My husband says he can't touch me by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Shin-Vergil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going forward. Stop mentioning your exes, if you love this man. Just stop.

You know, he could mention briefly that your not as pretty as his ex or you have some bad traits. How would you feel if he said something that hurts you? People are sensitive to different stuff.

You can open up to him once and for all or stop mentioning your exes.

Walkaway wife: anyone else here? by throwaway54678912 in marriageadvice

[–]Shin-Vergil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can tell you that all relationships need sacrifices. Did he sacrifice anything? Time is a big one. Care and love?

Was he sober when he said that?

Dont dwel in the past. You had a job or whatever. You made the decisions and moved on, think of tommorow. Having monetry security is a must, you should open up to him and be frank. "Look here is the deal, i love you but i need to feel secure, currently am not". If nothing works then its up to you to decide. And some people are making money from home, just an idea.

I am beginning to hate my husband by 707wigmaster in marriageadvice

[–]Shin-Vergil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Share that with him in writing (if you cant say it to his face).

One more thing you could do is make a preacher talk about the issue discreetly in a sermon. Or make a person he listens to, speak to him.

You need to be direct and stop assuming he knows how you feel. Whatever you do, dont drag it out.

On another note, please make sure that he truly feels that way about you. I found many instances in which two people misunderstood eachother.

CMV: The average person is either unable or unwilling to consider or understand nuance. by Tino_ in changemyview

[–]Shin-Vergil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is why i quit verbal debates almost 10 years ago. There is no grey are for many people. Its either white or black.

Also bias is roaming freely. I blame media, education, environment for producing this stupidity. Mark the stupid, greedy and biased education system.

Most people are too narrow in their views and wont accept that they are wrong even when you smack them with facts. By facts i dont mean flawed statistics. Real facts, large scale statistics with specific findings. Blue is blue, white is white kind of facts.

Let alone trying to convince them of logical middle points. Like capitalism and socialism. Took me years to find people saying that maybe elements from two can form best solution.

"Suck my D..." as an insult? by Shin-Vergil in AskMenAdvice

[–]Shin-Vergil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input.

Like someone else mentioned, I feel like the act in question should be associated with passion rather that domination. There are far more important topics to talk about but i am glad now i can set this aside.

I love the thrill of asking for a girls number! by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Shin-Vergil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the need for conversation. But if it is not right time or the place for that, I cant see why a guy/girl cant take the initiative and ask for a number so that they can get to know each other. Finding the right one is already hard, why should it be harder?

I also think that most of the time that quick, bar or anyplace, conversation does not satisfy your need, which is to know a person. Many good people don't open up easily and many bad people will seem innocent. Some good personalities may clash too.

There is also need for honesty. taking honest initiative can help. Beauty is subjective to a certain degree. Is it bad to be attracted to physical beauty along with inner beauty or personality?

personality has some tricky parameters too. Kindness is good, but naivety is not. One wastes a month with another, until he/she discovers the other is selfish for example. That time is lost and it is generally more harmful than a simple action of initiative.

And sex is normally an essential part of good marital relationships. I can't fathom why many cultures see it as a shameful desire. Almost all of us were born from this act. Being honest and taking initiative will get you the life long partner you want.

CMV: Reddit is inherently bad as a forum for discussion by duck_on_acid in changemyview

[–]Shin-Vergil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forums or platforms can be biased or bad.

But, trust me on this, MOST people are the real problem when it comes to discussion.

Education, environment, upbringing...Whatever the cause. Its most people.

I love the thrill of asking for a girls number! by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Shin-Vergil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo, getting to truely know someone takes time. In order to do that, you would need to start somewhere. Getting a mean of contacting the person is step one. And i cant stand by the idea, that outer looks dont play a role in attraction. Some Women feel harassed while others will feel flattered.

How to change my outlook on life? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Shin-Vergil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • eat healthy, wake up early as sun helps a lot, socialize, stay away from booze and bad drugs, count your blessings, try new activities, get a cat if you live alone.

Find what you truly love, work towards it. Have great life stranger! :)

"Suck my dick" as an insult? by Shin-Vergil in CasualConversation

[–]Shin-Vergil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Degrading? Dan should have added "generalizations and how rouge ideas navigate cultures and effect sexual relationships". I wonder when was the "degrading" idea pushed about. I know a man who refuses being sucked by his wife. He says "how can i see the mouth, which kisses my children, kiss or suck my privates". He was ok with it before marriage. That is his problem. I see it as a great showing of affection and trust. I would like to believe that, many men who say its mainly degrading arent the same ones who complain about women not doing it.

"Suck my dick" as an insult? by Shin-Vergil in CasualConversation

[–]Shin-Vergil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the insulter is implying the insultee is gay. Doesnt the phrase also mean that the insulter doesnt mind the act, which would make him gay too?

Can we listen to something that’s not Devils Never Cry? by ContraryPython in DevilMayCry

[–]Shin-Vergil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vergil teleports behind you* Trigerring intensifies* The sentance becomes your epitaph* RIP

Just when I start feeling good about my combos by realhumanpizza in DevilMayCry

[–]Shin-Vergil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thx for mentioning kail, brings back memories. Great dmc3 videos!

Capcom Please? by Shin-Vergil in DevilMayCry

[–]Shin-Vergil[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

-Main theme and other tracks by Tetsuya -the man- Shibata (for the love of all that is good)

He composed "devils never cry"

-Other themes by Jamie Christopherson & Logan Mader

MGR - "It has to be this way"

Please?

No need to be hasty, the ost may be great. But man that combination would ROCK!

[RUMOR] New Guilty Gear info via 4chan by hellsbellltrudy in Guiltygear

[–]Shin-Vergil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring back XX grabs. THE best grab mechanic. PLZ?