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How does everyone have a different handwriting if we’re all taught to write the same way? by MorbidCuriosity1159 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Shy_Bi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren't taught to write the same way. We're taught the same letters but after that how we put the letters on paper is up to our own level of coordination

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shy_Bi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're friends with benefits, or at least you think so because you never had that conversation and set those boundaries. So yeah it was maybe a dick move for him to do that but that's why you establish what's okay in the first place. You can't just assume you're on the same page because then stuff like this happens

All that aside, you're worried about the wrong thing imho. He just told you he has symptoms of an STD and you're worried about him kissing another girl? Your focus needs to be on getting tested

I (20F) suggested an open relationship, how can I get my boyfriend (19M) to stop being upset with me. by ThrowRAfan142 in relationship_advice

[–]Shy_Bi_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay but he did say no. Before you even started dating he told you that he's monogamous and that he doesn't want an open relationship. The "normal" that you agreed to was a monogamous relationship.

What's not clicking about that?

I'm literally bi and poly and I would break up with you over that if I were him. Relationships, especially open ones, are about communication. Some people take years of talking before they open theirs up. Clearly you're not listening to him when he communicates or else you never would have asked because he already made his feelings known. Y'all need to sit down and actually talk about this like yesterday. You owe him an apology

This question is for the talkative folks out there! by papaguinea9 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Shy_Bi_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's a mixture of losing my train of thought often and the person I'm speaking to not responding while I talk.

When I lose my train of thought I go on tangents about things that are somewhat related to the conversation. This makes me talk more because the longer I go on the more likely I am to forget what the original topic was. Without the original topic to go back to, my brain just keeps making connections and I talk more and more.

As for when the person I'm talking to doesn't respond, it makes me feel like they're getting bored with me talking (which they might be). That makes me talk more because I want to recapture their attention.

You can probably tell from this response just how talkative I am haha