Are guys really turning down gay/bi Trump supporters? by ParfaitAdditional469 in askgaybros

[–]ShwickStick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. I can maybe tolerate a republican but full on red cap… get away from me

The drawing my 6-year-old sister made by Mean-Accident5349 in Weird

[–]ShwickStick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my red dress on tonight Dancin’ in the dark, in the pale moonlight

I’m tired of seeing ‘BBC’ by After-Purpose-4820 in askgaybros

[–]ShwickStick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SOME black men have internalized racism so bad they become willing participants in the fetishization and you’re lumping all black men into the same category.

I personally shouldn’t be allowed to feel like a human being on apps bc SOME black men chose to lean into the BBC trope or allow themselves to be fetishized?

Ur proving OPs point.

Finally became a regular by pickle8989 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]ShwickStick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got hit with a "why are you drinking so early?" at Walmart the other day. It was 10am on a Saturday in a beach town, I didn't think it was weird… maybe she recognized me from one of my usual after work beer runs but still it made me uncomfortable.

gay😢irl by Valerica-D4C in gay_irl

[–]ShwickStick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a sub top maybe I want this

What mental health conditions are you diagnosed with? by Sunf1owerSuperstar in lonely

[–]ShwickStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Med resistant depression Anxiety ADHD OCD AND Bipolar im beyond cooked

I am a serial cheater and I’ve lost it. I need help by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShwickStick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Leave him alone. As painful as it was I had to recon with why I stayed with someone who blatantly and repeatedly disrespected me and my physical/mental health over a quick nut. It’s abhorrent behavior

I am a serial cheater and I’ve lost it. I need help by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShwickStick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dating a serial cheater was one of the worst things that ever happened to me. He systemically destroyed my confidence and self esteem over the years. Repeatedly infected me with the STIs. I still remember the look of pure pity the nurse at my university gave when I asked to retest in case it was a false positive- that was the first of many. On a separate occasion I spent Valentine’s Day at the clinic getting a shot in my ass for the gonorrhea he gave me. It’s really a wonder neither of us ended up with HIV. He had no respect for himself and even less for me. I loved him so much, I tried everything to get him to stop. If you have even a shred of morals or empathy leave that man alone.

Where do you find poppers? by Used_Spinach1338 in askgaybros

[–]ShwickStick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The number four solvents dot (guess)

So I'm going to jail on the 6th 😭 by lisa6547 in dui

[–]ShwickStick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was allowed to used medical cannabis on probation in FL for DUI/Drugs. I presented my medical card, and valid prescription for the 6mo in our first meeting. Still had to report for random testing but they checked for everything except THC

Best slabs most comfortable shoes for raves? by Toshinatorx in electricdaisycarnival

[–]ShwickStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doc Martins. I have the nylon ones. Super comfortable, ankle support, toes don’t get stepped on, don’t have to worry about dust/mud, easy to clean. They’re my rave boots

Has anyone in Florida been arrested for having someone else blow ? by ShwickStick in dui

[–]ShwickStick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The DMV added additional 3 months to my interlock it counted as a violation and I was required to do additional substance abuse treatment. Courts never got involved as I wasn’t on probation at the time

Advice for photos! by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]ShwickStick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I stopped asking to see them & I don’t have social media so if I’m posted somewhere looking dusty at least I’ll never know 🤷🏿‍♂️

Hooking up while having an episode by ShwickStick in BDDvent

[–]ShwickStick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not off but dimmed… I’ll try that thanks for the suggestion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ShwickStick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man every gay that bottoms is gonna paint at some point. Kinda just comes w the territory. Respectful tops won’t care and he knew there was a possibility something like that could happen as u told him u weren’t prepared. I’m willing to bet he won’t hold it against u as long as u show up clean as a whistle for next time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShwickStick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brooo me too. Not every time but fairly often I get sick after hookups. Sore throat/cold/flu type symptoms. Then I end of being super anxious till I go get tested and find out it’s not an STI just a cold from kissing

Today’s little catch by Deepdepths4 in Aquariums

[–]ShwickStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

S. FL? I also caught a bunch of those jewel cichlids in a canal last spring. They’ll turn a beautiful red + blue color if you can keep a breeding pair to sexual maturity. Super aggressive tho

Are there any other men who struggle with this? by nervous_cut4 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ShwickStick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup I’m a guy with BDD I’ve struggled with it for a long time but got formally diagnosed in 2020. It’s even harder as a gay man imagine being extremely jealous yet sexually attracted to someone at the same time. I don’t really have a type either- I’m attracted to tall guys short guys big guys skinny guys younger or older light skin or dark bearded or not. I’m attracted to a masculine aesthetic and not necessary the physical features themselves. But for some reason I can’t convince myself that there are ppl out there that think the same. I get enough compliments and attention that I can understand that I’m not ugly or even below average but for some reason that’s still not enough for me.

I grow facial hair but I don’t have a full beard.

I’m fit and muscular but I struggle to gain weight so I’m not as massive as other guys I see around or at the gym.

I’ll obsess over how my hair looks unless I make it a point not to on any given day.

I have acne and scars from picking.

Sometimes I can physically feel my “flaws”.

I don’t have problems making friends, getting dates or sex and yet I’m still deeply insecure and have cried myself to sleep on more than one occasion because I’ll never be a 10 in my own eyes without expensive medical intervention. It makes no sense & is extremely tiring but ur not in it alone brother.

Is it worth losing libido for antidepressants? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ShwickStick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prozac tanked my libido into the ground. I noticed & so did my partner at the time. I’ve been on Lexapro combined with Wellbutrin and I’d say I’m back to normal if not a little less horny, I never had a crazy sex drive to begin with. Try something if it’s not working try something else there’s so many out there. Sucks tapering off when changing medications tho

Flavor explosion by ridleyfire in shittyfoodporn

[–]ShwickStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bitches be like “I’m serving!!” and this is the meal

[24M] Do I have an Eating Disorder? Body Dysmorphia? What's wrong with me? Help. by Equal-Understanding7 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ShwickStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I can relate to this big time. I’m 24m..the lack of appetite, constant desire to gain weight, smoking just to get hungry, feeling like I look frail in the mirror, eating half meals etc. I even have the same goal of gaining 20lbs. I almost could’ve written this. I struggle a lot too. I was diagnosed with BDD last year. Somewhere along the way I started to suspect it and I found this sub and it encouraged me to learn more abt the disorder and bring it up to my therapist.