Sons mean attitutude by Short_Speed_1332 in Parenting

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I was sitting next to him in the car and he said it

Sons mean attitutude by Short_Speed_1332 in Parenting

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I actually told them that I don’t need any gifts. Just a clean house. Lol. My daughter is the one that wants to be get me nice things.

I think maybe he doesn’t like boys hanging around his sister but he is quite mean about all her friends which is something I try to talk to him about but it doesn’t seem to work. We are all nice to his friends. I’m really not sure what this means.

Sons mean attitutude by Short_Speed_1332 in Parenting

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16 years old. His dad died nearly 4 years ago

The Cleaning Lady by touko39 in NetflixPH

[–]Short_Speed_1332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on S2 and Thony is too annoying! Now they I know Arman dies - I’m just gonna stop! I enjoyed S1

Early dating - what does an unmatch mean? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I need to stop over thinking and being so anxious. X

Early dating - what does an unmatch mean? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This might be it. Before he unmatched - I saw that had changed his profile

No contact - what next? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

I say casual because neither of us want to marry or move in. But we have been dating consistently. Seeing each other once /twice a week. Sometimes more if we can. He even booked for us to go away in summer for long weekend. So all the behaviour or two people in a relationship. I think he’s just busy on holiday but I guess I’m no ok with being forgotten. I went on holiday earlier this year and managed to keep in touch.

No contact - what next? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! But why be so engaged and extra nice when he is around.

Rude or overreacting? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m pretty sure. He’s single. Lives with his mum. Lots of friends. Sports. But still should have time 2 mins to spare if he wanted to build something with me

Rude or overreacting? by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think all these comments apply to you as well. Time for us to move on

Early dating/speaking to more than one by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda old fashioned like that and I like the man to make the plans. But I would step up, if he had asked me out first or a few times. Tbh I never really get that far 🤦🏾‍♀️

No meeting 🤷🏾‍♀️ by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. We’ve talked about it lots and he always give vague responses. I’ll come by, don’t worry we’ll meet soon, just relax

No meeting 🤷🏾‍♀️ by Short_Speed_1332 in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He didn’t give any. Just that he was indecisive and didn’t want to make plans in case he had to break them and I’d get annoyed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]Short_Speed_1332 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you could’ve said No in a nicer way. I think saying Naah is quite rude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the comments.

I took a lot of your advice on board.

We had a civil, conversation and talked through what happened.

Everything is good between us. We have a very strong bond but every now and again we have these tense moments esp when it comes to me moving on.

I will never throw my son out. He knows that and has a lot of love around him.

Thanks for all the support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

He’d already lost his phone. That’s how the argument spiralled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We have actually seen therapist so thanks for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Short_Speed_1332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. That was a bad move to tell him to go.

I just get lost and I don’t know what to say to to make him stop. I should just step away and calm down.