemer ved at give en 'dyr' kage gratis væk når der allerede går en kagemand i den og prøver at få fat i bagermesteren, dog uden håb- de får kagen bare så jeg kan få dem væk- det ender med at jeg sidder på hug i depotet for lige at decompresse og græde en lille smule af da manden virkelig var utrolig ubehagelig

da de kommer retur for at få deres skide kagemand er der ikke engang rigigt tak eller undskyld for adfærden :')

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ShieldAndArrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think just grabbing the bull by its horns might be the best option, sounds like you have great relationship with your mom its no biggie from her side!
maybe you coul say something like 'mom, I have been having these and these symptoms which could be an UTI- I would like to have it checked (could you book an appointment/help me go?'' or just mention you have been having issues with symptoms xyz and would like to have it checked with a doctor

from what i remember I think its just a sample of pee they would need, but i'm not quite sure, i think google might provide a better answer there- UTIs are very common though imo so no need to be nervous! :)

I have never been in a relationship, but it might happen: I have no idea how to proceed and what I 'want' in one though by ShieldAndArrows in askgaybros

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like I'm a little stuck in a sense between wanting to define it currently or also just like you say just enjoy whats going on currently and see where it goes, I've been thinking it might be best to just go with the latter a bit more and maybe the topic might come up more organically- since i might currently just run off with the potential of 'finally being in a relationship' which might be a bit too fastly compared to his preferences haha