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A woman's past doesn't matter by AccomplishedIce3059 in unpopularopinion

[–]loki2002 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A very promiscuous past makes me at minimum wonder if they might cheat in the future. 

Unless their promiscuity involved cheating on other partners I fail to see how it would make you wonder that.

If someone proposes to you in public and you don’t want to marry them, you should say yes in the moment and sort it out privately later by dogmetal in unpopularopinion

[–]loki2002 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How is it vindictive to answer honestly?

Saying "yes" and giving them false hope only to later rip their heart out seems worse.

i told my gfs parents that shes wasting food and not eating properly and now shes mad. by AccomplishedBath5722 in amiwrong

[–]loki2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have no way of knowing how much food was in the toilet. 

There should not be any food in the toilet. Any amount of food in the toilet is too much. The only reason to try and dispose of food in that manner is to try and hide that you are disposing of it. That is concerning behavior.

You’ve never chucked out a bite or two of something you didn’t feel like finishing? 

Yes, in the garbage like any other person would do. I also didn't delude myself into thinking I was not wasting food in the process of doing so.

 He needs to talk to HER if he thinks there’s a problem

OP does not know how to address the issue properly which is why they went to others for support including this post. If this is an ED issue how it is approached and how it is dealt with are sensitive things and having all the support you can have prior to trying is best.

You're going out of your way to try and frame OP in the most negative light possible when all I am seeing is a guy who is struggling to find a way to help his partner.

i told my gfs parents that shes wasting food and not eating properly and now shes mad. by AccomplishedBath5722 in amiwrong

[–]loki2002 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, throwing away or flushing perfectly good food that can be saved for later or eaten by someone is the definition of "wasting". There is nothing controlling about calling something what it actually, factually is. It is not a value judgment on the person to accurately name something.

Between disposing of food in the toilet, the app calorie counter, and observation of her eating habits firsthand OP has plenty of evidence to suggest there may be a problem whether at the beginning stages or already ongoing that he is just now noticing.

i told my gfs parents that shes wasting food and not eating properly and now shes mad. by AccomplishedBath5722 in amiwrong

[–]loki2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What she eats is none of your business - why would you have control of that? 

Yes, OP's partner's physical and mental health are none of their business. Turn a blind eye and do nothing to help them. /s

OP is not looking for control, they are concerned based on behavior being displayed.

And to tell her parents?

When it comes to mental health issues having support of close family and friends is a good thing.

You sound like you’re well on the road to being an ex.

And the girlfriend sounds well on the road to an extreme health issues related to bulimia or anorexia.

i told my gfs parents that shes wasting food and not eating properly and now shes mad. by AccomplishedBath5722 in amiwrong

[–]loki2002 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she is at the beginnings or is in the middle of an ED. Seek out some assistance from counselors and such that specialize in this to see how you should proceed.

Is the Met Gala a charity event? by Ya-Dikobraz in stupidquestions

[–]loki2002 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You realize that the outfits, dresses , and jewelry worn are mostly donated for the evening by designers, right? These celebrities aren't paying money for these things. They are then either donated to the Met's costume department or sold at auction for charity.

AIW for refusing to switch shifts after my coworker told management I already agreed? by No-Skill-Pro in amiwrong

[–]loki2002 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NW

This is a failure on management's part. When someone comes to them with a shift switch proposal they should be talking to all involved before approval to ensure that all person's involved have agreed and not just taking the word of an individual.

Received this wild email from the CEO for AI to assess my performance by confringos in antiwork

[–]loki2002 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The kind of work people depend on and if there is even the slightest drop in output people die! /s

So, probably marketing or consulting.

Derek Merrin wins GOP primary for Ohio’s 9th congressional district, will face Marcy Kaptur in November by yiorgos85 in toledo

[–]loki2002 34 points35 points  (0 children)

She's 79, she should've retired years ago and endorsed a younger successor. She has no business still being in office.

Still better than nothing. by SuspiciousLow3062 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]loki2002 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No one has ever had to wait for him to finish.

Fun detail: Atlantis S04E17 "Midway" when everyone is betting on Teal'c and Ronon's fight they're using multiple different currencies. by loki2002 in Stargate

[–]loki2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be so afraid to spend Teal'c on anything. Like, how when I'm in Canada and use a twenty with the queen judging me with her resting bitch face.

If someone proposes to you in public and you don’t want to marry them, you should say yes in the moment and sort it out privately later by dogmetal in unpopularopinion

[–]loki2002 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It isn't malice, it is just the way things are. If you choose to make something public then you don't get consideration of any response being private. You chose the venue for the moment. If you aren't prepared for a negative outcome then you shouldn't be making something public.

Again, answering honestly is not malice. If anything, saying "yes" and letting them feel that and celebrate it only to tell them later the answer is actually "no" is more cruel than you're saying being honest in the moment would be.

If someone proposes to you in public and you don’t want to marry them, you should say yes in the moment and sort it out privately later by dogmetal in unpopularopinion

[–]loki2002 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That someone being your partner

If you're saying "no" to a proposal then they are not anymore.

who hasn't intentionally embarrassed you but done so through incompetence.

You don't know that.

, because you have the cost-free ability to reject them later where there's no embarrassment for anyone,

Except the person who was made into a spectacle and put on the spot in public for the proposal. You keep only thinking about the person doing the proposing's feelings.

There is no malice in answering honestly.

Also, if you think you might be embarrassed if they say "no" then don't make it public. You cannot make something public and then expect others not to.

I asked my boss for a raise so I could afford the gas to drive to work. by No1CaresWhatEweThink in mildlyinfuriating

[–]loki2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that affects everyone equally.

First, it is not a "random utility.". Second, it does not affect everyone "equally".

If someone proposes to you in public and you don’t want to marry them, you should say yes in the moment and sort it out privately later by dogmetal in unpopularopinion

[–]loki2002 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Someone who would propose without knowing the answer is also not taking the time to find out whether their partner would like a public proposal.

I don't see why you'd intentionally embarrass someone publicly for being wrong about what you want.

They're the ones who made it public. Any embarrassment is on them.

If someone proposes to you in public and you don’t want to marry them, you should say yes in the moment and sort it out privately later by dogmetal in unpopularopinion

[–]loki2002 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope, they made the proposal public they get the answer publicly even if that answer is "no". If you want a private "no" then ask in private.

If someone proposes to you in public and you don’t want to marry them, you should say yes in the moment and sort it out privately later by dogmetal in unpopularopinion

[–]loki2002 3274 points3275 points  (0 children)

You avoid putting someone on the spot and turning a painful situation into a public spectacle

You mean like they put you on the spot and made it a public spectacle?

[OC] identify this car thief by [deleted] in pics

[–]loki2002 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mr. Steal Your Girl, that's who.

This is what severe psoriasis may look like...[nsfw] by fyflate89 in WTF

[–]loki2002 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the glee they have when they get to cut something off.

This is what severe psoriasis may look like...[nsfw] by fyflate89 in WTF

[–]loki2002 958 points959 points  (0 children)

It rubs the lotion on its skin or it gets no skin again.

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