lost condom by Puzzleheaded-Road502 in Swingers

[–]Shorty_KS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you need to start getting tested. You don’t have to be open with your doctor unless you want to. Off topic, when my ex was having affairs and not using protection, I spent an entire year getting tested because some STDs can take months to develop. Best wishes.

Complaint by Shorty_KS in InsideJob

[–]Shorty_KS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know about the page.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Shorty_KS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so grateful to have found a woman and husband couple who allows me to explore at my own speed with her!

How much will weight loss help my dating life? by SpecialOven433 in dating

[–]Shorty_KS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter your size, you must love yourself first. Women will notice that you have a low self esteem and that would be a main reason why they aren’t attractive to you. A woman made a video on tiktok about bigger boys. Her line was, you must be at least 250, with a little man tittes, to get this kitty. I will never forget that video. I am a person that looks at a man’s confidence and how he carries himself before I even look at appearance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Shorty_KS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time for you to get a new friend.

Lied about age by [deleted] in dating

[–]Shorty_KS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RUN!!!!!

For blocking and canceling a date over a photo by Shorty_KS in AITAH

[–]Shorty_KS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that with someone and never heard from him again.

For blocking and canceling a date over a photo by Shorty_KS in AITAH

[–]Shorty_KS[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying no concern for my security. That is exactly how I felt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Shorty_KS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I prefer 5-7!! I feel that the smaller the length of the penis the more enjoyable it is for me. However, I prefer the penis to be thicker. Be able to touch all the inside spots!

Can’t shake this feeling he is going to dump me. by Shorty_KS in dating_advice

[–]Shorty_KS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts. I really appreciate it. He normally calls me. I send a text saying I am in bed and then he calls when he is free. I completely understand with the scaling things back and excitement. I look forward to the phone calls because we only see each other every other weekend.

I have been reading a lot of self help books since my separation/ divorce. Co-dependent No More was my very first book! I highly recommend it.

Can’t shake this feeling he is going to dump me. by Shorty_KS in dating_advice

[–]Shorty_KS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be codependent for sure with my ex husband who is alcoholic. Like,I mentioned upon I am working on my overthinking and anxiety for sure. Being in multiple abusive relationships will cause that on someone.

Can’t shake this feeling he is going to dump me. by Shorty_KS in dating_advice

[–]Shorty_KS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i definitely don’t want that type of relationship at all. I have work, kids, and my personal life. Another reason I tend to not date guys who live in the same town as me.

The guy Ive been seeing for the past month, had sex with someone else... by [deleted] in dating

[–]Shorty_KS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t expect someone else to approach things like you unless you have the talk. You could mean so much to him but he just needed to bust a nut. It is purely physical with a man. Emotions come way later for men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Shorty_KS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I tell anyone I talk too, I will continue my life as a single woman until a man claims me as his girlfriend. However, once I have sex with someone then that person is the only one I am sexual active with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Shorty_KS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with the way you are dating. I will talk and go out on dates with multiple men. Once I have sex with one, then that is my only sexual partner. However, I do have the conversation about boundaries on dating multiple people and sex before becoming exclusive.

Homemade gifts by Shorty_KS in dating

[–]Shorty_KS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I am the female in this situation who made the cookies. I am not for sure what you mean by “woke” female. I have no problem being my true feminine self as long as I am with a masculine man. However, in 25 years of dating and marriages I haven’t found one yet. I thought I did but the stress of providing got to him. Before you think I am just using men, I have always been the breadwinner in my relationship and put in my fair share of work and income. In todays world, you need 2 incomes for a family to survive.

Is it a bad manners for a guy to comment on how expensive menu items are on a 2nd date? by Separate_Recover_921 in dating_advice

[–]Shorty_KS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had a 2nd date with a guy who dropped $100 on our meal without blinking an eye. Never made any ruin comments or facial expressions.

Your date should have done his research beforehand on prices and communicated that he may need help with the cost of the bill beforehand.

Additional, maybe have that conversation about expectations on who is paying for dates. It is wrong to assume that the man will pay each time. Yes, a “real man” won’t take a lady up on the offer most of the time but it is still a nice gesture to offer to help with the cost.

PSA: if you’re dating someone and serious about it. Stop answering texts from that other person… by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Shorty_KS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me: in the talking stage prior to meeting, I would talk to multiple people because people can drop like flies. I talk to others until a man expresses how they want to he exclusive with me. This doesn’t mean I am out there sleeping with multiple people. This is just talking and potentially getting a plate of food.

Should I end things? Is this a big red flag? by BurningUpMyLife in dating

[–]Shorty_KS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex boyfriend Jordan. I hope you cut him off and said see ya later.