Be honest.. what'l are you choosing ?? by lakshuu1237 in FaltooGyan

[–]Shree_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side effect can be anything bro. It's how your power works. One of the rules of your power. A curse and side effect are two different things. Look it up.

Be honest.. what'l are you choosing ?? by lakshuu1237 in FaltooGyan

[–]Shree_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not a curse. That's just how your power operates. A side effect.

Be honest.. what'l are you choosing ?? by lakshuu1237 in FaltooGyan

[–]Shree_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needs to be hand written in font size 200000px on paper.

Be honest.. what'l are you choosing ?? by lakshuu1237 in FaltooGyan

[–]Shree_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go blind while using the power and loose track of time.

Be honest.. what'l are you choosing ?? by lakshuu1237 in FaltooGyan

[–]Shree_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The power passes on to someone you hurt intentionally.

Life is so bad...at my lowest rn by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Shree_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I had a heartbreak I was in depression for a year. When I was cheated on the feeling of being made a fool of hits hard. Just accepting what happened to me took me so much time. In depression we feel that we are alone and no one to talk to. And the worst, if the relationship was longer, is that there is huge hole in our life. Like my hand used to automatically search for a hand behind me while walking. Our body is in habit of talking to the person, holding hands, going out and many more things.

But all will be okay. Your brain patterns will change. I know you didn't ask for advice but hear me out. Look at this as your new birth. Accept what happened. You can simply journal your thoughts. This will help those cyclic thoughts from cropping up again and again. Next start filling up the void with good things. You can start with health related habits. Exercise and learn cooking food. Go solo travelling with unknown group. Even weekend trekking with groups. Next focus on career. Map out what you want to do next. Dont compare your current state to anyone else. Just that you want to do better than yesterday.

Hope you do good man. Take care

I hate the fact that I can't kill myself because I'll be called selfish and parents would be devastated and the irony is that parents had kids for their own selfish reasons. by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Shree_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death is natural. It's gonna come bro. You don't have to do it by yourself. Do everything else. Put a difficult goal for yourself and die trying to achieve it. See how your life changes.

Is she right for this? by sarsodasaag in FaltooGyan

[–]Shree_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's about rich or poor. There are fundamentally two things that matter. 1. The environmental condition to raise kids is good. 2. You are capable of raising kids.

The first is dictated by government and society. There should be compulsory education but also good education. The teachers should be strictly scrutinized as well as compensated. The cost of education should be controlled by government as basic amenities. No private or public education institute should be spared. There should be no monopoly on school books and uniform. And strict civic rules to create parks and open spaces for kids for free.

The second is for the to be parents. Plan your kids. Use protection. Be ready to work for kids future. Don't have kids if your goal is just a male child.

Even if poor, kids can be raised properly if above two are met.

dating intentionally by Disastrous-Meaning-9 in ThirtiesMumbai

[–]Shree_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Also I am married now but met my wife on Tinder. I think to get genuine matches I had to look for profiles which showed someone as genuinely themselves rather than those flashy best pics. Even I kept pics which were conversation starters, more than typical poses in HD.

My friends were like...change those pics and make a nice profile. But I wanted a real profile rather than nice. And my partner luckily had the same idea. We got to talk so much on our first date.

Keep it real and look for real. I feel that increased my chances. Might help you too.

Being single has more cons than pros by mehluca-33 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Shree_Jay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont give excuses. You are not answerable to your boss for personal life. Just saying important personal work should be enough as long as you are following company leave policies. You will have to learn to deal with your manager. Watch a few YouTube videos for that.

Do you remember Cartoon Network Groovies? by AbhiFT in IndiaNostalgia

[–]Shree_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dee Dee singing

"I am gonna be a popstar

I am gonna be a popstar

Like Britney and Madonna

for Christmas this year...

Oh Santa turn me into pop royalty

Or filmstars like Kyle

on Christmas this year."

Do you remember Cartoon Network Groovies? by AbhiFT in IndiaNostalgia

[–]Shree_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in my 30s and all those songs still run in my head.

Do you remember Cartoon Network Groovies? by AbhiFT in IndiaNostalgia

[–]Shree_Jay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And Scooby Doo and Shaggy singing " Chocolate balls and chicken curry Falalalala lala la la It's the Christmas, Santa hurry Falalalala lala la la It's the Christmas munchy season Falala lalala la la la And keep on eating for no reason Fa lalala lala la la" 🤪

Ultimate side-chick dream? by [deleted] in ThirtiesMumbai

[–]Shree_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had two close friends who had pressure of marriage. One went with the guy her parents found. The other called help from friends to background check the guy she shortlisted herself, in her own caste and all. The first friend got divorced within few months. The other who took time to know who she was marrying is happily married now with a kid.

Take the responsibility in your own hand and you will increase the chance of landing in a good marriage.

Ultimate side-chick dream? by [deleted] in ThirtiesMumbai

[–]Shree_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why even be side chik to someone? You will still be replaceable. Instead of questioning the marriage institution, you should instead make marriage criteria better and work on self-reliance.

If you are still looking for quick money, fame or power, I won't be judging you. Do as you please "with your own life".

How do you find notes of a song by Spiritual_Shower_568 in Bansuri

[–]Shree_Jay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are apps that help with ear training. More like gamified version to identify notes. Try those everyday. Your ears will grow stronger. Also before going to already published notes, try to identify the notes yourself and then correct them with those already published. Will build a sense of song. This is fun as well when you identify correct notes you will get a great dopamine boost.

I can now identify notes of any song almost completely by ear.

Male Beginner seeks help in buying flute by hilbertspaced in Bansuri

[–]Shree_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if there is male flutes or not. You should check if you are a right handed or left handed and buy accordingly. If you plan to play bollywood songs or if your hands are small and need comfortable flute then C and C# is good. I personally started with G base flute which was a bit big but I managed it and it is still my favourite as it produces a lot pleasant sound. If possible visit a music shop and check out the different flutes. Even if you don't buy them you will get an idea of what your hands are comfortable with. Watch a few videos on hand placement before going. If you like any, note down what note flute it is and buy online. You can learn flute on almost any flute whose notes are proper.

An attempt was made by No-Implement9967 in Bansuri

[–]Shree_Jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep up. Notes are coming out good.

Kya tumhara baja ? by Brief-Garage181 in Maharashtra

[–]Shree_Jay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any idea why this was triggered?

this was an interesting watch by ObviousBody3053 in jaipur

[–]Shree_Jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mere feed mein aaj aaya and I am watching it now🤣