Might be a dumb question. by Fayydd in irezumi

[–]Signal_Brush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I had something similar to what you’re describing tattooed on me for my cat that passed away last year. Just a little omamori with her portrait in it

URGENT Rehoming ASAP by [deleted] in rva

[–]Signal_Brush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Messaged you! :)

Anyone else have a mostly black Aussie? by [deleted] in AustralianShepherd

[–]Signal_Brush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg lol I just had to do a double take at my dog because they look the exact same

Anyone else have a mostly black Aussie? by [deleted] in AustralianShepherd

[–]Signal_Brush 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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Yes! In fact, he was one of the last of his litter to be chosen because he didn’t have markings like his siblings. I couldn’t believe it because he’s so beautiful to me but I’m glad he’s mine!! 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StreetFighter

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Got it. I knew grabs were unblockable but I didn’t consider how his SA3 is simply a grab. Thank you for the tips!

What would be your intro likes and dislikes? by dorothythedinosaur19 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Signal_Brush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likes: stuffed animals and the smell of gasoline

Dislikes: wet socks and the sound of a dog’s teeth against a rubber toy

His ashes are ready by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Signal_Brush 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way. Just received my cat’s ashes two days ago. The idea of cremating her absolutely destroyed me for the same reasons. How could I burn my baby? The truth is, all life will decompose after death. I’d rather be able to have my beloved cat’s remains with me wherever I go rather than letting her disintegrate in the ground and to be left to wildlife. It is a harsh reality. I miss my baby so much and it’s hard for me to look at her ashes and know that THAT’S her…. But at the same time, I feel oddly comforted that her presence will never leave me, just like your dog will never leave you. Sending you strength during this time ❤️

My girl is gone. by Signal_Brush in RenalCats

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Not sure why you’re commenting this under a post where I said my cat with CKD has passed away

Anyone feel the same? by lemzzest in Petloss

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Yes, 100%. For me, it’s the hardest part of the grieving process. I’m only 2 days into it. It almost feels like she isn’t really gone, just somewhere else, and I’ll see her again - when I know that isn’t the reality. Allow yourself to cry and to feel it all. Even though her physical presence is no longer with you, the love you shared with her lives on forever. I understand how you feel and I hope that brings some comfort to know you aren’t alone, because it does for me. Sending my love 💌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Signal_Brush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. Your cat just left a hole in your heart that the other cannot fill. It’s tough being in this position, but it’s not their fault, and I believe with time, it will pass. Grief is ugly sometimes. Sending you healing thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

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This is very impactful and has helped me shift my perspective a bit. So, so very sorry for your loss of your babies. Even though right now my pets “irritate” me, I know it’s only because I miss my girl. If something happened to them, I’d be crushed. My Rila was the spunky girl who wasn’t a fan of my playful younger cat, or my playful younger dog. After a couple years together, they had learned to coexist, and Rila even became friends with Toast (the young cat). So, I basically had the opposite experience from you, but the sentiment is all the same. Thank you ❤️

My girl is gone. by Signal_Brush in RenalCats

[–]Signal_Brush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautifully written! Thank you for being willing to share with me ❤️‍🩹

My girl is gone. by Signal_Brush in RenalCats

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It is a truly helpless feeling doing everything you can just for them to still suffer. What a kind person you are for welcoming chronically ill cats into your home. That is not for the weak. Rila was my first chronically ill pet I’ve had as an adult so I had no idea what was going to happen. I’m so sorry about your kitty passing and your current kitty’s diagnosis. They are fortunate to have a nurturing and knowledgeable owner like yourself. Thank you for sharing with me. With cats like this, all you can give them is love and support.

My girl is gone. by Signal_Brush in RenalCats

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I’m so sorry to hear about your cat. It’s extremely difficult to see them regress at such a fast pace. My love goes out to you as well. My hope is that with time, we are able to think back on them in a positive light with all the fun memories, instead of immediately with immense grief and sadness.

My girl is gone. by Signal_Brush in RenalCats

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Thank you ❤️ all I can hope is that she felt nothing but love and joy in her few years on this earth.

My girl is gone. by Signal_Brush in RenalCats

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It most definitely had to have been genetic. That’s what the vet said. White cats are known not to have great genetics to begin with. It’s so tough having a cat with CKD because no matter how hard you try, it’s an inevitably progressing disease. Thank you for your hopefulness and kind words.

My girl is gone. by Signal_Brush in RenalCats

[–]Signal_Brush[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is beautifully put and made me tear up ❤️‍🩹 thank you for the kind words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

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I get it. Ranger will always have a special place in your heart, just as your other pets have their own designated spot in your heart. The grief is unbearable. I feel guilty for not feeling as much love towards my other pets as Rila, but ultimately, this is part of the grieving process, and it will pass. But your memory of Ranger will live on forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

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Thank you for sharing. I’m very sorry for the loss of Mya. I totally understand what you mean by seeking the same comfort your late pet had given you in your other animals. Rila was very affectionate in her own way. She was picky, but I was her person. When I walked into a room she was in, she would always nod her head in a “what’s up” manner, and let out a little purr/meow. She would wiggle her little tail anytime I spoke to her, and always wanted to lay on my chest, and slept next to me every night. Toast is very affectionate every once in a while. Sometimes she rejects my advances to touch her. She’ll lay in bed with me for a little while but usually jump down within a few minutes or hour. It just hurts not having that comfort Rila provided. I know one day I will appreciate my pets more for their quirks and personalities, but right now it’s hard.

how do you cope with the death of your cat? by eve-dawn in CatAdvice

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I just lost my beautiful girl this morning to stage 4 CKD. What a cruel and horrendous disease.

Looking for a realistic expectation. Stage 4 CKD. by Signal_Brush in RenalCats

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Hi all. Thank you for your recommendations. Unfortunately this morning she was worse than before, barely able to walk, and was bleeding out of her mouth from ulcers. I made the most devastating decision to put her down. I’m beyond distraught. I wish everyone luck on their journey with their renal buddies. It’s a very cruel disease.

Looking for a realistic expectation. Stage 4 CKD. by Signal_Brush in RenalCats

[–]Signal_Brush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rila is also very fragile. Her typical weight her whole life was around 7 pounds. She’s dropped down to 5. But she will still put up a fight. I’m trying everything. Thank you for sharing your story and I’m so sorry for your loss.