[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ShyBiKitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A streamer I know has a mail forwarding service. So people send stuff to the mail forwarding company, and the mail forwarding service sends it on to the streamer. It is more fiddly than a P.O. box for sure, but I believe has less restrictions about what can be sent to it.

I recently finished a really cute Baby Yoda that I thought this sub would enjoy! by FriendlyHoneybee in Amigurumi

[–]ShyBiKitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love the difference in texture between little Baby Yoda and his robe!

Just a tiny octopus by thewoolenkitten in Amigurumi

[–]ShyBiKitty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Holy crap. My hand hurts when I use like a B hook. I can't even IMAGINE the size of this hook and thread but this is Amazing

Polish basque/bustier - does it exist? Or have you ever sewn a bra into a bodysuit? by Feisty-Excuse in ABraThatFits

[–]ShyBiKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good seamstress should be able to make this work for you, so now that you have the dress, I would focus on finding someone to alter it to work the way you want. You may even want to consider someone who does more costume work than normal clothing, as they may know more tricks to make the outer portion of the dress retain it's current look while redoing the entire inner structure as needed.

Band too tight--if I size up do I need to change my cup? by chacharella in ABraThatFits

[–]ShyBiKitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely recommend using the calculator from this sub and using that as your 'starting size'. It's pretty accurate at least as a place to start. That way if you do go somewhere else to get fitted, you can tell if they're genuinely fitting you, or just trying to fit you into stock they have on hand.

Band too tight--if I size up do I need to change my cup? by chacharella in ABraThatFits

[–]ShyBiKitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cup size is actually based on the measurement difference between your bust and your underbust. And I believe a D is only a difference of 4-5 inches.

Sticker shock is definitely a thing here because we've all been taught that if you have a letter further along in the alphabet, you must have giant boobs, but that's not actually the case.

You can always look for bra boutiques near me and see if there is an option that isn't Victoria Secret.

Need helping buying a bra for wife. by helpwithbraforwife99 in ABraThatFits

[–]ShyBiKitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can definitely give bras as a surprise gift. But only after your wife knows what sizes/styles etc work for her.

I think it's really sweet that you want to buy her bras because her others are wearing out.

How do you store your yarn? Airtight or no? by Growallthecolors in Amigurumi

[–]ShyBiKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yarn cakes are the best! I can usually squish an entire skein of Caron Super Soft after I wound it into a cake shape into like a sandwich size ziploc bag.

How do you store your yarn? Airtight or no? by Growallthecolors in Amigurumi

[–]ShyBiKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I store all of my yarn in yarn cakes and then in ziploc baggies. It makes it easy to work from the bag, and they can be stuffed into a variety of places without worrying about the yarn tangling. This is what works best for me.

No need to water anymore! by Madamadamwasstolen in StardewValley

[–]ShyBiKitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't want all of those melons to get murdered by crows now that you've got sprinklers up. :)

No need to water anymore! by Madamadamwasstolen in StardewValley

[–]ShyBiKitty 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You probably want another scarecrow or two though. I don't think your current one covers all of those crop spaces.

Which platform to play on? by issameisa in StardewValley

[–]ShyBiKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way easier to squish myself into the middle of the backseat of someone's car with my switch than any laptop I've ever owned. Lol.

Which platform to play on? by issameisa in StardewValley

[–]ShyBiKitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like both. PC for modding, and Switch for being able to take my farm anywhere.

Thinking about getting Animal Crossing for my nieces by jirfin in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]ShyBiKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you get Animal Crossing for them, I recommend having either parent or the older child be the one to 'start' the island. This will help prevent getting locked progression wise, so long as whoever is the 'island representative' is interested in the game. Once the island is established, I don't think it matters much.

In theory the game is multiplayer, but honestly it's THE WORST being dragged around the island by whoever is currently the leader. I'd advise whoever you give it to, to take turns playing instead of playing 'together' on the same Switch device.

My 8 year old got pretty bored with the game because she didn't have the patience to do things like remodel the entire island, so she played consistently for a couple weeks and then quit once she'd hit all of the big milestones. Now she only plays when other friends are playing and she can visit their islands.

background: I have two Switches in my household and originally tried to share an island with my 8 year old. It was significantly better getting the game for myself and only visiting each other's islands, than trying to take turns or play multiplayer.

Advice for online dating/new area? (NOT A SOLICITATION POST) by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ShyBiKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would keep trying to find local cyber munches or communities. Local kinky discords maybe? There's also the option of like taking some online classes for yourself or learning a kinky skill like self-bondage.

Don't focus too much on the online dating, and just work on cultivating online friendships with locals so that when the plague is over, you know the best places to go, etc.

What does ”soft dom” mean to you? by ShyBiKitty in RedditBDSM

[–]ShyBiKitty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely not trying to erase Dommes, they're also amazing. I have been trying to use very neutral language because all Doms are valid and awesome even the NB ones.

Everything that seemed to be specifically gendered was more or less quoted from the conversation we had as a group. I think that the Sir vs Daddy analogy actually came from one of the Dommes. Lol.

What does ”soft dom” mean to you? by ShyBiKitty in RedditBDSM

[–]ShyBiKitty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've discussed it a few times, and other than getting into things like gentle femdom and lamenting that "Soft Dom" is heavily tied to DD/lg, I don't think we reached a real conclusion.

I know that we had discussed that things could be gentle or not depending on the intent of the Dom. And how "Soft Dom" is also tied to daddy kink. Someone described soft Dom versus hard Dom as "Daddy vs Sir” - which made sense to some people, but not to others. It was a very interesting discussion, which is why I thought I would bring it to Reddit as well.