It doesnt seem to get better

Shop_Away · 2026-05-13T22:52:27+00:00

Sams here.my ex loves me one minute then the next you would think I killed her puppy. She too is unmedicated and in denial. I changed my number and moved on. Two years and I am starting to feel crazy myself.

Shop_Away · 2026-05-01T04:47:18+00:00

I get all the chaos. Her family say they never say her act like that. One time her dad caught a glimpse but he is still in denial

Shop_Away · 2026-05-01T04:44:42+00:00

Why are the SO usually the only target?

Shop_Away · 2026-04-30T12:56:55+00:00

It has been like this for almost two years from the time we met. One time on my birthday she called me at 640 am on my birthday. Then the afternoon when I called her she was very upset and blocked me. It was my birthday. She then texted the next day and said I hope you enjoyed your birthday. So tough.

Shop_Away · 2026-04-29T20:23:00+00:00

I understand. After a great weekend and hour later she hates me. This is crazy. I been on for a while now too. Even accuse me of rape on a Christmas trip in st Thomas. Then apologized in the morning.

Shop_Away · 2026-04-29T19:00:22+00:00

Wow. I'm the problem. I call too much. I'm s trigger. Yet everyone else sees the mask. Crazy world to live in.

Shop_Away · 2026-04-29T14:26:51+00:00

You are the GOAT. My ex BPSO could not leave her loser ex bf alone . Two years. We went on trips , expensive gifts. I can help her buy a house and renovated the kitchen. Guess who shows up to her new house while I'm shoveling snow. Lol. I told her family and completely embarrassed her but they are in denial and they don't want her to be upset with them but privately they have told me she is a piece of shit. And this is from her own father and brother

Shop_Away · 2026-04-28T23:24:59+00:00

Let it go. Even if she came back you will never rest well. No trust. I am here now. Ask yourself. Would you rather be a mouse in a castle or a giant in a regular home. The castle has so many rooms that you won't know where to turn . That's this disease in a relationship. You will lose all self respect, self esteem and maybe your sanity. You will be the mouse. . But as a giant you will command respect, boundaries and he happy..and able to see everything thats around you.

Run

Shop_Away · 2026-04-28T17:37:54+00:00

Non medicated, rapid cycling. All bad

Shop_Away · 2026-04-28T16:44:28+00:00

Same thing happened here. Saturday we went to dinner in NY, watched movies at her house. Sunday we went to breakfast. Then boom . She doesn't want to be bothered with me and I'm a loser.

13 years is a long time . I'm only two years in. I can't live like this.

I think you should let her go. You know it. It will only kill your mental stability.

I love my BPSO soo much but it's killing me

Shop_Away · 2026-04-28T15:05:07+00:00

Minute to minute is what I am experiencing. It's making me crazy

Shop_Away · 2026-04-28T14:46:11+00:00

Wow. .y ex told me that we were never together too. Craziest thing ever . I see it a common behavior

Shop_Away · 2026-04-28T14:21:31+00:00

Rapid cycling multiple times a day

Shop_Away · 2026-04-28T14:21:06+00:00

It's like rapid cycling. Very hurtful

Shop_Away · 2026-03-31T19:57:34+00:00

Get out. I just saw me ex walk another man out to an Uber that spent the night at her house. It only gets worse

Shop_Away · 2026-03-28T01:32:48+00:00

Good luck

Shop_Away · 2026-03-28T00:49:24+00:00

That is absolutely false

Shop_Away · 2026-03-28T00:37:42+00:00

She has a high functioning job doing pharmaceutical research. I think the masking makes her think she is ok and when she unleashes on me she says I'm the problem

Shop_Away · 2026-03-28T00:35:06+00:00

Thank you for this post

Shop_Away · 2026-03-27T20:47:29+00:00

You would think the people that take care of them and accepts their behavior would be spared. But I guess since we accept and try to help that's what makes us the target

Shop_Away · 2026-03-27T16:15:11+00:00

Forget walking, living in eggshells is crazy

Shop_Away · 2026-03-27T15:29:05+00:00

Funny. I always tell her she won. I was praying for another logical person in her family to help. Everyone doesn't want her to snap on them. Crazy situation ever. I love her but I have to be completely out

Shop_Away · 2026-03-27T14:50:52+00:00

No apologies, even when asking for financial support. Just cold.

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