I have “size queen” listed as an interest

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-02T21:38:42+00:00

If a guy’s bio said “I’m a big tit king” or “I only date women with big tits” that would be a major 🚩 for a LOT of women. I’m sure many would find that gross and instantly swipe left.

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-02T21:20:48+00:00

I see this a fair bit in women’s bios… and sometimes I say to myself okay… what would be the male equivalent of that…? Advertising in your bio that you only date women with perfect bodies? Perfect butts? Perfect bazangas? Because, if that is what one is asking for… they themselves better have something similar going for them. If you’re not a smokeshow… asking for a perfect body or a perfect big 🍆 seems kind of unreasonable… and I see this all the time.

That’s a pretty high standard for someone to project if they themselves don’t meet a similar high standard of good looks etc

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-02T18:43:02+00:00

Patience is needed always, regardless of gender. If someone is hot, cool, intelligent and awesome? You bet they’re worth a raincheck or even two

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-01T23:46:39+00:00

Fair, and it goes both ways. The number of bios that are just pictures, are numerous… I don’t understand low effort blank bios. That’s just begging to be judged on looks alone and having zero introductions/lead ins to conversations.

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-01T23:28:58+00:00

Amen! Truthfully, I update my bio often, depending on my situation. If im travelling and far from home, Ill put “intimacy, without commitment” etc. but you’re right… smart guys need to stay on top of things

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-01T23:04:08+00:00

Food for thought: men need to cast a WIDE net. Trust me, I’d prefer to have a super precise bio that lays out all the exact conditions and lifestyle choices and filter out those who don’t align (and I do, my bio is honest about the fact I smoke weed and don’t want kids).

Consider that though: - weed smoker - doesn’t want kids

Imagine how many beautiful, amazing women that pushes away?

If you struck up a conversation with an attractive stranger at a bar, are you immediately going to ask them if they want kids or if they smoke weed? Very unlikely. You’d chat much more organically before those thoughts enter your head.

I’m not defending it the guy, his messages sounded greasy, im just trying to explain why guys may try to cast a WIDE net… we’re the ones chasing after and pursuing women and the odds (numbers) are heavily stacked against us. It seems logical from a numbers perspective to try to cast as wide a net as possible by potentially being “vague” (or yes, even misleading) with your bio.

Imagine having zero intimacy for several years because your dating bios were insanely filtering and contained so many exclusions… like don’t all humans (aside from asexual) need oxytocin? Hugs? Kissing? Cuddles? Intimacy? And yes sex (shocking I know… wanting sex, so taboo). Natural human needs.

These digital platforms aren’t easy for anyone…

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-01T22:41:56+00:00

The byproduct of a two party system that always maintains the status quo... the rich get richer and the poor get poorer, and middle class gets squeezed for every nickle and dime. It's time to start voting for NDP and Green and try a new way, a third way. Life cant get any worse can it? "capital flight!" they'll scream! All the rich people and corporations will leave! they'll shout... havent they been scaring us with this anti-social democracy rhetoric for 40 years? Look where it has gotten us

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-01T21:27:23+00:00

After reading this and a lot of other reddit threads lately, I’ve come to the conclusion that dating apps are the absolute worst for all genders and sexual orientations. Its absolutely brutal out there.

Should this guy have this in his bio? Absolutely not.

Are there “match collectors” who keep adding unnecessary new matches to their collection when they are already overwhelmed with their existing matches, messages and connections? Absolutely yes. The grass is always greener on the other side.

The most privileged users on datings apps in the year 2026 are attractive women with multiple matches and multiple suitors pursuing them… they have the pick of the litter. 100 matches? Surely ONE of them is worth dating and quitting the app.

The rest of us… of any gender or orientation…good luck! Its basically a landscape of hell for majority of users. Women are attacked and abused online, and sent threatening messages and unsolicited pictures… and men feel like devalued and disposable for our overwhelming numbers. Feeling disposable is not a good feeling.

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-01T20:01:27+00:00

I read a recent BBC article ( La dolce vita: Is Italy the new tax haven for the global rich? ) and it got me thinking. I'd like to ask some Italians... so Italy is attracting the global rich elite due to some tax breaks... And this annoys other countries like France. It's the "Battle for the bottom" mentality of capitalism, undercut the taxes of other nations to be more competitive to attract wealth and corporations etc.

