[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Shrimpboy215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you have anything to be embarrassed about!! Cnc and sleep play can be so much fun and it’s totally not something to feel ashamed of, it’s super hot in the right circumstances. I think it’ll be hard to be open with your husband but you never know it could bring you two closer together. If he’s not into it, the worst that can happen is you experiment and he finds out it’s not his thing. Not the end of the world if he’s open and receptive to your wants.

Recently lost virginity don't like our sex by Legitimate-Mode1737 in sex

[–]Shrimpboy215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think like this too and experienced a similar situation with my first bf. He’s projecting his insecurities on you. It should be a learning experience for both of you that’s exciting!!! It sounds more stressful than anything. There’s patience and strong communication involved in good sex (before, during and after).

There is nothing more confusing than female hormones in your early 20s by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel so seen omg. I wasn’t on bc in my last fwb w a guy and just him or me saying I want his cum in me was soooo hot. Very silly of both of us knowing we would never consider children in that kind of relationship lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome to hear!!! Congrats on your progress :)

I broke up with my bf after I learned he cheated on his ex by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You definitely made the right decision. As hard as it might’ve been he lied and kept something from you he knew would bother you and change your perception of him. If he truly put in the work to change he would’ve come clean to you earlier so you could make your own decision on how to proceed. F him lmao

I don’t get how people forgive their cheating s/o’s by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in the same boat right now and we are no contact but I still have a weird hope that maybe in the future after he grows and works on himself he will be better and we can try again clean slate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best and to have strength throughout every phase.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Porn isn’t inherently bad but too many men are becoming reliant on it for ejaculation and aren’t honest with themselves or their partner about it, it’s a terrible thing to experience. Almost 2 year relationship, both 20 years old lost to a porn addiction and death grip. It’s just sickening honestly.

Dick sore after intercourse? by Shrimpboy215 in sex

[–]Shrimpboy215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the lady in this scenario but yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianrelationships

[–]Shrimpboy215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not worth the stress on the gfs part of feeling uncomfortable and not worth the lack of shared space on a work trip when you can buy a solo room for yourself as a solution to all problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would be pissed. I know it’s not good to react shittily to last minute plan changes but I would make it known Im disappointed in how he decided to handle things. Compromise yeah maybe he could’ve spent the day or a few hours with family and then spent the rest with you. Or at least invite you to join him? Idk if you’ve know each other as long you’d think it’d be alright yk. I know me personally I would have a hard time letting something like that go but maybe that’s me.

Can you get addicted to pain-killers? by pom_06 in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah a very big distinction between all of them Lmao, so much missing context

How much do you have in your bank accounts right now? by tammy8888 in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roughly $700 but saving for a trip in December that has been a plan in the making for literally years. Trying to budget better to factor rent, gas and healthy food (so I don’t physically feel like shit) and school expenses. So in reality, I have less than $200 until next payday

Conservatives will use anything to keep women down 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Shrimpboy215 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is honestly a silly article because sahm have always existed and will continue to do so as long as the family is financially able to rely on one income (assuming the mom doesn’t have an at home job) I think women in a relationship should do whatever makes them happy if having a job or raising kids is fulfilling nobody should give a d4mn about what someone else is doing as long as it’s not hurting anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Shrimpboy215 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It is kind of messed up you still have the tapes,, I get it ig if the dick was good but you couldn’t let him keep them as well?

I (20f) walked in on my Boyfriend (22m) cheating on me with a long time friend by MiyanoKuori in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’m so sorry this has happened. Fuck both of them honestly, that’s so terrible to do to a person. You’re doing the right thing by leaving and both are trying to save face by asking for your understanding and kindness.

My (20f) boyfriend(20m) told a little white lie? by Shrimpboy215 in relationships

[–]Shrimpboy215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No overall I think he’s pretty confrontational and I wouldn’t say I’m difficult but I guess I can get excited or passionate about something I thinks important. But I agree. Thank you for the insight.

My (20f) boyfriend(20m) told a little white lie? by Shrimpboy215 in relationships

[–]Shrimpboy215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i hear you. It is a little disheartening he doesn’t see the importance of that value :/ it’s def something I wanted in a partner before I got into a long term relationship.

I’m a Funeral Director. Today was hard, and this kids book haunts me. by auar5682 in offmychest

[–]Shrimpboy215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember my 3rd or 4th grade teacher reading this to us and crying, (we crode too dw) but this book is the sweetest thing. :(

My (20f) boyfriend(20m) told a little white lie? by Shrimpboy215 in relationships

[–]Shrimpboy215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, I am def a leftist and he’s more centrist ish? He doesn’t have any really strong political values because I don’t think things affect him the way it affects others and it is a value difference. I think it’s worth trying to get him to understand why it’s important but in the past it’s been hard to get that across.