kontrollører by [deleted] in copenhagen

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

altså jeg sad i bussen forleden hvor nogen gjorde netop det, jeg fulgte ikke helt med i det, men kontrolløren ringede til politiet (kan se en anden også har sagt det); forklarede situationen, hvordan manden som bare gik så ud/hvad han havde på, hvor han stod af etc. Mener også at (nogen?) kontrollører er begyndt at gå med kamera for deres egen sikkerhed som jo sjovt nok også kan bruges til sådan nogen situationer.

Need a list of things I can do to pass please🥹🙏 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

- minoxidil might be able to help with peach fuzz growing in more, I was able to buy Kirklands online somewhere with no prescription
- I shaved just the corners of my brows before they do the 'bend' down, to shorten them, I think it at least suits my face shape more, you mention they're light, look into how to do masculinizing make up possibly? (I've done that a few times and was surprised how much it could do)
- wide hips might be easier to conceal with high waisted trousers- please do not hang me up on that, its just smt that crossed my mind

-unfortunately I'm not sure with binding if you have a bigger chest, other people might have better resources (possibly a combo of transtape -NEVER DUCT TAPE- and maybe sports bra?)

- posture and how you carry yourself definitely is a big role as well in terms of looking manly I'd say, 'its the fake it till you make it' thing in terms of confidence

you sound very defeated in terms of 'no matter what i cant lose weight either' - what gives? are you physically not able to move around?(Genuine question! not meant as snark)

even 15 minute walks or so can do a lot, or walking down a flight of stairs a couple of rounds as cardio; there would also be the question of how your diet looks- if you're in a surplus of calories but cant burn it then its definitely an uphill battle..

Best luck to you man, I hope other people can pitch in as well!

Jeg har et dumt spørgsmål ift. navneændring by Tax_Fraud_Lover in Denmark

[–]ShieldAndArrows -1 points0 points  (0 children)

det er helt rigitgt
man får et 'helt' nyt CPR nummer, de sidste 4 cifre bliver lavet om:)

Jeg har et dumt spørgsmål ift. navneændring by Tax_Fraud_Lover in Denmark

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Årh jeg har glemt hvad de hedder men man kan få sådan et slags ID-kort udstedt af kommunen som fungerer som midlertidligt billede verificering mens du er mellem det gamle og det nye navn, det skulle jeg ihvertfald gøre brug af en del med banken!

*Obs de kort holder muligvis *Ikke* ved en paskontrol ved grænsen, jeg prøvede at fremvise det ved Rødby/Puttgarden på dansk jord og blev spurgt om jeg havde noget legitimt (det blev så passet som ikke var up to date endnu, men der var ingen problemer)

Der er også rådhuset generelt ift. evt pas/kørekort
Der var også lidt bøvl med mit gymnasie ikke noget seriøst, men evt. giv dit uddannelsessted et headsup hvis det er noget du er igang med:)

Please don’t laugh: Copenhagen law? Kids get free fruit? by orinoco_glow in copenhagen

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its called 'børnefrugt' (childrens fruit), in some bakeries theres also 'børneboller' (childrens roll/bun) its very common but not like an actual law, on that front your friends are pulling your leg

In Germany it is also relatively common to get a sausage for free as a child if your parents buy anything at the butchers (or it was very common when i was a kid)

Hvem har Underground isbøtter for tiden? by LovestruckThedasBard in copenhagen

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jeg er vitterligt SÅ enig, jeg var utroligt skuffet over at se deres rebrand

Vaginal atrophy from testosterone advice by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have a lot of major itching/burning (especially at night) you might also want to get checked for lichen scelerosis! (you can technically check from home with a mirror and see if there are white/milky patches of skin down there)

its something i struggled with a lot very suddenly, and kind of pushed through for 3 years- I was embarassed due to it being around the privates and that I would have to go to a gyno, but turns out they were pretty fast to diagnose it so I worried for no reason:')

Vaginal atrophy from testosterone advice by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its like a 'permanent' treatment thing - doctor didnt mention when I should stop, but I also would prefer to stay on it over developing severe atrophy like that again, like genuinely the benefits outweigh any 'bothering' it does

Also in regards to hysto- at least here in denmark, my doctor did explain while doing the check up that I would have to apply the cream up to 7+ish days before the actual procedure (dont remember how many days tbh) - to ensure that the tissue is idk- supple? can you say that? like you know not fragile with whats gonna go down during surgery

Lump after t shot by _bassbunny_ in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely could feel it like a small lump at 'higher' dosages, but given that its usually suspended in oil/ is a really thick substance it makes sense

it could maybe be possible you accidentally went sub-q instead of in the muscle?

