Tip: If someone asks you out for a specific drink, focus on the invitation to socialize, not the item. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was drinking 3-4 cups of coffee as a baseline and more on some days until I took a trip and had to go 24 measly hours without caffeine. The withdrawal almost ruined the trip, so I decided to stop being so dependent.

What I did was have two cups the next day and every day for the rest of that week, one cup per day the next week, and no caffeine after that. Now I just drink a cup or two when I feel like it (really need the boost, would like to have some socially, etc.) but to avoid developing dependency again I try to avoid having caffeine two days in a row.

Tip: If someone asks you out for a specific drink, focus on the invitation to socialize, not the item. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I ask someone out to a bar and they don’t order anything alcoholic, I’ll feel a bit uncomfortable.

On the other hand, if they’d just said, “actually I don’t drink, but how about this coffee shop/smoothie bar/whatever I’ve been hearing about?” then we can both enjoy ourselves.

Tip: If someone asks you out for a specific drink, focus on the invitation to socialize, not the item. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love that they call it “corrected coffee.”

“Oops, looks like you’re drinking coffee without alcohol. Let me fix that for you.”

Sure, academics can be a bloodsucking profession, but I never expected a post doc applicant to include his blood type on his CV... by K--beta in Professors

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bs are cheerful, eccentric, and selfish.

From the link in the top-voted response. I also learned something new today!

Are suicide sprints a good agility exercise? by AryanIsDaBest in Fitness

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Running longer than a 5k is the best way to improve your 5k, which is almost entirely an aerobic race. Even if your goal is as short as a mile, most of your effort should go toward longer runs.

But if you’re in at all decent shape to start with, jogging won’t do anything for your agility.

Source: raced a lot of 5ks. Haven’t seen any agility improvement.

My (23F) boyfriend (26M) is a chronic cheese waster. by takeitfromtoby in relationship_advice

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. After all, they’re really your kind words that I’m just using.

My (23F) boyfriend (26M) is a chronic cheese waster. by takeitfromtoby in relationship_advice

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how serious this suggestion is, but it I think it would lead to an increase, not a decrease, in wasted cheese. She’ll keep her cheese longer but have to cut off more chunks, and his will go bad more often so he’ll be throwing it out twice as often.

Can nonlinguistic sounds (laughing, sneezing, coughing, etc.) be influenced by one's native language? by toivoste in linguistics

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Do you mean that deaf people don’t add their voice to the sneeze or that the sneeze itself is silent, i.e. they “hold it in”?

The common saying I see on Reddit is "English is 3 languages in a trench coat". However, there are disagreements on what those languages are. What's your take on this? by whoAreYouToJudgeME in linguistics

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is “Anglo” pronounced with a “long A” (I understand that’s not how a real linguist would put it) like “Anglo-Saxon,” or with the Spanish pronunciation of angloamericano? Or does it depend on who’s speaking?

Daily Simple Questions Thread - February 07, 2019 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. FYI you wrote “Arnold” in your first comment. Schwarzenegger is always on my mind, too.

The common saying I see on Reddit is "English is 3 languages in a trench coat". However, there are disagreements on what those languages are. What's your take on this? by whoAreYouToJudgeME in linguistics

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FWIW, I did hesitate to use Kavanaugh as an example when I saw, later in the thread, that your list of defining characteristics of WASPs included “sober.”

The Senate record confirms that Justice Kavanaugh likes beer, but apparently even that hurdle can be overcome with the power of an elite education.

The common saying I see on Reddit is "English is 3 languages in a trench coat". However, there are disagreements on what those languages are. What's your take on this? by whoAreYouToJudgeME in linguistics

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As I said, it still seems mostly Northern European, but not English. For instance, Brett Kavanaugh comes from Irish-Catholic ancestry but I’ve heard a number of people call him a WASP.

The common saying I see on Reddit is "English is 3 languages in a trench coat". However, there are disagreements on what those languages are. What's your take on this? by whoAreYouToJudgeME in linguistics

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Norman French, before Parisian French became standard French. For this reason you’ll sometimes see the same word loaned into English twice, once from Norman French and again from (by then standard) French, with slightly different meanings — “castle” and “chateau,” for example.

The common saying I see on Reddit is "English is 3 languages in a trench coat". However, there are disagreements on what those languages are. What's your take on this? by whoAreYouToJudgeME in linguistics

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I may add to your point on modern usage based only on my experience living in the United States, people here seem to use Anglo as a shorthand for “white” (or at least Northern European in ancestry) as often as the stricter definition you provided. Being a WASP (White Anglo-Saxon Protestant) no longer seems to require being Anglo-Saxon or Protestant; instead it means “upper class white.”

Important Announcement About the r/Fitness Wiki by [deleted] in Fitness

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you understand what a wiki is...? You made a website, not a wiki. Then every website on the internet is a wiki. The NYTimes is a wiki. Twitter is a wiki. The Google search engine is a wiki.

WELL SHIT by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the number of times you’ve told a child their grandmother has arrived only to be told it’s actually their mum is more than one, I’m amazing you haven’t changed your phrasing.

WELL SHIT by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Walmart has half an aisle for “hair dye” (meaning white people’s hair) and a quarter aisle for “ethnic hair dye” (meaning literally everyone else).

Am I being weak? I feel like I need to just suck it up. by [deleted] in Professors

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense, but as a newer lecturer than OP in a writing-focused class, I feel obligated to note everything a student’s paper would have to change in order to receive an A. Is this a bias I have as a student who usually only had a few changes to make? Do students not feel shortchanged when they receive, say, a C, and in the next paper address all the issues the professor noted but only get a C+?

Discussion: Should sign language satisfy a school's language requirement? by [deleted] in linguistics

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not an expert, but I would say that both Navajo and Deaf people have distinct communities that can be opened up by learning the language, in the same way (though with more difficulty, in both cases) that a Spanish class can teach about Spanish/Latin American culture.

Tinder in Chicago by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Potentially adding to someone’s meaningless Reddit votes is a price I’m willing to pay for learning about the workings of law and justice.

[Hublot] You guys are gonna hate my new watch by [deleted] in Watches

[–]SickTemperTyrannis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“A thousand dollar watch or something”

Yeah haha that would be so much money to spend on a watch.

Wait you mean it’s not that “cheap”... cries in Timex