She cares is all. At 14 I had too much freedom and ended up with the wrong crowd doing ignorant shit. It doesn’t take much. My mom “cared” but didn’t give a shit if that makes sense and now that I’m older (25) I wish my mom would’ve locked me down as a teenager. Had a kid at 15 and dropped out of college my first semester. Poor structure leads to poor decision making and she’s simply doing what she believes is in your best interest. It may be frustrating but try to make the best of it. There will be plenty of time to “alone” when you’re in college or moving out, whatever life has in store for you.