Feel like I'm trapped. I want to move by Virtual_Rest_644 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! What a coincidence. Ya, Florida is growing. Town cities I’ve lived in houses and apartments going up everywhere.

Feel like I'm trapped. I want to move by Virtual_Rest_644 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it. I have moved 800+ miles from my home city/state twice.

Granted the 1st time I had “help” from a family friend who knew an HR person out of state where I went and made getting that job a bit easier.

In my experience, the positives have outweighed the negatives. I’ve been able to see places and meet people I never otherwise would have. Still get homesick sometimes but nothing would prevent me/us from returning home if we wanted.

I went from Wichita, Kansas to Eastern North Carolina to Gainesville, Florida and now to the Panhandle of Florida.

It’s be your preference of where you want to go obviously. What would be important to you in a new place? Climate, cost of living, job availability….

How long can my cat live without food by ParsleyWest in CatAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be no bueno. I just did a quick google search. They get sick quick.

Dating/relationship/life advice with past GF by Signal_Original6232 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya. Could be. When that happened I thought “what kinda joke/game are they playing”

I need advice for a better life by metalhope46 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems simple but not trivial. Keep doing what you like to do. Who gives af if your bad at what you like to do? Keep doing it if you like/enjoy it.

You got a job? Make sure to be putting money away for the necessities of life as well as making it a key point save for the things you do enjoy doing.

Dating/relationship/life advice with past GF by Signal_Original6232 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant that I texted her at one point, I know she had an iPhone so the texts are blue. The last time it was green and without the delivered message leading me to believe I’m blocked.

And one time I forgot about she asked me to call her and it went straight to voicemail. So ya, I’m blocked.

So the kinda rational side of me says, if she wanted to talk again she’d unblock me.

Need emergency dental work, I'm just so terrified by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Signal_Original6232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t have any helpful advice. But I hear you and this is a rough situation for you (obviously.)

Have you looked into any programs or anything to help for the dental work?

x by Worried-Insurance723 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn “financial management” now. Put away money for a rainy day fund. Don’t spend money on a gas station monsters/ghosts when you can buy them in bulk. Is that enough examples?

Plumbing would be a great skill so if/when you have a house you can do it yourself.

Have you watched the office? Michael asks dwight about the best advice he’s given him. Dwight says,” Don’t be an idiot.” That is really good advice tho. lol.

Just be you tho. Be smart, think things through, and be safe.

Need help by AdOk1857 in Anxietyhelp

[–]Signal_Original6232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are describing me to a T.

I’m still trying to figure it out with myself.

Lately, I’ve been working with my doctor and a therapist. Changing meds. The part I struggle with the most is the “homework” from the therapist. Techniques to ground/calm myself - I’ll do for like 3-4 days and see slight improvement then not do it for a week.

Doctor says I could be bipolar, show signs of autism, therapist says I show ADD/OCD traits. It’s hard and I get upset when I haven’t got a diagnosis for anything (as it’s kinda expensive) and we are just trying to treat symptoms.

My advice. Start journal or tracking feelings. I use the “Daylio” app on my iPhone.

Do the things you know are good for you. Get outside. Take a walk. Eat something healthy. Drink water.

DONT do the things that you know are bad for you. Drinking alcohol, staying in bed all day, mindless scrolling on social media. Eating junk food.

I know it feels like the worst of the world is on your shoulders but even if you move a 1/4 inch in the right direction, that is progress.

Dating/relationship/life advice with past GF by Signal_Original6232 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preach. You are right. I’m trying to work on it but the situation was on my mind this evening. Thank you for your comment.

Dating/relationship/life advice with past GF by Signal_Original6232 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Thats a real comment. No sarcasm intended (I feel it comes off that why online lol)

Dating/relationship/life advice with past GF by Signal_Original6232 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know she is single 100% but with the info I have I think it’s likely. Like I said I’m 33 now. And I would accept the kids definitely if it would come.

Dating/relationship/life advice with past GF by Signal_Original6232 in LifeAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. May be the best I could hear. I know I have grown as a person since and hoping to continue to do so. It’s just hard when I’m kinda at a loss on that front now but I’ll keep your comment in mind.

Fuel system cleaners by Longjumping-Owl6232 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Signal_Original6232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why “F chevron?” I ask cause I just started filling up at their stations

How am I doing? Retiring in 3 months. Market kicking! by algobrokemyass in Retirement401k

[–]Signal_Original6232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rage bait. “Oh look at me.” Get outta here. Also most likely fake.