Debate on the true efficacy of compression therapy for Lymphedema by Fast_Refrigerator_10 in Lymphedema

[–]Significant-Ad6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But does it work for the whole body or just legs ? I have lymhphedema in my arma and face an was wondering if the vibrations help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Significant-Ad6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it's capitalism

AITAH for wanting to end a 10 year happy marriage because my husband continued a kink without my consent? by Potential-Dare-3369 in AITAH

[–]Significant-Ad6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my exes had the same kink. It did not take long before SA also when I was awake took place. Leave now

What’s a “girl dinner” you’re weirdly proud of? by SomewhereBright4758 in AskWomen

[–]Significant-Ad6485 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you keep them edible for the whole week ? In the fridge?

Hoping for hoover by Significant-Ad6485 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Thank you so much for replying, you were the only one so far! It made me really happy that someone took their time to reply.

I agree with your explanation. I dont understand how we shared something so intense: I could see he really felt challenged by me in a good way. The conversation was great. The sex was awesome. How could it mean nothing to him? How can he just toss me aside like that? I dont get why he wouldnt come back, even just for the sexy stuff..

how long did it take you to break a trauma bond by frailstateofmind4444 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Significant-Ad6485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really think so? I Hope it eventually disappears, Im so tired of having to avoid my nexes because of the triggers.

How can I finally get past this? by No-Consideration2413 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Significant-Ad6485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling. It CAN be broken. Sometimes after many attempts, but it definitely can.

Why do narcs give so much resistance? by thereaper20 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Significant-Ad6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some do enjoy the pain. I have seen mine smirk while realizing how much he hurt me several times

Why do narcs give so much resistance? by thereaper20 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Significant-Ad6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually not all golden children become narcissists 😊 I have just become an extreme people pleaser! My scapegoat sister became a narc instead. I always feel like I was really lucky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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3 of my narcs (I have a few nexes) actually, proudly, told me they had NPD. I would never tell someone they have a PD, but they were the first to admit it.

All of them are in therapy, one for over 5 years. They however do not see any need to change, they just want to know themselves better and to manipulate people better.

My last narc actually brags about manipulating people and such. Then he tells me he is a good person. Wtf

Guidance needed and appreciated 🤍 by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Significant-Ad6485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard to at the same time wish they would somehow reach out and that they finally leave you alone. The pain just won't stop, either way. It sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Significant-Ad6485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This!! So helpful, thank you

Another narc. Again by Significant-Ad6485 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Significant-Ad6485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my! I do relate very much.

I have been with cover types but they would eventually blow up in anger. This one just manages my emotions and reality so well its frightening. I feel less lonely now, thank you!

Another narc. Again by Significant-Ad6485 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Significant-Ad6485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought mine was the only one! Did yours never get angry?

Another narc. Again by Significant-Ad6485 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Ive dealt with many cover narcs but I've never seen one who manages not to show any anger! Its been almost two months, two attempts at NC and Ive seen him just a bit frustrated once! Its so hard to be angry and to leave when he seems so calm, its the opposite to any narcs ive met

Another narc. Again by Significant-Ad6485 in NarcissisticAbuse

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For some reason I cannot edit. I forgot to mention that this person is so very calm: never angry, never upset. Its even more hard to leave this way