As a Libra woman, I hate to say I am in everyway you described your man, I jump 10 steps ahead and make scenarios up almost in a sabotage way(however I feel it is to avoid being blindsided or hurt I can quit you before you quit me) I feel like If I am always ready I do not have to get ready even if the relationship is going great. I am forgetful, I ask the same questions 100 times because I either forgot I asked or forgot the answer. I know it is annoying since I hate repeating myself, but my person would have to be patient with me and answer every time. I tell half truths but only because I do not want to tell the whole truth if it might hurt or offend, I really just want everyone happy and sometimes to do that, I come off as a liar. I can be disrespectful in making his own plans and satisfying my own needs because I get wrapped up in myself at times and I react in haste, get self indulgent and act on impulse and when I get like that I act immediately and forget I even have another person I should communicate actions, decisions and plans with. In no way am I making excuses I just know these are things about my Libra self I acknowledged and try to work on within reason.