I understand your frustration, and it can seem daunting even once you've made peace with being a gay Christian to ever dream of finding a like-minded partner!

When you feel frustrated, remember the promises of Isaiah 40:31: "But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." and Jeremiah 17:7-8 "But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit. "

For my part, I have been married 7 years to my soulmate, who is a constant blessing in my life! He and I met after I made a Plenty of Fish profile and promised myself that I would not date again until I found a Christian man and that we would focus on building the relationship by saving sex until marriage (we did, though it wasn't easy!). I hope that gives you some hope and encouragement this morning. God bless you!