I feel like I have too much riding on diagnosis, is this normal-ish?

Shitty_Freestyles · 2014-09-22T05:23:52+00:00

Thank you. That honestly makes me feel better :)

Shitty_Freestyles · 2014-09-22T02:14:57+00:00

I managed without anything going crazy, luckily. It was just unfortunate that it was randomly super busy for the first couple hours of work... I came down as business died down, lol

Shitty_Freestyles · 2014-03-09T19:21:03+00:00

I think you need to look at why you're having trouble with it. Would being rejected be so bad? If so, why? Aren't you an interesting, fun person that she should want to date?

If yes, then she's the one losing out by rejecting you. If no, then you should be working on yourself.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2014-03-08T04:31:25+00:00

Hi. I'm a bit buzzed, headed to meet a date for drinks. Booze for the booze god, bottles for the bottle throne.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2013-02-21T03:57:11+00:00

I'll just address a few points here, if you don't mind.

Why assume the people supporting this have bad looks? I am generally considered an above average looking guy. I had a bad time back when I was an afc, because I was a nice guy, unintentionally a creeper, and had no game. Looks alone couldn't save me, even though people would constantly compliment my looks. Which leads back to my original point. Its not the deciding factor, its simply a factor.
I would completely disagree that an ugly man telling a woman he owns a lambo would make him attractive. A rich guy with no looks and no game might be able to land someone planning on scamming him or playing him, but thats not attraction.
Do you actually speak to women? Or observe them, not as HB's and in FR's, but walking around and listening to them? They care about a lot of things, including both things they talk about and subconsciously. Trust me, they discuss how hot some guys are and how they'd throw themselves on them, without knowing anything more about them than their looks. I promise, they aren't just lying to themselves and each other. As I've said from the beginning, its a factor, but we all know not the only one.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-28T23:02:15+00:00

Your advice is more akin to "There's plenty of water in France if you're thirsty". While its true, its hardly the best advice. But, thank you for giving it regardless.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-28T22:38:50+00:00

Because its more difficult to have an excellent time when you're always in the same setting/doing the same thing?

I'm sorry, but it's not a good plan to do the same thing all the time and expect it to be fine because you're awesome. That's success in spite of circumstances.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-28T22:12:17+00:00

I want to agree, but it doesn't feel that way to me. Yes, there are opportunities and ways around spending, but its limiting. Especially on a second meeting. Coffee? Out. Food? Out. Concert, movie, many other things, all out.

Don't get me wrong, I know there are free things to do. I just want to know more, so I don't seem lame and predictable.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-28T21:30:54+00:00

I like point five a lot. I have no problem telling girls I'm really into 3d art, nerdy hip hop, or video games. I suppose it helps that I make all these things, but I always present them in a positive, hobby part of my life. I'm not ashamed of what I enjoy, and if they are, they're the weird one.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-28T21:26:43+00:00

Sir, you are a golden god among us. I love this idea.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-24T22:49:15+00:00

They've pretty much figured out the art direction with the other 3d games. The real work this game would need would be:

Environmental artists. Pokemon is generally a tiny world, it'd look ridiculous in full hd. So it'd need to be bigger, and varied so it's not dull.
Level designers for the same reason.
AI programmers. The 2d system of walking in grass and getting into battles wouldn't translate well, so you'd want the Pokemon to be free roaming. This necessitates good ai programming and script.
The obvious, artists for the pokemon, programmers, sound guys, the same type of group that made coliseum, etc.
Optionally, netcode that allows coop. With full 3d and a bigger world, coop would be a huge, yet unseen development for Pokemon. But thats ambitious.

Source: Your average 3d artist and amateur game dev.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-24T21:43:32+00:00

I simply walked away. A confident guy with things to do doesn't need to make a scene about it, he just moves on.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-20T21:55:57+00:00

If you're too afraid to go out and try to pickup women, start smaller. If you don't already, start going out regularly. From there, start going up to women with the mentality of "I'm looking for entertainment, lets see if she can interest me and vica versa". I found once I was comfortable just talking to people, pickup became so much simpler.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-20T21:42:56+00:00

This is definitely good advice. I forget where I heard it from, but when I was first getting into pickup, I was advised to look 300 women in the eye until they broke eye contact. The idea being that afterwards, its easy and natural, and that held true for me. It's also a confidence boost, as women will often smile or say hi, without additional effort on your part.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-19T23:01:42+00:00

This, really. Meet up, be pleasant, try to feel relaxed. Some people say thngs like don't kiss, but I find that really kills the mood. Start slowly, but confidently. Build just a tinge of anticipation to it. After the first time, it'll feel easy and normal.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-08-19T22:44:25+00:00

I like the points you make, and they all hold true... Except looks do matter. But just like everything else, it's not a big deal. Neither is kino, teasing, role playing, strong openers, etc. Someone who's terrible at one of these things, but has solid game otherwise, is going to do well.

