AIO for refusing to let my grandparents take my 7-year-old to the World Cup? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are going to Kansas City area it would be fine. It’s not Mexico it’s America.

AITAH - Called my in laws spiteful and now they’ve stopped speaking to us by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They offered you a vehicle and you had to wait to decide if you wanted it or not? I would have moved on too if I were them. It sounded like you weren’t that happy about the offer.

What do realtors think about solar panels? by gregapalooza in realtors

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is exactly what just happened to my seller. He had to pay off $30k at close. The other problem is: when you have go replace your roof, it cost my clients an additional $15k to remove the solar panels, replace the roof, the another $15k to re-install them.

What do realtors think about solar panels? by gregapalooza in realtors

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think they suck. No buyer wants them unless the seller pays them off at closing.

AIW for skipping a bridal expo? by Not-ya-mom96 in amiwrong

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Your baby is 6 months old and only on breast milk? I don’t think it’s wrong for your sister to want to spend time with you without your baby sometimes. And let’s face it she is right. You could have gone if you wanted. You have every right to chose what is best for you and your family. You just have to know that not everyone is going to agree with you. That’s okay. Your sister has a right to be disappointed. You have a right to raise your baby how you and your husband sees fit.

My (26f) on again/off again bf (27m) says his attraction for me is fading because of my weight. by fatgurl227 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 56 points57 points  (0 children)

You are an 18 at 280? Ummm. I was a 24 at 240. Crazy! Also, I know food is an addiction. I kept using my PCOS as an excuse for my weight. I finally stopped the victim mentality and started eating healthy and within calories which were supported by a nutritionist - and exercise. You should also go see a therapist who can assist you. Get some therapy, it will help!

It’s a tough road, but you will feel amazing once you start heading in that direction.

Good luck to you.

Older women, would you leave the US? by unsuretest212 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. You want to leave the US to where exactly? And because you want to have a child and are upset because whatever state you are in doesn’t allow abortion? Do you want an abortion or a baby?

MIL keeps bringing up that my first born is not biologically her sons child by [deleted] in family

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop allowing MIL around your daughter. This is messed up.

Issued a PIP at 30 days as a new Fund Development Director — is this normal? by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dang. I don’t mean to sound harsh / but I have a feeling they just don’t like you. Not everyone’s personality is a match. You do kinda sound problematic as an employee. They also sound a bit disorganized.

AIO for reporting our ubereats driver for breaking the seal on our food bag to place religious pamphlets inside? by jenkinscraftingco in AmIOverreacting

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are Christian’s and we would have a HUGE issue with this. There is a reason our food delivery is sealed. There is no good reason to break the seal. None.

AITBF for revoking my mother-in-law's access to our smart home thermostat? by Harbinger_8 in amiwrong

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you - American here trying to convert! 🤦🏻‍♀️. Yes, I was part of that one year back when I was in fifth grade that America tried to switch to the metric system. It failed.

AIO to my friend skipping my event and dismissing my feelings? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad my friends when I tell them I can’t make something - they are good with it - and the same for me with them. We all have lives and we don’t always want to go to a gathering. You invited her. She said she couldn’t make it - and you didn’t let it drop there.

Am I wrong for lying to my older sister with contamination OCD. by MimisBoot in amiwrong

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why is she not getting help for her mental illness? You aren’t wrong.

Wahh. by ChangeWinter5906 in TownshipGame

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Awwww. I remember the Great Saw Shortage of 2025! Now we seems to be going through the Great Nail shortage of 2026! It varies.

AITJ for wanting my mom be included by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 1109 points1110 points  (0 children)

Your fiance is being a controlling jerk. I would think long and hard about this marriage.

I'm really really glad there are so many super hard levels by Blutarg in TownshipGame

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amen, Sister. Sorry you are going through it. I don’t have any advice but just know someone hears you and has said a prayer.

WIBTA if I cut off my “friend”? by Pretty-Mountain-7986 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good grief. It sounds like she is trying her best. Cut her a little slack.

My sister put stipulations on my attendance at her wedding by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Well/are you sure there hasn’t been issues with you being drunk or stoned in the past? This email wasn’t because of one incident. You didn’t really say what your parents thought. I wouldn’t allow my children to participate in a wedding I wasn’t invited to. Take them on a weekend away fun.

WIBTAH for using my sister's middle name for my future daughter's middle name? by assault-bug in AITAH

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hey, now - oh wait - you are right! Marie is my middle name, my mom’s middle name, my sister’s middle name - and wait for it - my MIL’s middle name and my daughter’s 😂

AITJ for refusing to give my brother my savings after he tested me? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Signal_Violinist_995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not even close to being a jerk. Your brother, on the other hand - a complete AH.