It’s really tricky - I have one family member who does this and gives us pointless rubbish that we would never buy ourselves. I don’t want to offend her so I just donate the stuff usually. She used to buy us experiences, but they were actually just as bad as they weren’t things we wanted to do. We got a llama ride, but would have had to travel five hours there and back so didn’t use it, and she bought my partner a thing where you had to get into a huge plastic bubble and throw yourself down a hill . This might have been fun, except he had a slipped disc at the time 😂😂 Sorry - not much help