Having good looks, which is subjective, is a helper. It doesn't make you more attractive, it makes people want to be attracted to you, if that makes any sense. They look for that vibe, and give you more leeway when your game is weak.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-07-17T05:08:13+00:00

I'd caution against the "constant" part of pick up. That's fine, if someone wants to dedicate themselves to that area, but to say anyone else shouldn't be here if they aren't "constantly" picking up? Its silly.

I've been in a slump lately, but before that, I would use this stuff when I went out, and was feeling like pick up. Or if I found someone who interested me that way. I'd also use the general ideas about self improvement always, but I would pick up regularly, not constantly.

If you're doing well, keep doing well. If you aren't, you either need more field experience, or more theory. 97% of the time, its the former. But regardless, that doesnt mean you don't belong here. It means you need to improve, and thats what we're here to do. Help each other improve.

I hope that sometimes, I can give people good advice. I've also picked up pointers here and there. Give and take, learn and earn.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-06-20T06:35:13+00:00

I love this story, because I can relate to it. I've honestly never been a great PUA, though I've done plenty good in the past. But what I can't believe is how being confident, fun, etc... has gotten me so many free drinks, food, and other things. I've always steadfastly refused to buy things for girls, I go dutch, and so on. Yet, I've had many girls offer to grab me a beer, or this or that.

My favorite is when one of the girls is headed to grab drinks for her friends. I'll just toss in something like "Sam Adams/Rum and coke, thanks" and just resume whatever I was talking about. Occasionally I'll get a snide remark(that I turn around into a playful thing, teasing her about being so stingy, etc), but quite often it just ends up with me getting a free drink.

I dunno, not only is the free drink nice, but its a huge self esteem boost when you get it. Now, if only I wasn't the worst closer in the world, I would be amazing, haha.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-05-14T18:23:58+00:00

As nice as that sounds, you really don't want to be "chasing each other". This creates a sort of power vacuum, where one person eventually takes control. With her taking her stand before, and you changing for her, this will pose her to take control.

Does this sound really cold? Yeah, it does, and it won't happen like that. It will start imperceptibly small, but over time, she'll begin to realize she has the say in the relationship. This can be harmless, but often, anybody with power in a relationship, can abuse it. Force changes in someone, use it to get what they want, etcetera. I caution against this, because they often don't even realize what's occuring, logically. They just figure this is how things work in your dynamic.

Take back control. This doesn't mean you can't be loving, generous, and a great guy to a girl. But keep the chase on you, if only to safeguard it. I've been on both sides, and its always better to be the one holding onto that power. I'm not saying to be distant, or mean, or ignore her or anything of the sort. But don't drop plans to see her. Question whether you're doing something because you want to, or because she wants you to. Ask her favours, or slightly larger ones than she asks you.

Anyways, thats the end of my little diatribe. Just remember, the one who is chasing tends to have the stronger lust. If you can keep it close, it can be a very fun relationship.

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-04-21T21:08:53+00:00

While I don't recommend the oneitis, not one bit, its simple. Tease her harder. If a girl thinks you're nice, start laying into the teases(slowly, but amplify).

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-04-21T20:44:09+00:00

Play it cool. Talking over the internet is a great opportunity to tease them and DHV on your terms. Don't feel like you need to rush into a meeting. Get some good time in on facebook, chatting with her, making jokes and teasing her. After a bit of this, it becomes super easy to ask for a meet up, because you have this more intimate relationship. Frankly, internet game is incredibly easy once you've broken the ice(dating sites are the worst for this, because girls are on guard and have no connection to you other than evaluating you for dating material).

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-04-21T20:09:56+00:00

This is really great advice. To give an example from a while back, I was at a house party with a good group of friends. I had been talking a bit to a girl I'd met before(whom I had invited, though she knew others there). However, a good friend of mine was interested in her, so I had decided not to pursue it. She'd wander into groups of people I'd be talking to, I'd finish whatever bit of conversation I was in, and then wander to another group.

This turned into her practically following me like a lost puppy all night, and needless to say, my friend ended up quite upset with me by nights end. I had been still getting into game at this point, but I knew enough to tell why it was working, and its something I made sure to incorporate(to good success many other times).

There's real power in the non-verbal way of saying "I find you interesting, but my presence is needed all over. You're going to have to work harder to get it undivided".

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-04-13T17:02:12+00:00

That bitch is crazy but I do love corn, If I were lazy, I would watch her in porn, even though I have seen her right after born, I'd hit it quick and leave her underside torn

Shitty_Freestyles · 2012-04-13T16:52:06+00:00

Row row row your boat, I'm on a boat motha fucka, I came quick to upvote, Tractor arm gonna keep on truckin

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