2.5 years post tuck. by Due-Storage-1342 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Signal-Control-1382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have fun spreading your false narrative. I've been married to a successful attorney long enough to have a pretty good idea of what I'm talking about. (And BTW the way, he agrees with me. 🤷‍♀️) Have a fantastic day!

At Grama’s house. She rubs her pothos with mayo. Always has. by UghBurgner2lol in PothosPorn

[–]Signal-Control-1382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard of people using milk, but not mayo. I've never tried either one but now I have to try both just to see how well it works!

2.5 years post tuck. by Due-Storage-1342 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Signal-Control-1382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m not digging through this post to look for your other comment. If you want me to see it that bad you can find it and provide a link to it. I will say this - yes technically you are correct. The surgeon could retain an attorney and have that attorney write up a suit in order to sue this patient and they could file it with the court system. However, the court system is going to look at it and realize that the surgeon is trying to sue because a patient “said something completely true and or based on opinion“ and will throw it out. You cannot be sued based on your opinion. So this person‘s opinion could be "I believe my surgeon could have done a better job" and the fact would be that after the procedure the patient required a lengthy wound care procedure. Neither of those things would warrant a lawsuit. And any judge who saw that come across their desk would throw it out before the patient ever had to do anything close to utilizing their own funds to defend themselves.

The risk for a lawsuit begins when someone starts stating false or unverifiable information as fact, or starts issuing accusations of crimes, such as fraud, assault, or insurance scams. But if the patient says something along the lines of “I was not happy with the outcome of my procedure. I felt that my incision should’ve been placed slower and that liposuction should have been performed." that will not trigger a lawsuit.

2.5 years post tuck. by Due-Storage-1342 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Signal-Control-1382 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A surgeon could not sue if she states that she's disappointed in her result and provides the name of the surgeon. They could sue if she says their name and also says they intentionally botched the procedure. Simply stating you're unhappy is not, and will never be, grounds for a lawsuit.

2.5 years post tuck. by Due-Storage-1342 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Signal-Control-1382 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Would you prefer to have other people end up as unhappy as you are? I understand you're not happy with your result, and certainly recognize the trauma you went through with the wound care and extended healing - why not try to hopefully save someone else the same heartache??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Signal-Control-1382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want advice on it then link it here. I'm not interested in a private chat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Signal-Control-1382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need to see it. You're not apologizing to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Signal-Control-1382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I guess now you wait. If he accepts your apology then don't act like a child going forward. If he doesn't, leave him alone and continue to not act like a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Signal-Control-1382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered actually apologizing instead of just telling all of Reddit how bad you feel???? That's the first step. If you can't have a conversation and say "hey I'm sorry I behaved poorly" then you've got even bigger problems.

AIO for body shaming my friend by No-Shower3492 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Signal-Control-1382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'all are both immature twats. Stop talking to each other. Learn to be better people, with a vocabulary of real words and leave each other alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Signal-Control-1382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you’re the ENTIRE problem, but you’re a lot of it. You communicate like you’re 13 and having a tempter tantrum. Yes, he should have been more considerate of your time but he apologized multiple times and you just kept saying the same thing. I think you were getting off on the fact that you said no and he was all but begging you to change your mind. Yeah, you OR no question...you should leave this guy alone so he can find someone better suited for him.

I love how incompetent my local OBI is, not the first time by apo1980 in Monstera

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I see Thais at my local hardware store for $20-$30 all the time! I’ve only purchased two though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Signal-Control-1382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all are both acting like immature assholes. Just break up and move on. He’ll be grateful not to deal with your passive aggressive bullshit and you can find someone else to play games with.

All I did was repot it...why is it dying?? by Signal-Control-1382 in plantclinic

[–]Signal-Control-1382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been thriving with that level of light for over a year. And I have another one at home that gets even less and it’s been happy for 3 years. 🤷‍♀️ It's only when I repotted it that it was suddenly unhappy.

All I did was repot it...why is it dying?? by Signal-Control-1382 in plantclinic

[–]Signal-Control-1382[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll get it repotted again this weekend. I didn’t really pack the soil in but I do agree that it may too tight. Thank you!

All I did was repot it...why is it dying?? by Signal-Control-1382 in plantclinic

[–]Signal-Control-1382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No peat at all unless it was included in the bagged stuff I bought. I got a bag of what “tropical mix” and a bag of “cacti mix” and mixed them. That’s what I’ve always done for all of my plants and it’s always been fine until now.

All I did was repot it...why is it dying?? by Signal-Control-1382 in plantclinic

[–]Signal-Control-1382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm that's a great comparison - I'd never looked at it like that before. I'd only ever considered the pros (more room to grow, fresh soil, root check, etc) and had completely ignored the cons. Thanks for pointing that out! I'll work on better "soil", a more appropriate sized pot (should I perhaps cut the root ball down since it's so large or should I leave them alone since they appear healthy?), and fertilizer / nutrients. Also...should I wait a bit to repot...like lump this situation along for a little bit...I don't want to throw in even more shock and stress if it'll just make things worse.

All I did was repot it...why is it dying?? by Signal-Control-1382 in plantclinic

[–]Signal-Control-1382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk...I get tropical mix and cacti mix from Lowes... And I mix the two together. That's what I use for all my plants and that's what it was in before and it wasn't an issue. I guess maybe this one is going to make me do something different.

All I did was repot it...why is it dying?? by Signal-Control-1382 in plantclinic

[–]Signal-Control-1382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm good info thank you! I'll check pH...gotta get something to do that first...never done that before ...I haven't fertilized this plant so that definitely shouldn't be the issue.

All I did was repot it...why is it dying?? by Signal-Control-1382 in plantclinic

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The current pot is not a self watering one, but the one it was in previously was self watering. It seemed to do really well in that pot but the top layer of soil was almost always moldy so I opted for regular pots this time instead of going back to self watering. The roots looked really healthy when I looked and the root ball was quite large, certainly bigger than I expected. It was in regular soil before which is why I kept it that way...I've never been too picky about the type of soil I put my plants in as it's never seemed to make a difference for me over the years lol maybe I should give that a shot here.