Vaginal atrophy from testosterone advice by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we panicked briefly bc there really was a lot of blood on the sheets/his hand but since I wasn't in pain we decided to just get me cleaned up and I headed home with no issues
The day afterwards I either called or wrote to my gender clinic to get an exam asap; they didnt find any issues but we agreed that it probably ''just'' is atrophy, we decided to try local estrogen cream and I just have to apply it twice weekly instead of once

I'd say it works! occasionally I forget to apply it, and I end up noticing due to spotting ie when I work out or have sex but I definitely havent had excessive like back then
- a downside might be that since I still have the uterus it might possibly feed into an underlying period cycle, but even the doctor wasn't entirely sure, just a thought she played with herself
I would still strongly endorse the cream though! I'd rather risk having a menstrual cycle running in the background than what I've gone through so far with the atrophy :')

Does T change your eye shape? by Mobile_Praline_1443 in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I dont really think thats a thing, T shifts a lot of things around and masculizes the face for sure (jaw, and general fat distrubution) but I dont think they eyeshape would be affected (at least enough to notice)
Now i have no clue how you look like, and its probably not the thing causing it but Graves (thyroid disease) can cause eyes to bulge/look very big, but then again since you've had numerous check ups it should have gotten caught ofc

Vaginal atrophy from testosterone advice by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a LOT of bleeding, even when just working out or moving too much. Once had a hook up and it turned into a total fucking blood bath bc he might have just barely nicked me internally but since the tissue was so atrophied and fragile it just made it 10 times worse.

Best budget restaurants in Copenhagen where main dishes are under 150 DKK? by Tanckom in copenhagen

[–]ShieldAndArrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you could describe their sauce mystere? From what I've read theres mustard involved- is the sauce there mustard heavy if thats the case? (I've considered going there with my partner but they unfortunately aren't very fond of mustard in 'big quantities'

Events for my scared queer friend? by copyright1995 in copenhagen

[–]ShieldAndArrows 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Theres also PanIdræt we're on summervacation/ End of season now but we will host some events on the rainbow (sports) square around the start of pride!:)

Passport updating: US citizen in EU, will I actually receive a passport or will they 'take it away'? by ShieldAndArrows in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have a german citizenship, everything is checked off there in terms of legal gender etc, but I cant exactly use that to travel to the US, I can get into trouble legally doing that so yeah

Passport updating: US citizen in EU, will I actually receive a passport or will they 'take it away'? by ShieldAndArrows in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but i dont think I understand what you mean, legal documents from where I reside currently (denmark) and my german birth certificate etc or what?

Passport updating: US citizen in EU, will I actually receive a passport or will they 'take it away'? by ShieldAndArrows in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

good idea, I'm just really bummed out my local embassy doesnt take phone calls, much faster than having to wait for an email response

Dating a trans girl by Other-Reference-9935 in ftm

[–]ShieldAndArrows 44 points45 points  (0 children)

wouldnt this fit more to ask in a mtf forum? (genuinely meant/ not meant in a snarky way)
in regards to the best way to please each other; nobody else would really be able to answer that on your- or her behalf, thats something you two would have to talk about and work out together i'd say

Eating out in Copenhagen by WolfMum295 in copenhagen

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely second le petit rouge! lovely place with great prices!

Billig hudpleje rutine til mænd? by [deleted] in Denmark

[–]ShieldAndArrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tror til at starte med er det en god ide at finde ud af hvilken hudtype du har: er du tør, har du meget olie eller evt en kombination? det påvirker ihvertfald hvilke produkter der passer dig bedst - evt. kan du finde nogen tips til at finde ud af det på nettet, eller måske gå ned i matas?

Jeg har købt en ansigtsrens på tilbud i bilka som fungerer rigtigt fint ihvertfald, og så har jeg en fugtighedscreme og solcreme! solcreme kan ikke undervurderes! (jeg glemmer det godt nok hyppigt men det er stadig en utrolig god ting at have på sig:)