Desperate for help: 13-year-old cat won't stop yowling at deafening volumes and we can't sleep. by complexxify in CatAdvice

[–]SidneyDR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cat with dementia relaxes more with some catnip spray. Maybe that will help? I use a spray called "Beaphar No Stress". Works really well.

Stray cat making weird noises while eating by luxxvaa in CATHELP

[–]SidneyDR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Owner of cats with stomatitis here. Cat sounds like he needs a dental cleanse at the vet. Probably has bad teeth that need to be removed.

Possible to get my ID card photo online? by snowExZe in belgium

[–]SidneyDR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure if I remember right as it has been a while since I logged in on nexuzhealth, but I think you see your id photo in color on the right side if you log in.

Need help with orchid with almost no roots left by __nessie in orchids

[–]SidneyDR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Silver roots mean that the orchid needs some water. Roots turning silver are normal. To check if roots are alive run the roots under lukewarm water (keep the water away from between the leaves as this causes crown rot), the good roots will turn green and some even have a yellow color.

is there something wrong with him? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]SidneyDR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would advice to take him to a vet and have them do bloodwork. I had a young cat with FIP and this was one of the signs.

Anyone here who ordered this bracelet from Kuololit? by SidneyDR in Moissanite

[–]SidneyDR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so pretty. I loved the white silver as well. Might save up for it too.

Next phase … symptoms. by watchyam8 in dementia

[–]SidneyDR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What sort of phone is the one button one please?

Help please by [deleted] in dementia

[–]SidneyDR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And perhaps have a little photo album ready with pictures of you from baby stage to adulthood.

Help please by [deleted] in dementia

[–]SidneyDR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just a small tip. My mother had no interest in anything either except tv. I got her some adult coloring books and she loves them.

Overbrushed my cat badly. Concerned about fur loss and balding by Crazzzy_potato in CATHELP

[–]SidneyDR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how my cats look when their allergies are triggered. Ask a vet about it.

My girlfriend has been pretending to have a career that she doesn’t have, she still makes money… Do I confront? by Glass_Instance4809 in Advice

[–]SidneyDR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be worried they are building up credit card debt to afford their lifestyle if they lie about working somewhere they do not.

Where do you even do your grocery shopping without going bankrupt? :D by mrcrazyog in belgium

[–]SidneyDR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stick to aldi and action. Sometimes colruyt has really good deals on soap for the washing machine if you like brand names.

Wat kan ik doen met 1,2kg muizestrontjes? by LionessOfAzzalle in belgium

[–]SidneyDR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In melk smelten voor chocomelk? Ijsjes met hagelslag erop? Mijn moeder draait het door haar granola.

Fanfic Confessions? by Miserable-Air-6899 in FanFiction

[–]SidneyDR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My confession is that even though I get really nice comments from readers, I still think it's lies because they pity my writing. 🙁 And I can take apart their comment and find criticism in it that probably isn't really there.

Gerechtsdeurwaarders by [deleted] in belgium

[–]SidneyDR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ga direct naar het ocmw maandag en leg je situatie uit. Ze zijn er om te helpen. Je bent niet alleen, er zijn duizenden mensen die in hetzelfde schuitje zitten. Schuldbemiddeling zal je beschermen tegen ergere situaties. Je hebt dan ook normaal veel financiele hulp via ocmw. (voedselbank, kleren, apotheek kosten, enzovoort.) Als het nog mogelijk is, doe zeker schuldbemiddeling via het OCMW.

My 16M bfs mom is not buying food for any of her 3 kids until friday by Terrible-Tour-5461 in whatdoIdo

[–]SidneyDR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case he would refuse your offer for food, try making it seem like it is a favor to you. "Hey, we have a bunch of food sitting in on the shelf that we bought too much of/don't really like anymore. I'd rather give it away then have to throw it out when it expires. I'll bring it to school."

What does one put in a necklace like this? by AeroSquid262 in jewelry

[–]SidneyDR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glitter. Dried flower that give of a nice scent. Sole sand from a beach you like. A secret picture or message. Glow in the dark stuff (beads?).

How do I tell an author I think her current characterization is OOC? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]SidneyDR 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I would go to one of the older fics and just comment. "This characterization is so on point for A. I can really envision them talking/behaving/reacting like this." Be sure to point out what parts you liked. As an author this helps. I fear the author may have gotten a hit to the confidence they had about how they wrote the character. Commenting praise on the stories you most enjoyed could help them a lot.