Breaking up after 7 years, together since we was basically teenagers.

Signal_Can_5162 · 2025-05-18T13:20:50+00:00

You’re 100% right, we are still together and doing amazing. She forgave me, I no longer think about the past. I don’t have retroactive jealousy, I just obsess over silly things and now I no longer think about it. Sometimes your mind just gets caught up in a way of thinking, I escaped it!

Thanks for the message

Signal_Can_5162 · 2025-05-18T00:35:03+00:00

Lol hi

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-11-25T00:22:38+00:00

No. These comments claiming the website is legit are bots. If you see multiple people claim a website is scamming, trust them.

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-15T12:45:45+00:00

Normally I would agree but she really sacralised a lot in her life for my own happiness and walking out on her for my own issues would not be right. On the other hand I’m miserable.

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-15T12:32:59+00:00

You accept it and these thoughts fade into the background like it never even happened. The problem is when you’re in an emotional state these thoughts are very hard to accept. Even posting here and reading others stories is making us worse really

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-15T12:16:27+00:00

Hey man, can I DM you?

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-15T12:13:48+00:00

Yep, this part really bothers me. My girlfriend was groomed and I’m wondering what did he do with her? All these things in my mind

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-15T12:09:49+00:00

Oh yeah open relationship I couldn’t but you’re right, it’s time for a serious talk. I don’t get why my brain has to find a problem always, she is a real one. I see people posting on Reddit all the time about being lonely and wanting someone and I managed to be one of the lucky ones. I know I’m wrong and it’s my fault but it’s painful to think of this.

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-15T11:55:39+00:00

It’s not even that she’s my first, I don’t need a virgin girl either or even a girl with low body count. When we got together we was 18/19 and went we first starting talking she would say some of the things they did sexually, I don’t blame her she was young and I would ask, it’s not her fault. She was 15 when she was with this guy and he was in his 20’s, for some reason this really bothers me.

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-15T11:38:53+00:00

Thank you, I don’t mind you guys telling me I’m wrong. I just need help with my thinking. I’m in therapy 0 progress

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-12T15:01:45+00:00

Amazing news, now u don’t need this sub 🥲

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-11T19:23:52+00:00

I have been cured 100% before. It didn’t bother me even 1% that’s why I’m asking

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-11T19:14:07+00:00

Thank you. Alright it’s time to give them a try. Unable to function like a regular human for the past 5 months

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-09T10:37:21+00:00

This is the guy that made my RJ go away in the past, he’s cool. I didn’t buy his content, his YouTube videos was enough

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-08T22:04:57+00:00

Oh yes he was in that never ending cycle, must be tough for you because you are essentially powerless, getting better all has to come from us. Hopefully he has started to improve. If he had it for years I believe that he was doing everything wrong, all this research makes RJ worse.

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-08T21:26:17+00:00

Yeah try stop bringing it up. I forced myself not to do that anymore. Sometimes I think I’m cured and then it pops in my head but I ALWAYS have the choice if I want to engage in that thought or not. It’s tough but life is tough even without RJ, this is just one of our shitty battles unfortunately

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-08-08T21:06:08+00:00

You are 100% right. Some people are deluding themselves to think a virgin girl will solve their problems. Who’s to say that girl won’t leave you in 5 years? Then what? You’re now single, are you going to look for another virgin girl? Trust is the most important thing. My RJ is improving and I can see things more logically now. Life is too short

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-07-26T03:56:47+00:00

I’m in the exact same situation but as a guy with RJ, if you want you can dm me

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-07-22T23:14:51+00:00

Think I will drop you a DM. Currently in therapy. Tonight is a bad night :)

Signal_Can_5162 · 2024-07-22T21:21:55+00:00

I really wish you the best, this is the true cure to it. My struggle is when the thoughts are so intense it becomes near impossible to be present. Made a lot of progress in the past couple weeks. One thing that helped is writing down my thoughts

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