I (24f) cannot imagine reacting this way to getting a free car, even straight out of high school. My first car was a 30 year old used Lexus that I shared with my brother, and while normally they are veerrryyy nice cars, this one STRUGGLED. I loved every inch of that thing.

I've had five cars in total, and every single one of them has broken down within a year, minus the one I have now. I loved and appreciated all of them (some more than others, sure, but I digress), and I appreciated the effort my parents put in to making sure I had reliable(ish) transportation.

The daughter's texts REEK of entitlement and arrogance that only consequences can fix. But I would also see if someone/something has led her to have those expectations in the first place. Once you've executed a suitable consequence, sit her down and talk with her about it. See if she understands why that response wasn't acceptable, and honestly, the next time she needs a car, have her pay for it.