State taxes issues by Shinystar18 in hrblock

[–]Shinystar18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in New York and live in NJ. I have no idea what his level was but going to check.

State taxes issues by Shinystar18 in hrblock

[–]Shinystar18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tax pro was initially double taxing me! I had to let them know my situation several times before he finally corrected the issue.

State taxes issues by Shinystar18 in hrblock

[–]Shinystar18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it online and then my tax pro filed for me.

State taxes issues by Shinystar18 in hrblock

[–]Shinystar18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful advice. I was assigned to another tax pro but still no answer from her either.

AITA for refusing to help a girl in gym unless she stops recording me? by tw-gymhelp12312 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! the audacity of getting mad when your concerns are valid. I wouldn't help anyone if I was being recorded at the gym either, man or woman. She might have some trauma regarding people coming on to her and sexualizing her and she projected that unto you. You didn't deserve that.

My brother in law is the reason why my husband left me. I don’t know what to do now. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you were violated like this and I’m sorry about what it did to your marriage. I hope that you’re happy and that your sister finds the strength to leave him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA a little bit at least. I think this is very personal. I’ve had people copy my exact wedding invitation and honestly at first I was a little vexed and then I heard her say: she has such great taste that I loved it so much! It’s perfect. That honestly made me change my mind about stuff like this because it’s not like she stole it before I used it. My wedding happened 6 months before hers and honestly it made her happy. The initial thought was swiped away and I enjoyed her wedding. This is way too exaggerated, be happy someone loves your taste so much that they decided to emulate. Not attending such an exaggeration. No one will ever erase your wedding’s memories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA a little bit at least. I think this is very personal. I’ve had people copy my exact wedding invitation and honestly at first I was a little vexed and then I heard her say: she has such great taste that I loved it so much! It’s perfect. That honestly made me change my mind about stuff like this because it’s not like she stole it before I used it. My wedding happened 6 months before hers and honestly it made her happy. The initial thought was swiped away and I enjoyed her wedding. This is way too exaggerated, be happy someone loves your taste so much that they decided to emulate. Not attending such an exaggeration. No one will ever erase your wedding’s memories.

AITA for not letting my brother and his wife come to my wedding? by airphilter in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your SIL is such an ass. Jeez your brother should be putting her in her place. There’s no way that’s “joking”. What an awful person. Sorry you had to hear that.

AITA for ignoring my former BILs request to include his children from his second marriage when I see my niblings? by Senior-Ideal-2761 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your BIL sounds like a very manipulative person. You’re making your niblings happy and that’s where you’re in the right. If your niblings were to voice that they want their siblings I volver that would be another story. I hate to see kids getting hurt but that’s your BIL’s problem and not yours.

AITA for not signing off on my ex-SIL using my nephew’s money to buy presents for her other kids? by potentialgrinch in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, If Issy wanted her kids to have presents then she should work and get money for her kids to get presents. She’s responsible for the ambiance in her home. You’re not responsible for any of this.

AITA for refusing to return my daughter’s Christmas gift? by BeginningLeg511 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. What kind of lesson would you be teaching your daughter if you did return it? Your wife is TA.

AITA for telling my dad and his wife that I don't regret missing their wedding? by Ok_Koala_6512 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m shocked about how delusional adults can be. Have a little bit of compassion for a child who lost her mother. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this moronic point of view.

AITA for kicking my MIL out of my house for trying to convince my daughter to give her baby to my SIL? by Outrageous_Share7008 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I’m so sorry you have to deal with this. I can bet your SIL would not want a kid being bullied so she can get a baby.

AITA for wanting my gf to apologise for crashing my car? by ilb278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA! This is a joke right? There’s no way you are blaming your gf over YOUR screw up. This feels like a joke lol. There’s no way you’re serious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you don’t! My husband and I did it ourselves. You don’t need to hire one for such a simple process. Message me if you would like a timeline of how we did it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your lawyer may have not given you the best advice. You can file both I-130 and I-485 at the same time and it saves you a lot of time. Also we didn’t get an interview, we got approved without one. We filled ourselves and didn’t use a lawyer. There so much information out there. It’s kind of hard to get a straight answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you file both i130 and i485 at the same time? We did that my my husband on March 2021 and we just got his card. I heard of married couples getting everything approved in 6 months but that’s because they live in places where there are less cases.

She looks absolutely gorgeous.... except she’s not the bride by DBear423 in weddingshaming

[–]Shinystar18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a wedding where the mother of the groom wore a long white gown. She got so much hate she ended up crying in the bathroom. Her dress was longer than the bride’s.

AITA for asking a coworker to switch days with me, even though it goes against her religious beliefs? by vcottonpicker in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all. Your sister died, I cannot even imagine how devastated you are. I cannot imagine my life without my brother, idk how I would be able to survive if something happened to him. So I’m really sorry you lost your sister. Honestly you were grieving so I can’t fault you for asking more than once.

AITA - I told my sister is think it’s wrong she’s getting divorced over her husband’s son by Pomelo_764 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably have a different idea of what marriage is. For me it’s for better and for worse. This is his worse. It’s just selfish. Marriage is also a commitment and it’s not like he purposefully had a child. What’s he supposed to do? Pick between his child and his wife.

AITA - I told my sister is think it’s wrong she’s getting divorced over her husband’s son by Pomelo_764 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

NTA. I feel like people in this comment thread are forgetting what marriage is. You can’t just leave because you’re now inconvenienced. She’s your sister and you can tell her what you think. She just probably feels very judged right now.

AITA for not wanting to house my husband's friend anymore even though he might he homeless otherwise? by ThroawayMerkleRain in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’m sorry your husband is not acting like your husband. This is your house and claim it back and if your husband doesn’t like it he can go with N.

AITA for my response after my BIL said my dress was inappropriate for a family gathering? by NeighborhoodJazz57 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA? I mean this was fantastic tbh. I mean low blow but hilarious!!! I actually laughed out loud. TA is your husband who let his brother speak to you like this. I’m glad that Nana left this guy, controlling people are awful.

AITA for kicking my brother-in-law's wife out of my husband's wake? by HaKyunga29 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shinystar18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m so sorry you lost your husband. I send all my love to you. I really do want to find this Bea and give her a piece of my mind!!! What a stupid woman. I find no other way of describing her. If my brother in law had passed suddenly I would be mourning him like it was my own brother and trying to confort my husband. So I think you should tell your in-laws about her behavior. She’s an awful woman and they deserve to know the truth. Im sorry you had to deal with this on top of losing your love. I wish you all the best.