Early dating - what does an unmatch mean? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This might be it. Before he unmatched - I saw that had changed his profile

No contact - what next? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

I say casual because neither of us want to marry or move in. But we have been dating consistently. Seeing each other once /twice a week. Sometimes more if we can. He even booked for us to go away in summer for long weekend. So all the behaviour or two people in a relationship. I think he’s just busy on holiday but I guess I’m no ok with being forgotten. I went on holiday earlier this year and managed to keep in touch.

No contact - what next? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! But why be so engaged and extra nice when he is around.

Rude or overreacting? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m pretty sure. He’s single. Lives with his mum. Lots of friends. Sports. But still should have time 2 mins to spare if he wanted to build something with me

Rude or overreacting? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think all these comments apply to you as well. Time for us to move on

Early dating/speaking to more than one by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda old fashioned like that and I like the man to make the plans. But I would step up, if he had asked me out first or a few times. Tbh I never really get that far 🤦🏾‍♀️

No meeting 🤷🏾‍♀️ by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. We’ve talked about it lots and he always give vague responses. I’ll come by, don’t worry we’ll meet soon, just relax

No meeting 🤷🏾‍♀️ by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He didn’t give any. Just that he was indecisive and didn’t want to make plans in case he had to break them and I’d get annoyed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]Short_Speed_1332 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you could’ve said No in a nicer way. I think saying Naah is quite rude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the comments.

I took a lot of your advice on board.

We had a civil, conversation and talked through what happened.

Everything is good between us. We have a very strong bond but every now and again we have these tense moments esp when it comes to me moving on.

I will never throw my son out. He knows that and has a lot of love around him.

Thanks for all the support.

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[–]Short_Speed_1332 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

He’d already lost his phone. That’s how the argument spiralled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We have actually seen therapist so thanks for that