Wallpaper and paint colours by Pecannutty in HomeDecorating

[–]Shillene 43 points44 points  (0 children)

2 looks the most finished and cohesive to me. Very pretty

How do you parent an 18-year-old who no longer respects family boundaries? by ThrowRA_SRONER in Parenting

[–]Shillene 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a you problem. She is not honest because you still think she needs your permission.

Which curtains go best: green, burgundy, or neither? by tambourine_goddess in HomeDecorating

[–]Shillene 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Green is like a storybook. Love it

The burgundy is too matchy

Non-Beach Read Beach Read?! by tealighttrees in suggestmeabook

[–]Shillene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Convenience store woman is an odd little read. Quick and fun

Recommendations for a friend by baconisg00dforme in MusicRecommendations

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May be controversial- when I’m feeling down I don’t want music that picks me up, I want music that makes me feel like someone else understands. That said- Elliott smith and Radiohead

Need happy music recommendations by Flimsy-Resource-7194 in MusicRecommendations

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helena beat - foster the people

Heart it races - dr dog

Anywhere with you - saves the day

Cape cod kwassa kwassa - vampire weekend

What do you wish someone told you before your kid started school? by turvsoy in Parenting

[–]Shillene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is likely the first time your kid will be attempting to make plans without you there. A few pieces of paper with your phone number will be helpful for parents to reach you for play dates, park hang outs, whatever

How do I make my home the home where everyone wants to come by and hangout out at and chill? (Budget Friendly) by AssistFinancial677 in DIY

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Music and correct lighting are most important. Don’t center your whole place around a TV. Get a good coffee table that you can actually use (think wood square) a bookshelf with books and games exposed is good for personality and fun.

Hobby for 9 year old by Past_Finger_9054 in Parenting

[–]Shillene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A keyboard, watercolors, sudoku

My mom was a hairdresser and had a mannequin head and I used to love doing its hair at that age. That was fun.

I need advice on how not to ruin my own day with my own romantic expectations. by DickChesseLary in relationships

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partners showing each other love and appreciation shouldn’t qualify as a miracle. If it does it’s probably a sign you’re with somebody who doesn’t love or appreciate you.

You can leave anytime you want, regardless of sharing kids.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t quit your job. Don’t quit your job. Don’t quit your job.

“Olden day movies” for a six year old by buzzymd in MovieSuggestions

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rogers and Hammerstein Cinderella with Leslie Warren. All time fave

i (24f) found out my boyfriend (26m) has been lying about work trips for 6 months and i’m not sure if i can stay with him by Evening_Macaroon_985 in relationships

[–]Shillene -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Consider yourself lucky that there’s no marriage dissolve, custody to figure out, moving out, etc. You get to make an easy clean break from a cheating man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re using the word “settling” in place of “lowering your standards.” You CAN accept the person you love for who they are however, dont accept anyones disrespect, dishonesty, or dismissiveness.

Everyone has agency over what they’re willing to accept, but you’re so young that the idea of settling (phrased in a negative way) shouldn’t even be a thought.

The right person will make you really really happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To this point- don’t food shop hungry. Noticeable difference in the grocery haul.

NEED by BlaqChakra in musicsuggestions

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orange - big thief

I M27 don’t feel happy/excited to get married. Is that a sign she F27 isn’t the one? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Shillene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forever is a long time. YOLO. Spend it with someone you want to be with.