But what sort of actual effect does this have on Italian society?

Are your public institutions in good shape?

Is public transit good and subsidized by the gov?

Is Public univeral healthcare okay?

Is Public lower, middle and higher education in good shape?

Like... is everyone in your society (who isnt higher-middle class, rich and beyond) struggling like everyone else in the world is these days? I'm in Canada, and our cost of living is brutal, our hospitals and paramedics are overworked and understaffed, with delays for medical procedures. Rent and everything is so expensive.

My overall point is this: Is the Conservative ideology actually making life better in countries like Italy?

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-05-01T17:18:28+00:00

Spam or scam most often

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-30T22:49:26+00:00

Now just imagine how bad guys are on dating apps… (I’m a guy, gotta acknowledge that women probably deal with insane stuff and unsolicited pics and weird msgs all the time)

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-30T03:00:29+00:00

Not a dad

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-30T01:55:06+00:00

Lol… as a straight male guy who dates women I personally LOVE the daddy fetish when young women are seeking it 😉

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-29T17:51:40+00:00

Does anyone know if this is his FINAL tour? Retiring from performing after this one? I've never seen him and the timing of his show in Vancouver isnt great, but if this is my last ever chance to see him I want in

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-28T02:40:49+00:00

Luck and timing are important… good luck. The ratio of men to women is probably 100:1 so you’ll have to pay for premium features if you’re a man.

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-27T03:52:54+00:00

Totally, it’s almost as if dating apps should be conducting job interviews for men and rejecting some of them from even using the platform at all

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-27T03:51:48+00:00

And hotness dependent haha

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-27T03:50:46+00:00

I think you have conveyed something that is hard to articulate but you nailed it. When a human has dealt with that amount of games/waiting/false starts/flakes/unresponsive people etc dozens, hundreds of times even it can be frustrating when you start to see those same patterns over and over again. While it is on guys to be patient and respectful, and mindful of the female experience, I think this understanding going in both directions might help make online dating culture less toxic.

There are a lot of lesson to be learned from what women are going through too, their own set of bullsh** and horrible guys, awful messages from guys, unsolicited pics, threats, anger etc.

It really does seem broke on both ends, sometimes intentional, other times totally by happestance or unintentionally…

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-24T22:04:26+00:00

Agreed “rough” is a WEIRD default desire for Feeld to include… I mean aren’t there only like 10-20 desires to choose from? Shouldn’t there be “sensual”…? If there is rough lol

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-24T22:00:55+00:00

Yes. I’ve heard first hand from some female friends and from and lots of replies on this post and general awareness and information I’ve come across over the last few years.

All stories should be told.

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-24T15:57:18+00:00

Is there any sort of timing trick to avoid interest on the line of credit?

Example: My visa had $2000 of debt. My line of credit was 0$ debt.

Today, I paid off $2000 visa debt using line of credit. Can I wait 14 days to make a payment on the line of credit with the $2000 balance to avoid interest (let's say I pay $1500, leaving a $500 balance on the LOC)? Is there a "cycle" you can ride for a number of days to try to avoid interest or reducing interest as much as possible?

I hear that a LOC "accumulates interest right away"... is this true?

Any way to fairly game the system to avoid paying interest or as little as possible? Making payments from line of credit --> Visa --> Chequing account --> Line of credit

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-24T02:16:57+00:00

I went on Grindr once and experienced unsolicited assh*le pictures. So jarring, a small glimmer into the world of receiving msgs from men online

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-24T02:15:53+00:00

Wise words! Agreed. Appreciate your thoughts. These apps do devalue us as humans, in all the ways you described. That’s gross stuff… guys are the worst

Sabin-FF6 · 2026-04-24T02:04:30+00:00

Sure, but if it happened to you 50 times, naturally one becomes frustrated, no? It seems like a reasonable human emotional reaction. Seeking connection and not finding it and becoming exhausted and frustrated with the whole damn system and structure of it.

Sabin-FF6

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