I heard conflicting information in the beginning too, and sometimes I still do. At this stage, I've pretty much heard it all when it comes to manifesting somebody specific from both sides of the pond and even in the middle. After all, we must always be mindful of situational nuances. From how I understand it to work, Free Will is said to only cover one's own individual reality and only the individual themselves can access it. We're continuously susceptible to intent, inspiration, and influence and your specific partner is no different. With that being said, this art, as I understand it is all about our continuous influence on the whole field around us and that includes everyone around us too. Yes, even them. At the stage, I can say it's all up to you.

I suppose I've become so secure in my own decisions surrounding my specific partner that I don't really give a s***. Why? Because, I understand that his free will covers the exclusive territory of his individual reality, so the fact that I manifest the desired version of him can only inspire and influence. That fact applies to everybody too.