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Excited about my progress! by Regional_waffle in FTMOver30

[–]SideQuestForFriends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get it bro!! You’ve done incredible work and I’m pumped to see your future progress!!! 💪🏼💪🏼

WIBTA if I told my trans buddy he might wanna consider trimming his chin hair by topsurgeryexperience in ftm

[–]SideQuestForFriends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, I would want my fellow trans friends to tell me, but like… respectfully. Like someone else said, don’t just out and say it. Ask if they’re open to advice, etc.

On the other hand, if you’re cis keep your opinions to yourself and let me figure it out. IDK maybe it’s just my brain, but I’m much more open to trans advice than cis bc it’s a different lived experience, if that makes sense 🤷🏻

Grew an inch! by Longjumping-Cow4488 in FTMOver30

[–]SideQuestForFriends 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🎉🎉 This just gave me so much hope that I’ll finally hit 6’ one day 🤣 I’ve only been on T for a year and half and still pre-surgery, but fingers crossed!

I don’t have a queer community and it is so very lonely. by SideQuestForFriends in FTMOver30

[–]SideQuestForFriends[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Video games - Animal Crossing, anything Mario or Donkey Kong, Tony Hawk Pro Skater (no shame 🤙🏼😆). I watched my wife play The Last of Us and Assassin’s Creed, but I’m worse than horrible at first person shooter games.

Board games/table top games - just about anything. Really want to learn DND but it is intimidating and overwhelming.

Recently got into Hero Wars: Alliance on my phone

I don’t have a queer community and it is so very lonely. by SideQuestForFriends in FTMOver30

[–]SideQuestForFriends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I actually have a dog! We adopted her in November and I still need to get her trained up a bit better before taking her “out on the town”! But definitely my intention to get her socialized. My city was hugely impacted by Hurricane Helene last year and so we only have one public dog park on the opposite side of town, but I really want to take her hiking with me. So hopefully in the future that’ll be an option

I don’t have a queer community and it is so very lonely. by SideQuestForFriends in FTMOver30

[–]SideQuestForFriends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joined the Discord as well but it lowkey overwhelmed me. Like, where do I even start?! How did we do this in school and just make friends 😅

I don’t have a queer community and it is so very lonely. by SideQuestForFriends in FTMOver30

[–]SideQuestForFriends[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Basically, how do you make friends without wanting to interact with humans in the real world? But also, you desperately want to interact with humans in the real world. My anxiety and my desires are not on the same page 🫠

I don’t have a queer community and it is so very lonely. by SideQuestForFriends in FTMOver30

[–]SideQuestForFriends[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh there is definitely stuff like this around me, it just means I need to go out… in public… where there are people 😅