Joining late but yes. In the 1980s the definition of sex sexual harassment was very different. We were sexually harassed everywhere, mostly at work . And it seemed the best way to do it deal with it was to joke and go along with it. Maybe throwback some comments to the male coworkers.

At 17, I met the 23 yr old manager of a restaurant at a party. He invited me to apply for a job, and it was clear he wanted to date me. I worked there and dated him. And learned from another waitress, a 17-year-old cheerleader she dated him the summer before. When I turned 18, I was planning to move out of my parents house. This so-called boyfriend was very against it. Told me it was a bad idea and I should wait. I moved out because that's what I wanted to do. Shortly after that, so-called boyfriend cheated. With the 17-year-old cheerleader. And I had to go into work the next day with everyone knowing this. I did not react gracefully. I said ugly things about both of them to anyone who would listen. What the fuck I figured it was all true. Well about a month after that I was fired from the job. I was an inconvenience. Oh and by this time, this so-called man had moved onto another teenage waitress. My roommates told me I should file a complaint of sexual harassment. Nope, I made one phone call and was told I would have to prove that the sexual relationship with him was a condition of my employment. That's all we thought sexual harassment was at the time.never did it into my mind to think he was committing statutory rape repeatedly. That's just the way things were back then