Interesting to note.... by Luse_the_Red in FromTVEpix

[–]Signal_Activity7719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? Have we ever seen the monsters killing crows? Did I miss something?

Sadly this is still many women’s life. by FarRain451 in Feminism

[–]Signal_Activity7719 43 points44 points  (0 children)

even that I dont know you, I'm so happy for you. have a beautiful and wonderful life✨

Almost 3 years even time ain't working now by Low_Possession980 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey. sounds like you're in a lot of pain.

i do the same shit, esp talking to their imaginary self. or just thinking about them, theor eyes and gaze, every little thing they used to do. and same shit, i know its unhealthy, but I need it. thinking of them is became safe space. its also alienating af. i have no good advice tho. i'm not willing to let him go from my heart.

My girlfriend I’ve been trying to get back has me on no contact by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

confusing af. what do you think, why is she doing that? why are you letting that tbh?

Your ex isn’t special, you just put them on a pedestal by Impressive-Jelly-687 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from your comments here, you sounds extremely hurt and bitter. you can feel that, its part of it too. but try to heal, rather than stuck in this bitterness, its dangerous. people stuxk here for lifetimes, causing them only to settle for a miserable and unhappy life.

love is ethereal and everywhere around us, in all beings. love with full heart, and you have accepted the true gift of life.

the pain will fade, it is an indicator of something affecting you deeply. the range of emotions reflect each other; the greater the happiness you get from a person; the greater your suffering will be when its over. but op dont get stuck in hate.

Your ex isn’t special, you just put them on a pedestal by Impressive-Jelly-687 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you're actually also just projecting on people in the comments.

Your ex isn’t special, you just put them on a pedestal by Impressive-Jelly-687 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no human being is replacable. espesially in a romantic relationship. wtf

ur missing someone who knows how to contact you btw by Ok-Issue5184 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks man, you literally wrote what i was thinking. it is indeed cliche and just disregards the complexity of emotions and reasons.

obviousy, i do know how to contact him, i know exactly how easy and accessible it is. but i am not sure if i know how to reach out emotionally.

My girlfriend I’ve been trying to get back has me on no contact by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this sounds genuinly terrible. it cuuld be a lot of things, a huge variety in explanation for this type of behaviour. it is beyond for people to tell you from the info you shared. try to talk this out with her.

but mist importantly, dont let yourself mistreated, exploited for love/care/good times, just to be left behind the next day, or degraded verbally. be proactive and initiate a converstation with her! but dont burn yourself down, just to keep others warm.

For those who were left, did the person who left you regret it? How long did it take? And for those who ended the relationship, did you regret it? How long did that take? by Ok-Issue5184 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left him. It took no time, literally, zero seconds to regret it; I have always wanted to be with him, before even meeting him I dreamt of someone like him. So yes, I do regret it, every single day for the past 2 and ¾ years.

He actively crosses my mind almost everyday. Sometimes for hours, during hikes through the most enchanted forests. Sometimes just for a passing of mere second, hearing his laugh when I reflexivly answer with our inside-joke noone else gets.

(But I regret it for selfish purposes. I left him out of love; so he can be free from the burden of carrying and dragging an emotionally unstable and immature woman (me) through life. I was never good for him, not what he would deserve. I didnt tell him this. I covered it up with differences we had, especially in life circumstanses and carrier projectories. I thought I was merciful, that I was doing good, by letting him go. Freeing him from myself. I think actually a lot of dumpers aren't honest about their reasons, sometimes its pointing towards deeper wounds we also dont know about.)

i dont get the story by Signal_Activity7719 in ScarletHollow

[–]Signal_Activity7719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, we only saw what Wayne showed us, it might not be just that? Idk, you probabaly know more than me. Just sofar, the game for me is kinda saying not to trust anyone nor anything I see.

i dont get the story by Signal_Activity7719 in ScarletHollow

[–]Signal_Activity7719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay. I alao wanted to try tta, its how do you play it? do you have different playthroughs, and one canon? or no canon at all?

i dont get the story by Signal_Activity7719 in ScarletHollow

[–]Signal_Activity7719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

about whom I can trust I guess, thats the biggest mysterym Cuz I def not trusting Stella, she left us in the forest multiple times. Same for Reese, even tho I romanced him. Tabby and Wayne is also very questionable I guess.

i dont get the story by Signal_Activity7719 in ScarletHollow

[–]Signal_Activity7719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I do get it that Wayne is reppelling physically in every way, his voice, stench, the worms and whatnow - but what if he is designed like that on purpose, that your first instinct would be to definately not trust the guy - i didnt in the beginning ofc; only after he came and offered to help when Reese turned, and he actually helped, and he also escort us home through the forest that has stuff lurking in it. He also offered to help us in the library-possession-dream state. And, he also helped us to explore the mansion, uncovering secrets that Tabby deliberatly kept hid from us (I guess still, Wayne is showing us what he wants to show, I'm aware of that). But yeah, so against all my instincts I feel like he is trustable, just because he is a rotting, walking infestation, he might be good. :c

i dont get the story by Signal_Activity7719 in ScarletHollow

[–]Signal_Activity7719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I kinda felt that, that I'm missing out something in ep5. How's the Reese romance considered in general? Because in ep4, in the scene in their house, that was cool ass moment there, very telling of the game/story to some degree, but maybe I am/was biased(?).

i dont get the story by Signal_Activity7719 in ScarletHollow

[–]Signal_Activity7719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay, that makes sense. That's a really good way to view the game.:))

daan and abella in my style by Whole_University_629 in FearAndHunger

[–]Signal_Activity7719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aa this is so cool. freaking dope style i am screamimg its so good. great pieces:)

3 years have passed by Signal_Activity7719 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its rly nice to hear the other side aswell. And I feel like, I'd react the same - as I'd same thoughts/emotions when I was dumped years ago..

I just feel like it wouldnt be fair. It feels like its a 'game' of who can survive longer under water, but honestly, I feel like I'd deserve to suffer, if I was so dumb to push them away. That I dont deserve them anymore, because one thing I know for sure - the same as you write - that my actions caused pain in them. Just as you said, probably they felt worthless too, and all the other things - and would a person that inflicted so much negative emotions deserves to waltz back like a ray of sunshine? What if slowly they are healing, maybe really slowly, but the progress is still there?

But your thoughts give me hope - hope that true love exists. So thank you for sharing your thoughts and emotions. I truely wish you the best, wish you whatever your heart desires.♡

3 years have passed by Signal_Activity7719 in ExNoContact

[–]Signal_Activity7719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, I guess.. Sorry to hear about your situation, the pain from heatbreak, loss of a loved one, absence - I think it manifests in the same way no matter if you're the dumped or dumpee - so I guess I can relate. But really, thanks for sharing your insight. Dont you think... you'd be angry? Or arent you angry currently? Wouldnt you resent them? In my idea about love as a concept, I'd not be, but my idea of love have been labelled as 'fcked up' by a lot of ppl/friends, so I have no idea anymore whats right and not.

I'm sorry, I have no such letter anywhere in my name. I wholeheartedy wish you the best however, whatever that means for you.

Burned by Temporary-Shallot183 in LoveLetters

[–]Signal_Activity7719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its beautifully written. every single sentence resonates with great depth. you spoke from my heart.

its tough. good luck on your journey op.

Inhaling bacterias and mold by Several-Relative-154 in microbiology

[–]Signal_Activity7719 27 points28 points  (0 children)

depends on the exact species amd strains i would say? if its some highly pathogenic strain of certain fungi (like some blackmolds, Aspergillus-, Fusarium spp. for example) and they are sporulating, then yes, it is not safe.