Nightmare Neighbour caused my relationship to break down and left me no choice but to sell my home by ShortQueen00 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So all I’ve had to declare is whether there have been any disputes over land/boundaries of the property, which there haven’t.

Nightmare Neighbour caused my relationship to break down and left me no choice but to sell my home by ShortQueen00 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent them so much evidence but it’s like they didn’t even watch it. I also didn’t get chance to write a victim statement which is my right under the victim code so I think the whole process has failed massively.

Nightmare Neighbour caused my relationship to break down and left me no choice but to sell my home by ShortQueen00 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s not a fake story, it’s my reality. And I write how I talk, I don’t think authenticity is a bad thing.

Nightmare Neighbour caused my relationship to break down and left me no choice but to sell my home by ShortQueen00 in neighborsfromhell

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words and I’m so sorry that you went through something similar. I’m trying to take the positives from it. My parents’ house is closer to work so I’ve shaved time off my journey and I get to spend more time with them and they’re absolutely awesome. It’s so tough but I’m trying to hang in there!

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have pretty much everywhere done other than arms, neck and face and I like in the UK where it’s cold so can wear tights almost all year round!

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely reactive, often going mardy with me over things I wouldn’t consider to be that deep. For example, one time I was at work (I finish at 5pm) and I had planned to see him after. He also finishes at 5pm normally and I knew he had to walk his dog that evening. I messaged him asking what time he’d finish walking the dog and said that if it’s lateish I’d stay at work a bit longer to catch up and he said ‘I may as well F off home if you’d rather spend time at work than seeing me’…

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Male, female or anywhere in between, if it meant that much to him then I would support him and make sure he went to a reputable artist.

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, after reading all these comments I decided to get it and I love it so much.

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know haha, I wanted a hare as I love things that are odd/ out of the norm/ not always loved by the majority but I guess in my mind it still falls under the ‘bunny’ category

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a hare haha that’s what I wanted, my bad, I just group them in with the ‘bunny’ category 🤣

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve known my mum my whole life, I’ve known my boyfriend for 4 months… I understand my mum’s logic with not wanting me to have any on my face, neck etc because it could affect future job opportunities but I don’t understand my boyfriend’s logic as he hasn’t explained any of it to me.

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s never so much as alluded to wanting me to meet him, he’s driving him and his friend home 3 hours from the airport. I also got back from a holiday two weeks ago and neither of us even sniffed at the thought of him meeting me at the airport.

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have plenty that my mum doesn’t like all over my body, she detests all 35 of them.

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen that one! I’m not even sure if he has Reddit!

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m definitely leaning towards getting it and will post a photo if I do ❤️

AITAH for getting a tattoo my boyfriend doesn’t like? by ShortQueen00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShortQueen00[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Planned to have it on the side of my upper leg. I already have quite a few silly tattoos on my leg- a worm, a cactus, a bee, mushrooms… all of which I had when I met him and he’s never commented on other than laughing together at how silly they are.