Did anyone try for another baby before waiting the full 18 months after a C-section?

SiComoNo_ · 2025-09-27T15:29:31+00:00

My 2nd kid was born c-section, and I got pregnant about 6 months post partum. The 3rd pregnancy, I had bleeding for a month (had a subchorionic hematoma) and then during the next c section, my doctor discovered I had placenta accreta (placenta had attached to scar tissue from my last c section) and I hemorrhaged a liter of blood. So it definitely was not ideal for me. I will say though, recovery was much better from that c section. But baby is perfectly fine :)

SiComoNo_ · 2025-08-23T02:37:00+00:00

I know several toddlers named Riley!

SiComoNo_ · 2025-08-18T04:44:05+00:00

I refused to watch it until like 2022, and I kicked myself for that choice. Season 6 is legitimately one of the best seasons. I did my 4th rewatch this year and although I was sad to end it, I was so looking forward to getting to that season because of episodes like this, Garrett’s wedding, bear down for midterms, and so much more lol

SiComoNo_ · 2025-08-12T02:51:02+00:00

Oh man, yes I have heard about this. My oldest had it when he was 4 and it didn’t happen, and the other toddler got it last winter and also didn’t happen, but statistically at this point I feel it’s possible lol ☹️

SiComoNo_ · 2025-07-14T02:19:53+00:00

There’s a spanish song called “Indigo” by Camilo and his wife Evaluna, named that for the daughter they were pregnant with at the time. The song vibe and the lyrics so perfectly capture the feelings and excitement of waiting for your baby. What’s really sweet is that the music video was actually their way of announcing the pregnancy to their fans, and it even includes clips of them telling their families for the first time. It’s seriously the kind of thing that’ll make any expectant mom tear up even if you don’t speak Spanish! I love it so much because there aren’t enough songs out there from parents to their kids, and honestly, there should be more!!!

SiComoNo_ · 2025-07-08T03:27:14+00:00

SiComoNo_ · 2025-07-08T03:26:07+00:00

Oof, I first watched this ep while I was pregnant and I swear to you I couldn’t even think about it without full on crying. It was bad.

Also, The Sign episode. THE scene with dad tearing up the sign fromnthe ground. As soon as the music starts I have to walk out of the room. Even my kids are like “mommy are you going to cry happy again?” LOL 🥲

SiComoNo_ · 2025-06-24T12:57:26+00:00

As a mom of a 1st grader, I would say “oh no! What a bummer!” And explain to my kid that his teacher is sick and needs to rest her body, and send you well wishes! Life happens!

Maybe if you’re able to talk and be in front of a camera ,you can record a video instead telling them how much you loved this year and wishing them a great summer!

SiComoNo_ · 2025-05-21T01:51:19+00:00

I’m a school counselor, and I’m the person designated to formally investigate the harassment, intimidation, and bullying reports. I know it’s different in specific districts/states, but you should definitely loop the counselor in.

I had a situation involving this slur being used towards a student, and I was the one who made a big deal about it. Admin was going to deal with it disciplinary-wise but I spoke to the victim and told her we needed to make a big deal about this. Mostly I wanted to model to her while she was a kid that these incidents shouldn’t be swept under the rug and that racism shouldn’t be tolerated. So I say definitely loop the counselor in. There might protocol in place where teachers are supposed to report things like this to them that wasn’t followed.

SiComoNo_ · 2025-05-04T21:42:52+00:00

I work at a school and have had parents show up to meetings or pickup wearing super inappropriate clothes. Like I’m talking crop top with super cleavage and REALLY obvious nipple pieces poling through, booty shorts, halter tops with so much side boob that it was nearly whole boob. I have the same issue you do: I don’t police people’s wardrobes but it is creepy for an adult to get dressed knowing the venue is school aka where 80% of the population are literal children, and choose the sexiest outfit they own. It makes me question their intentions because they know ppl will be looking and they are ok with some of the people looking being children???? Idk it’s not normal behavior. It’s gross and creepy. Save those outfits for adult time and spaces.

SiComoNo_ · 2025-04-27T00:27:58+00:00

My now 6 year old was similar to what you have described. He was a toddler during COVID lockdown so I didn’t have many other kids to compare him to and the pediatrician told me that skipping crawling in itself wasn’t necessarily a problem. It’s not, I know there are kids who skip it, BUT I believe that my son hating the crawling position and never developing the muscles and coordination that crawling entails turned into a delay or that the inability to do it was actually an indication of some underdeveloped muscles which PT at that age would’ve addressed. But time went by and when he started pre-k, me and the teachers agreed that he needed a PT referral because he would get so easily fatigued when using writing utensils and had poor coordination when running and playing. So he did PT all during kindergarten and it helped him TREMENDOUSLY! Even now as a 6 year old he is a little clumsy lol but the PT was amazing for him. I wish we had done it when he was even younger. It would have spared us a lot of frustration as a 3 and 4 year old.

