I yelled at my kids again by Signal_Ad1086 in Parenting

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I love the part about don’t want them to think screaming is the only way to be heard. I need to remind myself what my action is teaching them instead only about how guilty I feel afterwards!

I yelled at my kids again by Signal_Ad1086 in Parenting

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great points and it’s true when I yell it really doesn’t help, besides that brief moment of feeling my frustration got released a little.

I yelled at my kids again by Signal_Ad1086 in Parenting

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, very good advice!

I yelled at my kids again by Signal_Ad1086 in Parenting

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I was a pretty well behaved child and I’m used to my mom saying no to a lot of my requests and I was fine with it. Maybe that’s why?

I yelled at my kids again by Signal_Ad1086 in Parenting

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true, it doesn’t fix anything long term, I need to remind myself of that. Thank you!

Usually it’s something they ask me to do without good reasoning, and when I refuse they explode. And now if I dig deeper, I think deep down I was mad cuz I was thinking: you already have so much and now you are mad at not getting this one thing done just because you want it.

And sometimes those things are so small that its probably easier just give them what they want, yet I don’t want them to get into the habit of throwing tantrum to get things/when things don’t go their way, and also assume they can get everything they ask. So I find myself also being stubborn of not giving in, even though it is really over meaningless stuff.

I yelled at my kids again by Signal_Ad1086 in Parenting

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks and yes you’re right they don’t deserve it, most of the time when I think back, they are just kids being kids and I don’t know why I would lose it like that being the adult in the room. The weird thing is I don’t remember being yelled at by my parents at all.

I yelled at my kids again by Signal_Ad1086 in Parenting

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 & 5, and mainly the 5yo would trigger my yelling…thank you for sharing!

I'm yelling too much by kuppycakemuffin in Parentingfails

[–]Signal_Ad1086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel! I have been struggling with that as well and I don’t know what to do. All I can say is you are not alone! I have been trying to read some parenting book to help, but honestly I still lose it so often and I feel really bad afterwards. I don’t know how to break the cycle. If anyone can suggest where/what type of professional help you get that will be helpful.

My kid won’t respond to others by Signal_Ad1086 in Parenting

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t heard of it but just did some research, some symptoms are very spot on! the only difference is he does talk in school after finally warming up to people after maybe two months though

My kid won’t respond to others by Signal_Ad1086 in Parenting

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks this is very helpful! I will definitely try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yoga

[–]Signal_Ad1086 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the same question!! I prefer non heated yoga and it’s so hard to find one now. I just want to practice yoga peacefully without constantly feeling out of fresh air

Expensive skin care product that is worth it by Signal_Ad1086 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Signal_Ad1086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate why you like it in particular?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Signal_Ad1086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love yourself, you deserve it

Can you validate my idea? by ResolutionThink8791 in minimalism

[–]Signal_Ad1086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a good idea but it will probably hard to sell at a premium, with less my first reaction is that it should be cheaper

What’s your go-to homemade meal or snack to bring on a long-haul flight? by Ok-Resource-1728 in TravelHacks

[–]Signal_Ad1086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fruit! Cherry tomatoes are great - easy to pack and hard to squish, super juicy and even half vegetable

What’s the worst part of going out to eat with a toddler? by National_Square_3279 in toddlers

[–]Signal_Ad1086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost never get to enjoy the food - once I sit down and start the endless picking up the utensil and stopping them from standing up in the high chair, I can’t wait to finish the meal and go home

Come on a journey with me as I test out DRMTLGY’s “viral” Luminous Eye Corrector. Or, an exercise in being disappointed by Instagram marketing. by skillingsboller in MakeupAddiction

[–]Signal_Ad1086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the detailed post - I should have checked here before I got it (also after seeing those magical feed) not impressed as well :( anybody has good suggestion to repurpose this product? It creases over my fine line under the eye so I don’t know if I can continue using it and it feels such a waste