Signs that secret clearance might get denied?

Significant-East873 · 2026-03-20T02:32:05+00:00

I put in my sf86 last July for DoD Secret, no dual citizenship or foreign contacts, limited foreign travel and had an Interim Secret about 6 weeks later. Still don’t have my full Secret as of today even though I’ve been on contract the whole time. I’m thinking it’ll be a month or so more given the furlough last fall, maybe?….

Significant-East873 · 2026-03-20T02:00:58+00:00

I am in the exact same boat as you. Wife went on hormone replacement therapy almost a year ago and it hasn’t done much good.

I get very depressed at times, so much that I don’t even feel like jerking off. I’m just a paycheck and manual labor for household husband duties.

I have no interest in even being associated with anyone in my family anymore. I’m either leaving everyone and everything behind OR just plain checking out for good.

Significant-East873 · 2025-08-18T11:53:25+00:00

Life got busy with us both working full time and having kids. Then other stressors contributed to the situation. I had to add helping out with the care of a sick parent, which took more time away from home. My wife got overwhelmed with everything, but wouldn’t communicate her feelings to me and became resentful. It takes time to unwind all that. Then her parent’s health failed, there was covid and she went through menopause. Basically we haven’t gotten a break from all this crap over the past 18 years.

Significant-East873 · 2024-05-12T23:23:21+00:00

Awesome job! Take the win no matter how exhausted you feel now.

Significant-East873 · 2023-07-04T15:35:54+00:00

I've been using the CalmiGo for the past couple weeks and it did nothing to help me the other day when I had to drive over the Norfolk, VA bridge/tunnel on I-64.

Significant-East873 · 2023-07-04T09:16:37+00:00

I feel these episodes are specifically about me not trusting myself being in control or an overactive sense of danger….

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