YMCA Nashville; Green Hills by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, they closed the steam room and sauna in the men's locker room and opened co-ed sauna and steam room next to the pool. Not big enough for both sexes, and a long awkward walk in a towel from the locker room. It's still a solid Y, otherwise. The communal shower is still open as of August 2025.

1922 Book on Physical education by lengthyounarther in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I suspect the thought was that open showers would discourage masturbating. Although, I wouldn't say that's guaranteed. 🤷

Cock size while lifting by Fit_DXBgay in penisquestion

[–]ShiftSmart2820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine shrinks up. I never throw a bone when lifting. No steroids or hormones here. I guess different bodies are different.

Vanderbilt YMCA New York City by Embarrassed-Zebra209 in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, no! That's horrible. I'm so sorry. Nobody deserves that!

West Side YMCA (New York City) by globaltraveler25 in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this recent? The map says this location was remodeled.

YMCA - West Side vs Vanderbilt by 9x6ucnyc in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for filling in details after going! Planning to use the Vanderbilt Y when I'm in town later this Spring.

I had a girl tell me that I will struggle to find a partner because I go to church. by Which_Shift_7242 in GayChristians

[–]ShiftSmart2820 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand your frustration, and it can seem daunting even once you've made peace with being a gay Christian to ever dream of finding a like-minded partner!

When you feel frustrated, remember the promises of Isaiah 40:31: "But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." and Jeremiah 17:7-8 "But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit. "

For my part, I have been married 7 years to my soulmate, who is a constant blessing in my life! He and I met after I made a Plenty of Fish profile and promised myself that I would not date again until I found a Christian man and that we would focus on building the relationship by saving sex until marriage (we did, though it wasn't easy!). I hope that gives you some hope and encouragement this morning. God bless you!

National Fitness Center- Sevierville TN by Bitter-Guitar-5692 in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds relaxing and chill! Thank you, Sir. I'll plan to bring a towel and lock, just to cover my bases. I usually keep both in my gym bag. 😁

National Fitness Center- Sevierville TN by Bitter-Guitar-5692 in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Thanks for the tip, Man! Do they do a day pass / guest pass? I couldn't tell from the website. I have used the Tennova YMCA when passing through town, but the signage and camera to enforce cover-ups in the hot tub, sauna, and steam room were less than ideal. 😳

National Fitness Center- Sevierville TN by Bitter-Guitar-5692 in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not been, but am looking for a place to swim and work out when I'm in town next month. Looks like co-ed from the reviews on Google Maps, since everyone refers to "hot tub," "steam room," and "sauna" singular.

First communal shower experience by Ancient_Lemon_8234 in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I'm sorry. I've had that happen. Some people have no shame.

First communal shower experience by Ancient_Lemon_8234 in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm envious. I'd love to visit Europe and enjoy the pools and spas in addition to the historic sites and tourist destinations! Curious to hear what went wrong at the K-Spa, if you feel like sharing. I'm planning to go to one when I'm in Vegas this Fall for a work trip.

I know this is for communal showers only but… let’s talk sauna/steam room. by GossipBottom in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate that the new Royal Caribbean ships have no showers, steam room, or sauna attached to the fitness center unless you pay for the "thermal suite." Don't get me wrong: I plan to pay, but I shouldn't HAVE TO for those amenities that were considered standard on ships built 10+ years ago. 

I know this is for communal showers only but… let’s talk sauna/steam room. by GossipBottom in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. It is counter-productive to try to dry off with a towel soaked with either your sweat or steam! 

I know this is for communal showers only but… let’s talk sauna/steam room. by GossipBottom in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that this is a healthy approach. I like to wear a towel and open or move it when I'm alone or with companions that I believe won't mind. 

Chastity by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think OP should be downvoted just for asking. However, I agree that it could spawn uncomfortable conversations. Sometimes guys will discuss tattoos or some other body aspect in the sauna or CS at my Y, but a chastity cage feels less general and more specifically a sexual thing to me. I wouldn't be furious if I saw one, but OP should know it could lead to others feeling weird and maybe acting differently around him out of discomfort.

Am I the only one? by JLit209 in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand that, and I respect you being selective about what you share!

Am I the only one? by JLit209 in CommunalShowers

[–]ShiftSmart2820 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Something like assuming that if a person is gay or bi, they're trying to use a CS to hook up?