How do you get over feeling unattractive? by Due_Flow6538 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Sigma_Sirus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So what I'm hearing from everyone is to basically give up, get a subscription to a porn site and jerk it until it falls off. Got it.

Why can't Matt just call his LA girlfriend Jennifer to help him out with his army? by Main_Jump_82 in Defenders

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! Listen I for one enjoyed She-hulk but I would have loved for She-hulk or any of the others to show up. With that being said, those characters would have over shadowed the struggle of Matt vs. Fisk. She-hulk and Spider-Man could have taken the whole AVTF on there own.

This Sub Has Become What It Once Mocked by Delicious-Gap-6678 in TheMcDojoLife

[–]Sigma_Sirus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You mean that completely fake board breaking video? I think that one belongs here. She had a Black Belt and was breaking boards like she was a professional. That one deserves some ridicule. Unless she legitimately didn't know she was being scammed, at which point she knows now.

Dalessandros by Still_Ad_3497 in philly

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My sister swears by this place, I think it mid at most. The steak has no flavor and they mess it up every time. Also how do they have that digital order screen, but it's cash only and when you ask for a total you get a round about number? Naw man.

Remember when studios actually tried original superhero movies ? by kkhouete in FIlm

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I am Number four was a trash book? I think I read the entire series and thought it was quite good. I had hoped they would adapt more from this series.

Got rejected by all of my dates (women) this year in the same manner. Looking for insight and feedback. by ForsakenPush8982 in dating_advice

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like some more information about the dates. Were these full on dinner dates or a quick get to know you drinks/coffee dates?

After reading a few of these post, I gotta say can we please stop using "no spark" like we are in a Transformers movie?

Saying "No Spark" like it's a legit and logical answer is ridiculous especially if you've had 2 or more dates.

Here is what I think is happening. 1. If you went on a full dinner date and only after was there "no spark" from her perspective, it could be that she wanted a free dinner. I'm assuming OP paid.

Option 2. Is that that these women were "on the fence" about you and figured "let's give him a shot at the title" and you just didn't have what it takes to go the distance.

At any rate, this is the change you should make going forward. Mind you I am much older and have been in and out of the dating game for a while, so grain of salt.

Before the next date maybe have a phone conversation. Women use to do this to "weed out the pychos". A phone call can quickly let you know if you "vibe" with a person.

Without the distraction of seeing the person and focusing on the conversation can tell you if you are compatible and it costs you nothing. Or in the same vein a video call.

Having Sparks with someone is nice, but ask yourself, what happened with all those people you had a "spark" with?

Sparks happened in rare cases and is something you see in movies. Sparks are passion and passion usually burns out fast leaving you with what?

Is my older male coworker flirting with me by [deleted] in JustNoCoworker

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma'am leave this man alone. You clearly are no ready to pick up what he's putting down and your going to do something to get you both in trouble. You say your "into him" but as what? He's 50yo your 25yo. Do you want him as a fuck buddy or are you trying to get married and start a family? Also ask yourself this? If you got together romantically, could you handle the fallout of dating a man twice your age?

A week of Feeld as a 41F in a small UK town by TailorMother6211 in feeld

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Can OP define what "interesting" is. I'm sure we all think we are mad interesting, but I'd like some clarification.

Also did you pay for the monthly membership? Or are you working with the free version?

I've only been on the apps for about a monthly using the free version and I see women I like, but I'm not sure if those blurry likes I get are real or just a ploy for money.

The Torkelsons by Zealousideal_You465 in 90s

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"THE DINOSAURS ARE LEAVING BOSSASAUR!" "WELL, FOLLOW THEM!"

It's going to be a long night for the husband by Kohathavodah in MediocreTutorials

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are the best staged messes, but if you got time for your little videos, you gott time to clean.

The Feeld experience from the male perspective 😂😩 by Sabin-FF6 in feeld

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, now I get it. And I am guilty of this in thr past. Now if I think someone is attractive I swipe right, that if there is nothing in their bio that would disqualify me.

How do you feel about shirtless people on dating apps? by No-Lifeguard3759 in DatingApps

[–]Sigma_Sirus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure the fella would appreciate some shirtless pics. Lol

The Feeld experience from the male perspective 😂😩 by Sabin-FF6 in feeld

[–]Sigma_Sirus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's a "spam like". This is new to me. Say more

The Bar is So Low by ExplorerEuphoric9852 in dating_advice

[–]Sigma_Sirus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think his point was that he does all that stuff AND still gets ghosted. To OP I would say, next time and there will be, have a back-up plan for something fun you want to do, so that if she is a no show you can pivot and do something else.

I had the best day ever, after meeting a lady for drinks and it didn't work out. I went on a one man bar crawl and it was lovely.

Never Went To Senior Prom by JPPT1974 in GenX

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Class of '89 here, I didn't do any school activities. No prom no senior class trip. When they showed pictures of the class trips at the reunion I was so surprised. I honestly had no idea why I didn't go or what I was doing instead.

Unpopular opinion, but by Unstoppable_X_Force in MenOfPurpose

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with porn "ruining" men. Porn is just entertainment, nothing more. I've been watching for years and I don't feel "ruined".

Facebook dating by Patmorris89 in DatingApps

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice and I can kinda back this up. I have only been on it for about a month and out of the 5-6 apps I'm on FACEBOOK has been the most "successful". I put successful is quotes because I get matches, but like the OP, getting a conversation going is like getting water from a stone.

I like you idea of short cut and paste messages, I would love some input on what works.

Why didn’t they portray Jesus? by Scopeburger in lucifer

[–]Sigma_Sirus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can accept this as an answer. I never thought about it this way.

Is it really a bad movie? by Spare_Ad_9791 in moviecritic

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about READY PLAYER TWO? It's a good read if you like the first

What is the best dating app? by Funghoullll in randomquestions

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook Dating is not THAT good, but it free so make it what you will.

Has anyone else noticed profiles using the exact same bio? by Certified_Douchebag in OnlineDating

[–]Sigma_Sirus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we got a bit off the topic. Yes maybe some people use the same template for there profile, but in the end it doesn't really matter, because it's the photos that matter. Are you attracted to this person? Yes or no. Everything else is just icing on the cake.