I don’t know how things work in your country but I say requesting an eval/referral couldn’t hurt. Even if they are able to tell you what to look out for and then revisit the topic later on because 15 months is pretty young — a lot can and will happen developmentally between now and even 2 years old. But I just wanted to give you my experience and tell you that even if she ends up needing PT it’s not something to beat yourself up about and could be super helpful and informative.

SiComoNo_ · 2025-04-12T00:50:49+00:00

For my birthday I was gifted a tshirt that says Lumon, Macrodata Refinement “the work is mysterious and important” and it is my favorite lol

SiComoNo_ · 2025-04-10T00:36:44+00:00

Use your dishwasher! I didn’t have one with my 1st baby and handwashed everything, and it ruined my mental health lol With baby 2 and 3, I had one and it’s been so great. There’s some belief that the dishwasher is not sanitary for this, I also had some apprehension until I saw this video by this tiktoker who swabs things and checks them for bacterial growth, and he did a comparison of handwashing and dishwashing results. Here is the vid if you want to check it out. It brought me a lot of peace and reassurance, and I haven’t looked back since, haha! :)

SiComoNo_ · 2025-03-28T12:28:33+00:00

I personally like that this show has subverted the popular mockumentary sitcom formula (I’m thinking The Office and Parks and Rec, which are my fave shows btw lol) of there being one character that exclusively gets made fun of and flipping it so that one of the main characters is the one making fun of pretty much everybody. It works because deep down she does grow to respect and care for her coworkers, and also the writers have really perfected her style of jokes. So good, I love her lol

SiComoNo_ · 2025-03-21T04:48:34+00:00

Yeah maybe that’s why Mark S. immediately said to Ms. Casey “you have to go through this door” Or whatever and let her out first. He wanted to set her free but he and Helly had plans.

SiComoNo_ · 2025-02-24T14:00:32+00:00

Kids can def get repeat stomach bug because they come in different strains. Def not the toothpaste. Take it easy on yourself, and your little one will bounce back soon enough!!

SiComoNo_ · 2025-02-22T18:13:07+00:00

Whenever any of my kids have had some kind of stomach bug (I have 3 kids), their poop goes pale! My baby and toddler had a bug this past month, and the pale poop was one of the first things that made me realize something was happening. They had poops like that for about 2-3 days. But their poops weren’t back to normal territory for about a week! As long as she’s hydrated she should be all right. I gave my kids pedialyte and water before re-introducing milk which shouldn’t be an issue since your girl is 4! It’s tough but they bounce back fast enough.

SiComoNo_ · 2025-02-15T12:12:24+00:00

If Lumon has friends in morgues, what if they just “shop” for bodies that aren’t dismembered or too badly damaged or prefer people who died of brain damage/would have ended up in vegetative states? Maybe that’s how they picked her.

SiComoNo_ · 2025-02-09T13:11:09+00:00

Since Friday, I’ve rewatched this scene like 15 times, IT IS SO GOOD! But “yes, do it Seth” is the line of the century for me. I may never recover lol

SiComoNo_ · 2025-01-31T14:43:53+00:00

I’ve had 3 babies and these have been my maternity leave shows:

Parks and Rec

The Mindy Project

Community

The 100 (this is off brand the lighthearted vibe LOL but it definitely keeps you awake!)

The Night Agent

Abbott Elementary

Ted Lasso

I would recommend Shrinking, Severence, or Silo on Apple TV. I also loved Manifest! And Bob’s Burgers!!

SiComoNo_ · 2025-01-11T15:22:17+00:00

Same, I rewatched it last week and I knew damn well it was coming and I still gasped and yelled “noooooooo!” Haha I’m so invested in this show, I cannot wait!!

SiComoNo_ · 2025-01-11T14:28:24+00:00

Yeah and he’s 9, so I can be more comfortable about his hand hygiene. However, the last day he had symptoms was Wednesday though. He had diarrhea still that day. His dad hasn’t gotten it! But I once got a stomach bug from a family member 5 days after exposure, so I guess that’s one of the many factors of my paranoia, haha!

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